We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Lucy Kull. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Lucy below.
Lucy, so great to have you with us and we want to jump right into a really important question. In recent years, it’s become so clear that we’re living through a time where so many folks are lacking self-confidence and self-esteem. So, we’d love to hear about your journey and how you developed your self-confidence and self-esteem.
Confidence and self-esteem are qualities that underpin personal growth and resilience. This journey of self-assuredness is a continuous one, marked by various milestones and personal insights.
Significant boosts to my self-esteem have come from accomplishing goals, be they major or minor. In earlier years, these goals were substantial, life-altering achievements, such as completing my education, securing a dream job, and achieving independence. As I’ve matured, I’ve come to appreciate the value of smaller, more manageable goals. Everyday tasks, like redecorating a room, tending to a garden, or going for a walk, have become opportunities to celebrate achievements and bolster my self-esteem.
Throughout my journey, I have often found myself in roles that demand a high degree of independence. While collaboration with others is a part of my work, the core of my responsibilities is individual. This solitary work environment, though occasionally isolating, has taught me the importance of relying on intrinsic motivation and having faith in my abilities, even when external affirmation is absent.
Self-doubt is a universal experience. However, I have developed a unique strategy to counter this feeling. I approach situations as if they were experienced by someone else. When doubting my own capabilities, I imagine a close friend facing a similar challenge. I recognize that I believe in their ability to overcome it. This change in perspective allows me to be my own best supporter during moments of uncertainty.
Every challenge, whether deliberate or unexpected, tests my self-confidence. Instead of avoiding challenges, I deliberately seek them out to evaluate and enhance my confidence. Embracing challenges and setbacks has become a means to fortify my self-assurance.
Cultivating self-confidence and self-esteem is an ongoing journey. It entails setting and achieving objectives, embracing self-motivation, and learning to treat oneself with the same kindness and conviction that one affords to friends. Challenges and setbacks are not to be feared but welcomed as avenues for personal development. As this journey continues, I am reminded that self-confidence is a continuous process, with each stride forward bringing me closer to becoming the best version of myself.
Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?
I am the proprietor of Redux Society, a social club and bookstore located in Kansas City. Our primary mission is to foster connections and build a sense of community. What excites me most about this venture is the opportunity to bring people together through shared interests.
At Redux Society, we offer a diverse range of events, classes, and products to cater to a broad audience. Whether you’re passionate about reading, board games, partner dancing, or simply meeting new people, there’s something here for everyone. Our bookstore features a curated selection of books and board games, while our dance classes provide an enjoyable way to learn and connect.
We take pride in hosting a variety of themed events that offer unique and immersive experiences. Looking ahead, we have some exciting events on the horizon. These include a Spooky Photoshoot scheduled for September 17th, a captivating Wild West Murder Mystery event on September 22nd, a Meet & Greet with the talented local author Madeline Vaughn on September 24th, and an engaging Banned Book Club discussion on September 28th.
I’m passionate about creating a space where people can engage, learn, and have fun together. It’s an exciting journey, and I’m thrilled to continue expanding our offerings and bringing the community closer.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Reflecting on my journey, three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge have been particularly influential:
1. Resilience: The ability to bounce back from setbacks and keep moving forward has been crucial. In the face of challenges and obstacles, maintaining a resilient mindset helped me persevere.
2. Adaptability: Flexibility and adaptability to changing circumstances have been essential. The capacity to adjust strategies and approaches when needed allowed me to navigate unexpected turns effectively.
3. Continuous Learning: Embracing a commitment to lifelong learning has been invaluable. Staying open to acquiring new knowledge and skills has not only enhanced my expertise but also kept me agile in a dynamic world.
For those embarking on their journey, my advice is simple:
– Cultivate Resilience: Understand that setbacks are part of the journey. Approach challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. Each obstacle you overcome will make you stronger.
– Embrace Adaptability: Be open to change and ready to pivot when circumstances require it. Flexibility allows you to remain responsive to evolving situations.
– Commit to Learning: Never stop learning. Continuously seek knowledge and skill development. Whether through formal education or self-directed learning, expanding your abilities will broaden your horizons and improve your adaptability.
Remember, the journey is a marathon, not a sprint. Stay focused, stay resilient, and stay curious about the world around you. Your journey is uniquely yours, and every step forward is a valuable part of your growth.
One of our goals is to help like-minded folks with similar goals connect and so before we go we want to ask if you are looking to partner or collab with others – and if so, what would make the ideal collaborator or partner?
We are indeed open to collaboration and eager to connect with fellow business owners. Our areas of interest for collaboration include:
– Instructors: We are actively seeking instructors who are enthusiastic about teaching lunch-time or midday classes, particularly those catering to homeschool students or stay-at-home parents. If you have expertise in a relevant field and are interested in sharing your knowledge, please feel free to reach out to us.
– Local Authors: We have a special interest in connecting with local authors. If you are an author based in our community and would like to showcase your work through book sales or author signings, we would love to hear from you.
– Local Game Makers: For those local game makers who are passionate about their craft, we are interested in exploring opportunities to collaborate. If you have unique games or products to share, please do get in touch.
– Locally Made Products: We offer the possibility of selling locally made products on consignment. If you create locally crafted items and are interested in discussing consignment arrangements, we welcome your inquiry.
To connect with us for collaboration or to explore potential partnerships, please reach out to us through our website or email us at [email protected]. We look forward to the opportunity to collaborate and contribute to our vibrant local community.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.reduxsociety.org
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reduxsociety
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reduxsociety
