Meet Jaida Pervis

We were lucky to catch up with Jaida Pervis recently and have shared our conversation below.

Jaida, we’re so excited for our community to get to know you and learn from your journey and the wisdom you’ve acquired over time. Let’s kick things off with a discussion on self-confidence and self-esteem. How did you develop yours?
Developing self-confidence and self-esteem is definitely an ongoing process involving both self-reflection and intentional actions. Personally, I’ve found quite a few strategies to be effective such as understanding my strengths and weaknesses which is huge for any business owner.

  1. Understanding my strengths and weaknesses has been crucial. I regularly reflect on my achievements and failures learning from my challenges, to help keep me grounded and build a realistic self-image.
  2. Setting achievable short – and long-term goals. Accomplishing these objectives, no matter how small, contributes significantly to my confidence. Celebrating milestones reinforces a positive self-perception, and is a complete game changer!
  3. I start my day with positive affirmations! I consciously replace any potential negative thought with a positive one. Reminding myself of past successes and affirming my abilities helps build a positive mindset, which is fundamental to self-esteem.

Simply surrounding myself with positivity and choosing to spend time with supportive and positive individuals always puts a smile on my face. When running a business, it’s important to have a supportive circle, that uplifts you and cheers you on along the way. Their encouragement and constructive feedback contributes to my sense of self-worth.

Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?
My journey to matchmaking began in 2013 when a friend suggested I consider matchmaking as a career. At the time, I matched friends, as well as colleagues, and I was always giving them advice about managing their dating lives. After working with one of the largest matchmaking organizations in the country, I then moved on to a smaller, more boutique firms. I started my own company, Flirting With Forever, a little over a year ago. With over a decade of industry experience, I have an opportunity to meet, and work with some dynamic individuals.

I am often asked if I enjoy what I do, and the answer is YES!! Being a matchmaker is such a rewarding career that goes beyond the surface level of simply connecting two people. It involves the art of understanding their unique qualities, desires, and compatibility factors. Being able to witness the joy and fulfillment that blossoms from successful matches that I put together, is truly rewarding and brings a deep sense of satisfaction. A colleague of mine put it best stating “we are truly changing lives.” The ability to facilitate love and companionship to those that may feel they are a lost cause, not only brings happiness to the individuals involved but also fosters a sense of accomplishment for myself as well. Having worked with hundreds of couples over the course of my career proves that there truly is a lid for every pot!

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

  • Empathy and Insight are crucial as a matchmaker. We need to have the ability to empathize with clients and understand their unique needs, desires, and values. This involves active listening and asking insightful questions to uncover the nuances of what each client is looking for. Developing the ability to read people and understand their personalities, as well as their communication style will aid in their success down the line. This insight will allow you to make more accurate and personalized matches, increasing the likelihood of long-term compatibility.
  • Being able to communicate effectively and provide constructive feedback is essential. Strong and effective communication skills, will help not only in your professional life, but your personal life as well. In my industry, clients need to trust that we have their best interests at heart and that we are making thoughtful, well-informed recommendations. Building and maintaining trust requires honesty, transparency, and open communication
  • Being an outside of the box thinker and stepping outside of your comfort zone can be touch, but is very necessary. Successful matchmakers often have a broad network of contacts. That could mean attending industry events, chatting it up with people at your local restaurant, or even striking up conversation while waiting to catch a flight at the airport. Getting creative means being uncomfortable at times, but in the end, it is well worth it!

Tell us what your ideal client would be like?
My ideal matchmaking client is someone who approaches the process with an open heart and a genuine desire to find a compatible life partner. They possess self-awareness, understanding their own values, priorities, and what they seek in a relationship. They are also open to feedback and guidance, recognizing that matchmaking involves a collaborative effort. Ultimately, this client maintains a positive and patient attitude, understanding that finding the perfect match takes time. They approach the experience with a sense of adventure, trusting the process while remaining proactive in their own search for love.

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