Inevitably you will find yourself in a room where no one else is like you. They might not look like you, speak like you, pray or love like you or think like you. Managing to be effective in all contexts is an essential part of your journey towards reaching your full potential and so we asked some brilliant members of the community to share their stories and advice.
Nyla Monastero
Being the only one in the room that looks like me has taught me to embrace and amplify everything that makes me unique. I truly believe that there can never be another “Nyla” who does it like me. I’ve crafted my personal brand around my individuality—red hair, long nails, tattoos, ear piercings, editorial makeup, a slit eyebrow—traits that people often associate with rebellion or nonconformity. Yet, when I step into a room, I bring not only my confidence and intelligence but also a sense of style and professionalism that commands respect. Read more>>
Sadithi De zilva
In total honesty, it feels like a double-edged sword. You know you stand out because no one else looks like you, but sometimes it feels like you’re representing your entire community. I’m still figuring out if my success is because I’m the only one in the room like me or despite it. Read more>>
Klara Poznachowska
This really resonates with me as I am in minority studying jazz harp. There are not that many examples I can follow therefore I needed to come up with my own set of techniques and things that work for my instrument. Being on that journey alone made me stronger and reliable only on myself. It also taught me how to stay on the boat and going with the changes as smoothly as possible. Learning quickly and adapting to new situations was an inevitable skill I gained. However one of the greatest teachers I’ve had told me that everything is possible to play on harp and I should always seek the answers. Read more>>
Bex Clark
Looking the way I look hasn’t stopped me from learning how to be successful or effective in my career. In the tattoo and piercing world, it’s everyone against everyone. I have to stand out, and be myself in order for someone to want a tattoo or piercing experience with me. Everyone else in my family looks at me funny for the way I present myself, and what I do. I still make more money than them in this industry. I know how social media works, so I use it to my advantage to keep an online presence. Knowing your tools to get successful is a key factor in life. Read more>>
