Meet Baljit Rayat

We recently connected with Baljit Rayat and have shared our conversation below.

Baljit , so good to have you with us today. We’ve always been impressed with folks who have a very clear sense of purpose and so maybe we can jump right in and talk about how you found your purpose?

I discovered my purpose by overcoming a deeply challenging period in my life. In 2005, I was struggling with panic disorder and depression. On the outside, my life seemed picture-perfect—I was living in Toronto, Ontario, with a successful career as an Architectural Technologist at a prestigious firm. But internally, I was suffering. The panic attacks not only robbed me of my happiness but made me question everything about life, including my purpose for being here.

Despite things appearing fine externally, I felt completely numb inside. That’s when I made a pivotal decision to heal naturally. I sought support from a homeopathic doctor and a naturopathic doctor, and through that journey, I began to thaw out from the emotional numbness that had taken over me. As I reconnected with my emotions, I found my voice again—a voice I hadn’t realized I had lost. This reconnection also allowed me to trust my intuition, something I had always possessed but often ignored or doubted.

Learning to trust my gut was transformative. It empowered me to honor my ‘yes’s and ‘no’s and has been a vital part of my journey toward setting healthy boundaries. I’ve realized that without clear boundaries, we’re less likely to live in alignment with our purpose because we aren’t honoring or respecting our own truth and needs.

As a recovering people-pleaser, regaining my voice has been essential. The more I’ve chosen to stand in my power, the more aligned I’ve become with my purpose, which has had a profound ripple effect on the people around me—leading to stronger, healthier relationships.

Finding your purpose isn’t just about external success; it’s about doing the inner work. It requires facing your shadow, taking personal responsibility for how you show up in the world, and having the courage to align with your truth. That’s where the true transformation begins.

Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?

My journey weaves together multiple disciplines that I’m deeply passionate about. As a Certified Sexologist, Authentic Tantra Practitioner®, Akashic Records Consultant, Intuitive Mentor, DJ, and Producer, my work is centered on helping people rediscover their innate gifts, purpose, and talents by reconnecting with their sexual power. This connection allows them to unlock their true potential and live in alignment with their soul’s purpose.

A key part of my approach is helping clients see the relationship between their sexual energy and their soul. Our sexual power is a core aspect of who we are, and when people can tap into that energy, it creates a ripple effect across all areas of life—business, relationships, personal growth, and creativity. By addressing and transforming limiting patterns, I support clients in manifesting prosperity, peace, and embodiment on a deep level.

Professionally, I’m focused on raising the vibration of humanity. I’ve had the honor of working with thousands of people globally, guiding them to uncover their truths and create profound shifts in their lives. Whether it’s through one-on-one sessions, group work, or even through my music as a DJ and producer, I aim to elevate consciousness and inspire people to step into their fullest expression.

I believe everything in this world is energy, and when we get to the root of desire—especially through the lens of sexual energy—we can access powerful transformation. My work is about helping people recognize that their power lies within and guiding them to express it authentically in the world.

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?

Intuition: Learning and teaching the Akashic Records has profoundly sharpened my intuition, which I now rely on as my primary guiding compass in all areas of life, particularly in business and relationships. It helps me navigate decisions with clarity and purpose, ensuring I remain in alignment with my highest truth.

Energy Management: This is a critical component of living in alignment. When we carry unresolved trauma or limiting patterns, we often approach life through the lens of survival—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. Left unaddressed, these patterns can create disempowering dynamics that lead to poor energy management, both internally and externally. Receiving the right support can be transformative, helping you reclaim your time, energy, and presence, while bringing you back into your body. This is key to living a life aligned with your purpose.

Healthy Boundaries: Before becoming a certified sexologist, I was a self-proclaimed “people pleaser,” which made it difficult to gain clarity on my next steps in business and relationships. Establishing healthy boundaries has been a game-changer. It allows me to honour my priorities and live in alignment with my purpose, while also empowering others to show up more authentically in their own lives.

Before we go, maybe you can tell us a bit about your parents and what you feel was the most impactful thing they did for you?

I am incredibly grateful for my parents because the most impactful thing they did for me was letting go and allowing me to follow a path that was completely different from both cultural and societal norms. Coming from a South Asian background, it wasn’t easy for them to accept my decision to step outside the expectations placed on me, especially given the fear of judgment and rejection that often accompanies such choices in our community.

Their ability to let go, however difficult it was, gave me the freedom to explore and grow in ways that aligned with my true self. As I committed to doing my inner work and healing, this growth didn’t just impact me—it also transformed my relationship with them. It created a ripple effect that shifted our family dynamic, deepening our connection and mutual respect.

I recognize that letting go is no easy for any parent, especially when their child chooses a non-traditional path. But their willingness to trust my journey, even when it diverged from what they knew, was truly the most empowering gift they could have given me.

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