Meet Yumeng Gao

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Yumeng Gao. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Yumeng below.

Yumeng, so good to have you with us today. We’ve got so much planned, so let’s jump right into it. We live in such a diverse world, and in many ways the world is getting better and more understanding but it’s far from perfect. There are so many times where folks find themselves in rooms or situations where they are the only ones that look like them – that might mean being the only woman of color in the room or the only person who grew up in a certain environment etc. Can you talk to us about how you’ve managed to thrive even in situations where you were the only one in the room?

People studying and working in the U.S. often have numerous chances to be the only one in the room—whether it’s about identity, ethnicity, or individuality. When I was in university in Wisconsin, I was the only Asian in my major class. Being raised in Beijing first presented an obstacle, as I navigated life as a foreigner, but it also gave me a unique perspective that shaped my approach to problem-solving and collaboration.

I’ve learned a few key strategies to be effective as “the only one” in the group:

Don’t Be Afraid to Speak Up: It’s essential to let your voice be heard, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Confidence grows with practice, and your perspective can add significant value.

Think From Another Way: Instead of seeing differing ideas as obstacles, I’ve learned to use them as resources. Other people’s insights can become your helpers, not your bumpers, if you approach them with an open mind.

Combine Strengths: I focus on merging the good parts from both my perspective and others’. This synthesis creates well-rounded solutions and fosters innovation.

These lessons have carried into my career as a hospitality interior designer, where I frequently work with diverse background designers, teams, reviewers, and stakeholders. By blending my individuality with collaborative skills, I can bridge gaps and contribute effectively to projects, whether I’m designing for international brands or leading complex developments.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

As a luxurious hotel interior designer based in Los Angeles, my professional journey started in North Carolina, where I designed branded hotels like Hilton, IHG, Wyndham, and Choice. What excites me the most in my career is discovering rare materials, such as the versatile use of mother of pearl, the application of liquid metal, and customizing details like door handles and knobs to elevate each design.

Seeing my creativity come to life and learning from each project—what works and what can be improved—keeps me inspired. Now, I’m focused on crafting spaces that feel both luxurious and memorable, blending innovation with functionality.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

Looking back, three qualities have been most impactful in my journey as an interior designer:

Focus on Details: The ability to pay attention to even the smallest details is crucial. In design, every element contributes to the bigger picture, from material choices to customized features like door handles. For those starting out, I’d advise training your eye for detail—observe, analyze, and question everything you see.

Aspiration to Explore: A constant curiosity and willingness to explore new ideas, materials, and methods have shaped my work. To nurture this quality, step out of your comfort zone—visit exhibitions, travel, and keep learning from unexpected sources.

Persistence: Success doesn’t happen overnight. Insisting on pushing forward, even when things get tough, is what ultimately drives growth. For anyone early in their journey, I’d say: stay patient, embrace feedback, and keep improving—it all adds up over time.

What’s been one of your main areas of growth this year?

Learning to ask for help and share knowledge is my biggest takeaway. Reaching out to experienced professionals in the same field has been invaluable—it’s incredible how much insight can come from simply asking. I’ve also gained a lot from connecting with people in the adjacent fields, which brings bunch of fresh perspectives.

Equally important has been the realization that helping others is just as vital as seeking for help. Whether it’s sharing advice with peers or mentoring someone starting out, collaboration and mutual support have become key to my growth. It’s a cycle of learning and giving that benefits everyone involved.

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