Meet Selena Stamm

We were lucky to catch up with Selena Stamm recently and have shared our conversation below.

Selena, first a big thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and insights with us today. I’m sure many of our readers will benefit from your wisdom, and one of the areas where we think your insight might be most helpful is related to imposter syndrome. Imposter syndrome is holding so many people back from reaching their true and highest potential and so we’d love to hear about your journey and how you overcame imposter syndrome.

Overcoming imposter syndrome has been a journey, and it starts with reminding myself that no one starts out an expert—we all grow through experience. I’ve learned to focus on the value I bring to my clients rather than comparing myself to others. Seeing the trust and appreciation from families and professionals who rely on Tampa Lifestyle Management Co. reinforces that I’m making a difference. I also give myself grace, knowing that it’s okay not to have all the answers right away, as long as I stay committed to learning and improving.

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?

At Tampa Lifestyle Management Co., we specialize in helping busy families and professionals reclaim their time by taking on household tasks that often feel overwhelming. From laundry, meal prep, and personal shopping to house manager services and beyond, we’re here to simplify life so our clients can focus on what truly matters.

What’s most exciting about what we do is seeing the real impact it has on our clients’ lives. It’s not just about completing tasks—it’s about providing peace of mind, freeing up time for loved ones, and creating order in the chaos. Our work is deeply personal, and we take pride in being a trusted partner for those juggling demanding schedules. When clients walk in after we’ve worked our magic, I can practically see the stress disappear, like a sigh of relief. Let’s face it, who doesn’t need a little less chaos and a lot more time for the things that really matter?

Giving back has always been an important part of my family’s life. My husband Duane, who recently retired from the Marine Corps, and I have been committed to supporting the veterans community for years. We’ve helped homeless veterans and military members transitioning out of the military, and one of our proudest moments was when Duane organized the Veterans Day Bike Ride in St. Pete. His dedication to supporting veterans’ causes through cycling has made a real difference. Proceeds from the ride went to The Long Walk Home Founded in 2006 by a Marine Veteran, Ron Zaleski. The Long Walk Home is on a mission to empower Veterans around the country and prevent Veteran suicide. Currently, Ron is walking across the country for the second time to create awareness and accountability for the Veteran suicide crisis.

Additionally, I’ve always had a love for dogs, and throughout my years in real estate, I gave to numerous rescues and shelters. Helping animals find their forever homes has always been something I care deeply about.

At Tampa Lifestyle Management Co., our work is about more than just services—it’s about making lives better. Whether you’re looking for help with your household tasks, supporting local causes, or just needing a little more time in your day, we’re here to make life easier.

I’m also excited to announce the launch of our new Laundry Pick-Up and Delivery Service. This service is perfect for those who don’t need a full house manager but could use a hand with tackling the loads of laundry that pile up. It’s another way we can help lighten the load for busy families and professionals, providing a professional and reliable team to handle the chores while you focus on what matters most.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

When you’re just starting, there are a few skills that will make all the difference in your work. Listening, communication, and time management are key. Here’s how I’ve worked on these over time, and what I’d recommend if you’re just getting started.

Listening Skills:

Listening isn’t just about hearing what someone says—it’s about picking up on what they don’t say too. Like when a client casually mentions they’re having trouble keeping up with something around the house, even though that’s not the reason they hired you. That’s a clue that they need help, even if they didn’t directly ask for it. So, tune in and pay attention to the little things. Tip: Ask questions and make sure you fully understand where they’re coming from.

Communication Skills:

You’d be surprised how big of a difference communication makes. It’s more than just talking—it’s making sure you’re saying things the way the other person wants to hear them. Some people like to text quick updates, others prefer a long email. Figuring out what works best for your client goes a long way. Tip: Keep things clear and straightforward, and check in regularly so there’s no confusion.

Time Management Skills:

Time management is the heartbeat of our work—it’s how we keep everything running smoothly. One of the best strategies is color-coding your schedule. Assign colors to different categories, like work tasks, personal time, or meetings, to see your priorities at a glance.

Equally important is to stick to the time you’ve allotted. If you block an hour for a task, commit to finishing it within that time frame. Avoid multitasking during these blocks, as it can lead to inefficiency. Tip: Use tools like timers or apps to help you stay on track and build accountability into your routine. I’m a sucker for the color-coded system and still swear by my paper calendar and highlighters. I know I’ll make the switch to all digital eventually, but for now, this is what works for me. When it comes to organization, I always tell my clients: the best system is the one you’ll actually use!

Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?

Yes, yes, and YES! We’re always open to partnering and collaborating with like-minded folks who are passionate about making life easier and more enjoyable for others. If you’re a Realtor, Event Planner, or Interior Designer, we’d love to team up!

For Realtors: We know how important it is to get listings ready to hit the market, and that’s where our Market Ready Program comes in. We help declutter, organize, pack up, and make sure the home is in tip-top shape for showings, helping you close deals faster and with less stress.

Event Planners: If you’re organizing a big event and need an extra pair of hands to handle the behind-the-scenes chaos, we’re your go-to! We’ll make sure everything runs smoothly so you and your clients can enjoy the day without any hiccups.

Interior designers: We know install days can be a whirlwind, and we’d love to help! From organizing to managing the setup, we can be the extra pair of hands you need to make sure everything goes smoothly and looks perfect. Plus, we’re handy with a steamer for drapes and can wash all the linens, making it a turnkey experience for your clients.

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