We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Alex Walton. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Alex below.
Alex , thank you so much for joining us today. Let’s jump right into something we’re really interested in hearing about from you – being the only one in the room. So many of us find ourselves as the only woman in the room, the only immigrant or the only artist in the room, etc. Can you talk to us about how you have learned to be effective and successful in situations where you are the only one in the room like you?
Growing up, going to predominantly white schools I was always one of the few, if not the only black person. So I guess you could say I’m used to being the only one in the room who “looks like me”. Ways I’ve learned to be effective/successful while being the “minority” are having self confidence. If I show that I’m uncomfortable in a situation where I’m the only black woman that can be taken as being weak. Giving the space to try and belittle me or make me feel less than, which I know is not the case what so ever. Treating people the way I want to be treated is something we were taught as children and it’s something I still apply to my life daily. Especially being in the career field that I’m in. To get respect you have to give respect. Any person who can mistreat someone or make them feel less than because of their skin tone, or they may have a disability or whatever the case is. It’s not right. I can remember while growing up I would find myself sticking up for kids whom I may have witnessed being bullied for whatever reason because wrong is wrong. And bullying is never acceptable. Especially if it’s happening around me. My parents taught me to be confident and have tough skin because people are going to talk regardless of how much good you may put into the universe. And to those people you smile and show grace. Don’t block your blessings or let someone ruin your day because they choose hate. Always hold your head high and believe in everything you say and do!
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
Currently I’m mainly focused on building up my business and maintaining/growing a consistent clientele base after becoming a solo esthetician at the beginning of June 2024. The journey has been a good one and I know I’ll continue to get better at my craft and learn new information to help further my business.
Stepping out of my comfort zone and entering into this career field has been one of the best decisions I’ve made. It’s pushed me to limits I never knew I could reach. I’m planning on relocating one more time at the beginning of 2025. This location is where I’ll be permanently working beside my husband!
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Looking back, the three qualities/skills that were most impactful in my journey would be self deciplice, the “want” to be better and learn more. And people believing in me and encouraging me to keep stepping out of my comfort zone. Words of affirmation are big for me, so to hear and feel positivity around me really means a lot. The advice I’d give someone who is in the early part of their journey is to keep going. Keep pushing yourself. Nothing feels better than setting a goal and accomplishing it! Believe in everything that you do and always give 100%. You get out what you put in!
Tell us what your ideal client would be like?
The ideal client to me is someone who is respectful. Shows up to their appointment on time. Someone who knows how to communicate if something comes up that may conflict with their appointment. Someone who appreciates the service they received. The main things for me are respect and communication! I want my clients to leave feeling confident and I love being able to provide that!
Contact Info:
- Website: https://alexs-lash-wax-haven.square.site/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luminousskinbyalex?igsh=MXNkZjRtZzZibjB2aw==
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