Meet Kalain Hilderbrand

We were lucky to catch up with Kalain Hilderbrand recently and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Kalain, appreciate you sitting with us today to share your wisdom with our readers. So, let’s start with resilience – where do you get your resilience from?

I got my resilience from being alone and having nobody believe in me or my beliefs. To have the resilience to keep being me in the face of all adversity. To know deep within myself that I was born to be different and not follow the trends or status quo! That it’s very inspiring and courageous to stay yourself in a world where everyone wants you to be, act, think, and do like them. It was just never me. I’m 5 placements Sagittarius, so I definitely see a bigger and grander picture. Why would I put myself in a box to appease others? It wasn’t always like that though, when I was younger, I was lost, depressed, suicidal, and just felt I didn’t belong here. The more I got older, and the more backlash I went through, just simply made me stronger and have more self esteem and self confidence. I figured I’d rather die being me, than being someone else…and my whole world changed for the better and I’m soaring higher than ever. We all have a purpose, and I finally found mine! It was simply to be myself and my truth through all adversity! It’s a powerful position indeed… nobody can tell me about me and nobody can tell me how to be me, when they didn’t walk in my shoes down the very long and winding road I had to walk.

Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?

I’m a love, light, and truth spreader. I spread inspiration through the story of my life and the path I had to walk and overcome. People come to me for advice, counseling, and inspiration…because I’ve been through so many challenging experiences that I can relate to people effortlessly. I do Oracle readings, Dr. of Naturopathy, Minister, prophet, healing, I make medicine (natural), I make crystal jewelry, sun catchers among many other things. I’m just a natural creative and in my mind, there’s absolutely nothing I can’t do. I don’t see the same limits most people block themselves with. When people say something isn’t possible or I can’t do that, I’m classic at showing them I positively can… and so can they. I believe in the power of my mind. I’m a share holder with Angel Productions, Associate Producer of, Redhead 2, I’m a Author, speaker, model, and actress… like I said, I do many things, there’s nothing I can’t do. I go about each day wondering, “What can I do today, to be better and bigger than I was yesterday!” I’m absolutely not in competition with anyone except myself on a daily basis. I have a Podcast coming up, December 21st 2024 and I’m working on my 4th magazine, Fab Over 40 that I intend to win (I’m in the top 5 out of what started as 100s of thousands. Wish me luck !

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?

Honesty with self and others, dedication, will power! If you truly believe and have faith in yourself, without walking on people to get where you’re going, you can’t lose! I found when I help others up with me and be the change I wish to see in the world vs. competing with others or being jealous of anyone else’s path, things simply flow for me and very smoothly. It’s ok….and actually better, for everyone to win in life! Why not?!

Okay, so before we go, is there anyone you’d like to shoutout for the role they’ve played in helping you develop the essential skills or overcome challenges along the way?

I truly want to thank my supporters for standing beside me and having unconditional love for me! What made me strongest, hands down, my haters, nay sayers, and people who simply said I couldn’t! They pushed and inspired me to be all I can be and to believe in myself even more. Most people get discouraged or give up in those cases. I, on the other hand, became opposite. It pushed me harder into my self confidence, self worth, self control. I seen those haters were always where I left them and never changed their minds, movements, or life….so why listen?! I not only proved them wrong, I became their inspiration or they gave up targeting me. Either way I won, because I was their focus, and I was my focus.. which ultimately watered my garden beyond my wildest dreams! Thank your haters!

Contact Info:

• Instagram: kohilderbrand
• Facebook: Kalain Ormsby Hilderbrand
• Other: Link tree @kohilderbrand32

Image Credits

Mike MacNamera
Clyde Thomas
Cheryl Noack Photography