We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Glenn Shelhamer. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Glenn below.
Hi Glenn , we’re so appreciative of you taking the time to share your nuggets of wisdom with our community. One of the topics we think is most important for folks looking to level up their lives is building up their self-confidence and self-esteem. Can you share how you developed your confidence?
Growing up, I faced numerous challenges that seemed impossible at times. Raised by a single parent struggling with substance abuse, life was uncertain and unstable. On top of that, I endured relentless bullying at school and grappled with learning disabilities. It was a lot to bear, and it felt like an uphill battle to develop confidence and self-esteem.
But deep within me, there was an unyielding determination. I held onto a vision of the father I wanted to become—a father who would provide love, support, and stability. That vision became a powerful driving force, propelling me forward despite adversity. I was determined to break the cycle and create the loving family environment I desperately craved as a child.
With this burning desire, I embarked on a personal journey of self-discovery and growth. I confronted my past and accepted the challenges I had faced, recognizing that they did not define me but served as stepping stones to resilience. I embraced my inner strength and found solace in knowing I had already overcome so much.
Self-reflection became my guiding light. I explored my unique qualities, talents, and strengths, celebrating even the smallest victories along the way. With each accomplishment, my confidence grew, and I started believing in my abilities.
Surrounding myself with positive influences and supportive individuals became crucial in my journey. I sought out those who believed in me and uplifted my spirit. Their encouragement and unwavering support became pillars of strength, reminding me of my worth and potential.
Self-care became a priority as I learned to prioritize my well-being. I nurtured my physical, mental, and emotional health by engaging in activities that brought me joy and fulfillment. Through self-compassion and kindness, I learned to appreciate myself and treat myself with the love and care I deserved.
Along the path, I encountered setbacks and faced obstacles. But rather than allowing them to discourage me, I viewed them as opportunities for growth and learning. Each challenge became a chance to develop resilience, further bolstering my confidence.
Today, as I reflect on my journey, I stand as a testament to the power of resilience and self-belief. I have created the loving family environment I yearned for and am the father I aspired to be. My past no longer defines me but serves as a reminder of my strength and capacity to overcome.
If you face similar struggles, know that you possess a wellspring of strength within you. Embrace your experiences and use them as stepping stones to resilience. Believe in your abilities and surround yourself with supportive individuals who uplift and inspire you. Through self-care, self-reflection, and unwavering determination, you can overcome the challenges you face and create a brighter future for yourself.
Remember, your journey is unique, and there is immense power in believing in yourself. Trust in your resilience, and know you have the strength to design your life.
Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?
I’m incredibly excited about our expanding residential real estate brokerage, where we’re partnering with hospitals for Staff Housing programs and relocation services. Additionally, I’m developing a tech-based solution called ‘Pipeline Leads®’ that offers targeted leads to real estate professionals, senior placement advisors, and even B2B tech companies. The best part? We’re doing all this at a disruptive price that can shake the market.
However, amidst all these exciting ventures, my biggest challenge and opportunity lie in growing alongside my children and continuously learning to be my best dad. Fatherhood is an incredible journey—wild, wonderful, and full of twists and turns. It’s not a predictable highway but a meandering path that can sometimes feel slow, yet time flies by in the blink of an eye. Before I know it, they’ve outgrown their favorite shoes.
As a dad, I remind myself that I am the superhero they look up to, cape or no cape. My way of living, laughing, and loving serves as their compass, guiding them through life. I pray for wisdom and strength to teach them about respect, resilience, and responsibility, both in words and through my actions. Patience is my strongest ally, but it can also be my weakest link. While they are learning from me, I’m also learning from them. Together, we navigate this journey hand in hand, growing and evolving.
I am their lighthouse, providing guidance through life’s challenges. I remain steady and patient, knowing that I am crafting a masterpiece called my children’s childhood. I want them to know that stumbling is a part of life, but I’ll always be there to lift them up and help them move mountains. I am determined to break the cycle and create a new legacy for our family.
So, with enthusiasm and determination, I embrace both my entrepreneurial pursuits and the immense joy and responsibility of being a dad. It’s a beautiful journey, and I am excited to make the most of it.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Growing up in survival mode with adult responsibilities, three superpowers emerged to shape me into a successful human: resilience, resourcefulness, and empathy.
With my super resilience, I bounce back from setbacks like a rubber band. Nothing can keep me down for long because I’ve mastered the art of failing gracefully and getting back up.
My super resourcefulness is like always having a Swiss Army knife in my pocket. I can MacGyver my way through any challenge, finding ingenious solutions and making the most out of whatever resources I have. No obstacle can stand in my way for too long.
And last, perhaps the most effective, my empathetic superpowers. I have the uncanny ability to tune into others’ emotions and understand their needs and motivations. It’s like having a secret decoder ring for human connection. With my super empathy, I build bridges, inspire trust, and create a work environment that feels like a warm hug – let’s win the game of life together.
How can folks who want to work with you connect?
As a real estate broker, I thrive on collaborating with local government, businesses, and the vibrant arts, entertainment, and culinary scenes. By staying connected with these stakeholders, I keep my finger on the pulse of our communities.
I actively engage with local government officials and organizations to understand upcoming developments, regulations, and urban planning projects that impact the real estate landscape. This knowledge allows me to provide valuable insights to my clients regarding property values and investment opportunities.
Additionally, I foster relationships with the creative community, including artists, performers, and cultural institutions. This involvement provides me insights into emerging trends, revitalization projects, and upcoming events that contribute to the vibrancy of our NELA neighborhoods.
I also immerse myself in the local nightlife, eateries, and music venues to stay informed about the latest hotspots, dining experiences, and live performances.
By actively engaging with local stakeholders and staying connected to the dynamic aspects of our communities, I provide exceptional service to my clients. Whether finding the perfect neighborhood or identifying investment opportunities, I bring my expertise and passion to our community to meet their real estate needs.
If you’re looking for a real estate broker who is deeply connected and passionate about our community, I’m here to collaborate and provide guidance. Let’s find the perfect property that aligns with your aspirations and interests.
Contact Info:
- Website: shelhamergroup.com
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