We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Takira Victorin a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Takira, we’re thrilled to have you on our platform and we think there is so much folks can learn from you and your story. Something that matters deeply to us is living a life and leading a career filled with purpose and so let’s start by chatting about how you found your purpose.
At the risk of sounding cliché, Therapy isn’t just my profession; it’s a core part of who I am. From a young age, I’ve been deeply drawn to listening to others, understanding unique experiences, and helping people navigate their relationships. I’m a first born daughter and a Capricorn. So if you subscribe to family dynamics/roles first daughters play and astrology, that should explain it all. Whether offering a compassionate ear or providing thoughtful guidance, I’ve always felt a strong calling to support others in their personal growth and healing. Over time, I realized that this calling wasn’t just something I did—it was who I was meant to be.
My journey into counseling began in high school when I became a peer mediator as a sophomore. This role introduced me to the transformative potential of conflict resolution and the power of empathetic communication. Through that experience, I honed valuable skills in problem-solving, decision-making, and active listening, all of which laid the foundation for my passion in therapy. It was through helping others navigate difficult conversations that I realized how fulfilling it is to be part of someone’s journey toward resolution, healing, and growth.
As I continued to learn and grow, I began to see how my natural ability to relate to people from all walks of life helped me understand issues from multiple perspectives. I realized that this ability was not just a talent but a gift that aligned with my purpose—to help others feel heard, validated, and supported in their journey. This discovery became the guiding force in both my personal and professional life. I understood that my purpose wasn’t just about providing therapy—it was about being a conduit for healing through connection, compassion, and understanding.
The more I worked with individuals from diverse backgrounds, the more I saw the incredible resilience in each of them. No matter the struggles they faced, they found ways to persist and evolve. Witnessing that resilience in others, and being part of their growth, affirmed for me that my purpose was to help people unlock their own potential. I began to see therapy not only as a career but as a path to purpose—one that empowers others to discover their strength and embrace their own capacity for change while continuing to remind me of my own.
Through these experiences, I’ve come to understand that my purpose as a therapist is deeply connected to my passion for human connection and growth.
Thanks, so before we move on maybe you can share a bit more about yourself?
As a black woman, a lot of the motivation behind my work is the opportunity to encourage and implore others to be radically intentional about getting the care they deserve. Throughout my own life and career, I’ve seen how easy it can be to overlook our mental health and well-being, particularly within marginalized communities. For many, seeking therapy or mental health support is not always seen as a priority or even a possibility. This is often compounded by cultural stigmas, systemic barriers, or the lack of representation in the mental health field. I have felt, both personally and professionally, how challenging it can be to advocate for one’s own healing when there is often so little external validation or access to the resources needed.
As a therapist, I help individuals and couples navigate the complexities of their relationships, both with others and with themselves. What’s special to me is that therapy is a collaborative process. It’s not just about offering advice or “fixing” problems; it’s about empowering my clients to take ownership of their own healing and growth. I view myself as a guide, helping them tap into their inner wisdom and resilience. Whether it’s managing stress, improving communication, or working through past trauma, therapy is a safe space where people can learn, grow, and transform.
Too often, people of color are expected to carry the weight of generational trauma, societal expectations, and personal struggles without the space to heal or receive the care that they deserve. My mission is to change that.
I am deeply passionate about helping people become intentional about their self-care—not just as a luxury, but as a necessary act of self-preservation and empowerment. Healing, for me, is an act of resistance. It is a radical choice to prioritize your mental health in a world that often tells you that you should be strong, self-sufficient, or even invisible.
In my work, I aim to create a space where individuals, particularly in the Black community, can feel seen, heard, and valued. I want them to know that it is not only okay to seek support, but it is essential for their growth and well-being. Encouraging people to be radically intentional about seeking care also means being an advocate for systemic change. I am committed to not only providing healing in my practice but also to working toward a more inclusive and equitable mental health system. I want to be part of a movement that destigmatizes mental health care for communities of color and ensures that therapy is accessible, relatable, and culturally competent.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
If I were to look back, I’d have to say the three most impactful qualities/skills are empathy, active listening, and lifelong learning— these have been the pillars of my journey as a therapist. My advice to those early in their careers is to invest time and energy into developing these skills, knowing that growth in this field is ongoing and ever-evolving. Remember that the work you do as a therapist is not just about helping others—it’s also about constantly evolving and nurturing your own growth. Self-awareness and professional growth is an ongoing process, which is essential for success in the field. Cultivating empathy requires self-reflection and practice. Give yourself grace, stay curious and open to learning, practice truly listening without interrupting, and be patient– embrace both the challenges and joys that come with this journey.
How would you describe your ideal client?
My ideal client is someone who is committed to their personal growth, open to vulnerability, and willing to engage in the therapeutic process with honesty, patience, and self-compassion. It’s a partnership, and the more a client is invested in their own journey of self-discovery and healing, the more effective our work together will be. I truly believe that therapy is for anyone who is seeking to make meaningful change in their life, and my ideal client is someone who is ready to take that step.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.therapywithkira.com
- Instagram: therapywithkira
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