Meet Joseph Garreffa

We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Joseph Garreffa a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.

Joseph, thank you so much for making time for us. We’ve always admired your ability to take risks and so maybe we can kick things off with a discussion around how you developed your ability to take and bear risk?

From a young age, I was taught that life was a canvas waiting for brushstrokes of courage. My first memories are painted in shades of adventure—trying out for school plays, diving headfirst into swimming pools, and, of course, exploring my own identity. Growing up in the 1980s as a gay boy, I learned early on that risk was a constant companion. It wasn’t just about trying new things; it was about daring to be myself in a world that often seemed hostile.

The news reports were unrelenting. I saw images of violence and heard chilling stories about people like me—gays who were suffering, being hurt, and facing hatred. I was deeply sensitive to the injustices around me. I could feel the weight of war, the callousness of government policies, and the restrictive nature of certain religions. Yet, amid this chaos, I found solace in books. I would sneak away to Barnes and Noble, spending hours immersed in history, seeking answers to how the world could change for the better. Each page turned was a small act of rebellion against fear.

Taking risks became a part of my identity. Each attempt—whether a failed audition or a clumsy skateboard trick—felt like a stepping stone toward something greater. I learned that failure was not the end; it was merely a pause before a new attempt. With every risk I took, I felt a rush of dopamine, a high that beckoned me to try again.

By the time I entered the workforce, I had honed this philosophy. However, the reality of my later jobs was disheartening. I found myself working systems and ways that seemed broken. Kindness was scarce, and the culture was one of competition and fear rather than collaboration and support. I realized that if I wanted to create a space that reflected the values I held dear, I had to take another leap of faith. So, I decided to start my own arts organization.

In 2020, Creative Arts Workshop was born. I envisioned a community hub for youth—a place where children and families could express themselves creatively, feel safe, and experience kindness. Launching the organization during a global pandemic felt daunting, yet it also underscored the need for connection and creativity. We adapted, finding innovative ways to reach our community, and as the months passed, we began to thrive.

What set us apart was not just our mission, but the team that formed organically around it. Each member shared a commitment to supporting one another and fostering an environment where risk-taking was encouraged. We worked together to problem-solve, striving to create a space where creativity could flourish without the heavy burden of bureaucracy. Our goal was simple yet profound: to make every child and family feel loved, safe, and inspired.

As we grew, new challenges emerged. I realized that every decision carried a risk, but I now had the tools to navigate them. I leaned on my moral judgment, my experiences, and the unwavering support of my family and peers. Yes, some of our initiatives would fail, but that was part of the process. I learned to own those failures, using them as lessons rather than sources of shame.

“Fear does not serve a business owner,” I often reminded my team. Every day presented an opportunity to overcome fear, to lean into the discomfort of uncertainty. The world is unpredictable, but I understood that embracing that unpredictability could lead to profound growth.

Through Creative Arts Workshop, I aimed to destigmatize failure and encourage others to take risks. We teach our students that it’s okay to stumble. It’s okay to fall. What matters is the courage to get back up and try again. In doing so, we create a generation of resilient individuals who understand that fear, while a natural part of life, doesn’t have to dictate their paths.

As I reflect on my journey—from a boy hiding in bookstores to a founder of a thriving arts organization—I see a tapestry woven with threads of risk, resilience, and community. Each thread represents a story, a lesson learned, and a risk taken. And through it all, I remain committed to the belief that life, much like art, is about the beauty found in the journey, not just the final masterpiece.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

As the owner and director of a youth arts organization serving the community of Rockland County, New York, my journey has been nothing short of exhilarating. What stands out most is the incredible growth we’ve experienced and the unexpected directions we’ve taken along the way.

Listening to the needs of our families has been the cornerstone of our success. Each conversation, whether casual or formal, has provided invaluable insights into what our community truly desires. By engaging with parents and children alike, we’ve been able to shape our offerings—classes, events, and workshops—in ways that resonate deeply with their interests and aspirations.

This process of active listening creates a mutual relationship. Families don’t just feel heard; they feel valued. It’s a foundation built on trust and understanding, which has allowed us to foster a supportive environment where creativity can thrive. For instance, after hearing from families about their desire for more after-school programming, we expanded our offerings to include a wider variety of arts-based activities. The response was overwhelmingly positive, and seeing those eager faces each week has been incredibly rewarding.

Moreover, as we’ve grown, we’ve been able to experiment with new ideas that I never thought possible when we first opened our doors. From community art shows to family-friendly events, each initiative has brought us closer to our goal of being a vibrant community hub. The excitement and enthusiasm of our participants remind me why I embarked on this journey in the first place.

Ultimately, the most fulfilling aspect of this work is witnessing the impact we have on the lives of young people and their families. When you create a space that prioritizes creativity and connection, the possibilities are endless. And as we continue to evolve, I look forward to discovering even more ways to engage with our community, inspire creativity, and nurture the artists of tomorrow.

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

Reflecting on my journey as the owner and director of a youth arts organization, three key qualities have profoundly shaped my path: resilience in the face of fear, the power of dreaming big, and the importance of continuous learning and self-reflection.

One of the most vital lessons I’ve learned is to never let fear dictate my decisions. In the early days of launching Creative Arts Workshop, there were countless moments of uncertainty. Instead of allowing that fear to hold me back, I embraced it as a challenge. Each time I face a daunting decision—whether it was expanding our programs or navigating community needs—I reminded myself that growth lies outside of comfort. This resilience has not only fueled my own journey but has also inspired our team and the families we serve to push through their own fears and embrace new opportunities.

Dreaming big has been essential to shaping the vision of our organization. I’ve learned that if you can visualize your dreams, you can begin to manifest them. This has been particularly impactful in setting ambitious goals for Creative Arts Workshop. By dreaming big, we’ve been able to create innovative programs that go beyond traditional youth arts education. Visualizing these dreams allows me to inspire others—my team, our students, and their families—encouraging them to see the endless possibilities that creativity can offer.

The journey of growth is ongoing, and stepping back to take stock of accomplishments is crucial. I make it a point to read about others who inspire me—learning their stories, ideas, and experiences. This practice not only broadens my perspective but also allows me to walk in someone else’s shoes for a while. By understanding diverse experiences, I challenge my own thinking and continuously push the boundaries of what’s possible. Furthermore, regularly reflecting on our achievements helps to reset my focus, allowing me to return with fresh insights and renewed energy.

In summary, the qualities of resilience, ambition, and a commitment to learning have been instrumental in my journey. They empower me to lead with purpose, inspire creativity, and nurture a community where everyone can thrive. Each day, I’m reminded that there are no limits to our potential—neither my own nor that of those around me.

What was the most impactful thing your parents did for you?

Growing up, I was surrounded by the steady rhythm of hard work and dedication. My father was the embodiment of that ethic, juggling multiple roles: he owned a concrete business, worked at Cadillac, and was deeply involved in youth sports and community social groups. His commitment to his work and his community was a constant source of inspiration for me.

My mother, on the other hand, dedicated herself to raising me and my siblings. Before I was born, she worked at Henry Ford Hospital in downtown Detroit. After my father was drafted to the war, she stayed home to care for my sister, Andrea, showing us the strength and resilience of a woman who balanced her own dreams with the needs of her family. Once we were old enough, she returned to work, continuing to model the importance of perseverance and adaptability. Mom has a steady and determined understanding of managing money and structuring security through financial literacy.

From an early age, my parents instilled in us a sense of responsibility. They encouraged my brother and me to pitch in around the house and participate in various chores. I vividly remember the days we spent hauling broken concrete, lifting it into a dump truck—tasks that felt monumental to our young selves. Those moments taught us not just the value of hard work, but also teamwork and the satisfaction of completing a job well done.

As I grew older, I took on my own responsibilities, like delivering newspapers and eventually working at a local pizzeria. I can still recall the pride I felt when my parents came to visit me at work. Seeing them walk in, their faces lighting up when they picked up a pizza, filled me with joy. My father’s simple praise—“Good job, Joe”—resonated deeply. Those words meant everything to me; they were a validation of my efforts and a reminder that my hard work was recognized and appreciated.

My parents excelled at showing up, both physically and emotionally. Their support was unwavering, and they taught me the power of presence—how actions speak louder than words, but how kind words can elevate those actions. It’s a lesson I carry with me today, as I strive to create that same environment of encouragement and support in my own endeavors.

Looking back, I realize that my parents’ example of hard work, resilience, and active participation in each other’s lives laid the foundation for my own journey. Their influence continues to guide me as I lead my youth arts organization, where I aim to show up for others just as they did for me. The lessons they imparted remain at the core of who I am—a reminder of the impact of dedication, encouragement, and love in shaping a meaningful life.

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