Meet Rebeccah Silence

We recently connected with Rebeccah Silence and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Rebeccah, we’re so appreciative of you taking the time to share your nuggets of wisdom with our community. One of the topics we think is most important for folks looking to level up their lives is building up their self-confidence and self-esteem. Can you share how you developed your confidence?

For decades, confidence meant resilience and my ability to survive the impossible. I grew up in a household filled with domestic violence. My first marriage was marked by domestic violence as well. In my twenties, I was a single mom on the brink of bankruptcy, working three jobs, struggling with an eating disorder, and abusing alcohol. In 2014, at 34 years old and pregnant with my second child, I was diagnosed with cancer and given only a 5-10% chance to live. I survived and was reborn.

For years, I knew I could overcome any circumstance, yet I had almost zero self-esteem. I abused myself in the same ways I was abused growing up, telling myself I was worthless, denying myself food and rest. The amount of self-betrayal and neglect I had normalized still brings tears to my eyes. Today, I equate confidence with authenticity and alignment.

After cancer, life became about being free to be me and creating a life that fit me, not a life where I tried to fit in. Achievement isn’t my goal anymore. Knowing, loving, and trusting myself to be fully me, connected to God, is where it’s at. I now serve and achieve from my spirit, appreciating my ambition and what I create as I serve every day. What I am most proud of is the powerfully relaxed and real me that I’ve become.

Self-esteem these days is about continually owning my worth and stepping into even more receiving, enjoyment, and pure bliss. Life is about experiencing the best of ourselves, others, and love. Confidence and self-esteem can carry us through any challenging moment or season when we choose to connect to our own souls and authenticity. Confidence can heal. Self-esteem can heal. You can trust that it’s safe and right to be even more yourself whenever you feel the urge to dim your light.

My greatest wish for you is that you recognize it’s time to turn the volume all the way up on being even more you.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

I am the space where all healing is possible. My clients and audiences consistently get at least one of these three results after working with me or experiencing my book, courses, and media appearances. The first is, they find themselves and their joy again. The second is, they get their dream come true love story. The third is, they emotionally heal through deep wounds and traumas that they didn’t think were causing them so much inner turmoil or if they were aware, they innocently thought they would just have to live in spite of the heartbreak, no matter what. They fully heal and clear their past. Many get all three.

In 2024 I am focused on kids having healed parents. I’m helping 1 million families heal this year. It’s my honor to share with you my complimentary short film, The Three Must Know Secrets to Heal and Save Your Family that you can access and utilize right away at rebeccahsilence.com. My message is simple. Life is meant to feel good. You are meant to feel good. I teach people how to emotionally heal so that generational trauma cycles can really stop with my clients and so that their kids, spouse, and community can experience who they really are.

We must be careful with each other’s hearts, starting with our own. I’ve got thousands of success stories that showcase miraculous healing that leads to freedom and profound intimacy and happiness. I want you happy. I want you free. I want you resting in your unshakeable wholeness letting yourself be amazed and delighted every day of your one precious life.

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

The top three lessons I’ve learned along the way, which have changed my life and my ability to serve at the highest levels, are these. First, nothing is wrong. That doesn’t mean nothing is hard or non-preferential. Life goes our way, then it doesn’t, and then it will again. But none of that is about you—it’s just life being life. When you realize that nothing is wrong, you understand that life is just happening, not to us or for us; it’s simply happening.

The second lesson is massive: we always have a choice. I can always choose to source from fear and avoid pain or from my spirit in the pursuit of pleasure. As a cancer survivor, I put this lesson to the test. I was told I would die, but I chose to believe that I could commit to living regardless. I have had 20 cancer-related surgeries, and each time, I powerfully chose to have the procedure, knowing I could say no. There’s always a choice, even in the toughest scenarios. Choose disempowerment and suffer, or choose empowerment and you win.

The third lesson I’ve learned is that I have a responsibility to be my best and to make the best of every moment, keeping my heart open regardless of what’s happening externally or with other people. People don’t owe us anything, and they are certainly not the cause of our pain or pleasure. We suffer when we’re not ourselves. Most people don’t know themselves that well. They try to be who they think they are supposed to be or who they think others need them to be, and it’s painful. Being your best isn’t about manipulating results or outcomes. It’s about being able to sleep at night knowing you showed up as your best. That’s how you find deep inner peace.

One of our goals is to help like-minded folks with similar goals connect and so before we go we want to ask if you are looking to partner or collab with others – and if so, what would make the ideal collaborator or partner?

It’s important to me that my work reaches as many people as possible. I’m interested in media appearances, interviews, and opportunities to contribute articles. I’m also committed to writing more books. Most importantly, I want to showcase the couples and family healing work I do on my own fully produced and network-backed TV show. This isn’t reality TV; it’s healing TV that empowers and transforms every viewer and every home it touches.

Additionally, I’m looking to collaborate with other healers and thought leaders who can support me in getting my Emotional Survival Kit Course into schools, employee assistance programs, jails, hospitals, the military, and more. This course has the potential to profoundly and quickly heal people, teaching them how to be emotionally clear and the best versions of themselves for the world.

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