We caught up with the brilliant and insightful L’erin Gaines a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Hi L’erin, so happy you were able to devote some time to sharing your thoughts and wisdom with our community. So, we’ve always admired how you have seemingly never let nay-sayers or haters keep you down. Can you talk to us about how to persist despite the negative energy that so often is thrown at folks trying to do something special with their lives?
I’ve learned that persistence is about staying focused on my purpose and not letting external negativity derail my purpose in life. Haters and naysayers are often a reflection of their own insecurities or limited perspectives, not a measure of my worth or potential. That alone became a major game changer in my world. For me, it starts with a strong foundation of self-love and a clear vision of what I want to achieve. I remind myself that I’m not doing this for validation but to fulfill my purpose in life and to positively impact others. I also have used criticism as fuel, transforming it into motivation to push harder and prove to myself what I’m capable of. Staying grounded is key. I surround myself with like-minded individuals, seek constructive feedback from trusted mentors, and focus on personal growth. The challenges and negativity only reinforce that I’m on a meaningful path worth pursuing. Ultimately, I’ve realized that the energy I give to doubters is energy I take away from myself. So, I channel that energy into my business and let my results speak louder than any words ever could.
Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?
I am a self-published author, entrepreneur, financial coach, and podcaster passionate about empowering people through inspiration, education, and personal growth. My business focuses on helping individuals reflect, heal, and unlock their potential by sharing real-live experiences, inspirational insights, and strategies for self-improvement. What excites me most about what I do is the opportunity to connect with people on a deeper level. Through platforms like my podcasts, The 411 Podcast and Reading Between The Wines, I blend storytelling, music knowledge, and engaging conversations to inspire transformation. It’s not just about sharing my journey – it’s about creating a space where others feel seen, heard, and motivated to take control of their own paths in life. One aspect of my brand that’s particularly special is its diversity. At Black Diamond Consultations, we offer more than just podcasts. From The Coaching Sessions, where I help clients navigate financial complexities, to wine tastings and my new wine-themed apparel line, there’s something for everyone. Speaking of new ventures, I’m thrilled to highlight the launch of “Reading Between the Wines – Intimate Quartet Wine Tasting” and the expanded selection of wine-themed T-shirts like “Cabernet Crush” and “Noir Nights.” These products and events create unique opportunities to connect with my audience in fun and meaningful ways. Looking ahead, I’m focusing on growing our reach with upcoming events, newsletter expansions, and collaborations that align with my purpose of helping others live more fulfilled lives. Stay connected for more updates, because the journey is just getting started.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Looking back, three qualities have been instrumental in my journey: resilience, self-awareness, and continuous learning. The ability to bounce back from setbacks has been critical. My life has been full of challenges, and success often comes from how you respond to adversity. Resilience taught me to see obstacles as opportunities to grow, not reasons to give up. I recommend building resilience by cultivating a positive mindset and focusing on what you can control. Practice gratitude and remind yourself that failure is part of the process, not the end of it. Knowing my strengths, weaknesses, and purpose has been a game-changer. It has allowed me to align my actions with my values and focus on what truly matters. I spend time reflecting on who I am and what I want out of life. Journaling, meditation, or seeking feedback from trusted mentors can help you better understand yourself and your goals. Staying curious and open to new ideas has kept me evolving personally and professionally. Whether it’s through reading, engaging with others, or hands-on experience, I’ve made it a priority to never stop learning. Investing in personal development by reading books, attending workshops, or listening to podcasts in your area of interest. Surround yourself with people who challenge and inspire you. For anyone starting their journey, I encourage you to embrace patience and consistency. Growth doesn’t happen overnight, but if you stay committed to these principles, the results will be worth it.
Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?
Absolutely! Collaboration is at the heart of growth and innovation, and I’m always open to working with like-minded individuals and organizations. At Black Diamond Consultations, I’m particularly interested in partnering with creatives, entrepreneurs, and thought leaders who are passionate about inspiring, educating, and uplifting others. I’m seeking collaborators in areas as podcasting, personal development, music, wine and lifestyle events, and content creation. If you have a unique perspective, a shared mission of empowering others, or an idea that aligns with one of our pillars – spiritual, mental, physical, or financial growth – I’d love to connect. For those interested in collaborating, feel free to reach out to me via email at Info@LerinGaines.com or text me at (609) 200-1098. You can also explore more about my business at LerinGaines.com. Let’s create something impactful together!
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