Meet Nico Nicoletti

We were lucky to catch up with Nico Nicoletti recently and have shared our conversation below.

Nico, so great to have you with us and thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with the community. So, let’s jump into something that stops so many people from going after their dreams – haters, nay-sayers, etc. We’d love to hear about how you dealt with that and persisted on your path.

Being persistent even when people say you can’t do it or when they judge you is a must, especially when you are trying things that people don’t quite understand.
All my life I was different and all my life I did things differently then others, that created a lot of hate around me you see people that hate and talk behind your back are usually the ones closest to you like family members and close friends, and for that reason I keep my circle very small I don’t focus on what people say about me, I don’t let it bother me one bit because if it feels right to me then that’s all that matters their hate and judgement stems from jealousy, even thought some days are hard I focus on me and what I’m doing in my life if I was to worry about everyone talking about me and passing judgement on me I could not move forward and create the life I want to live.
So my advice to you if your struggling with haters is don’t listen to them and don’t
Sweat the small stuff like people judging you, let people talk about you and always do you, always do what you love to do even though if sometimes you feel like you have no one to turn to it’s ok cause one day you will see how you will overcome even this.

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?

My Name is Nico Nicoletti and I am a Motivational Speaker & New Age Life Coach I provide a New and unique way to motivate individuals and my community of San Diego, self love is number one here at Black n White Healing, I teach people how to gain there power back from past traumas, heartbreak and depression I help people understand that creating goals every week and every week achieving these goals is a way to create the life you want, I prove tools and workshops to teach people how to open up to the universe and manifest the life they always wanted to live while healing from all past traumas and regaining self love again, what we do is we teach you how to heal we give you the tools for you to start the healing journey, we do not heal you as healing comes from within and someone can not heal someone else, the healing and manifestation process comes for the individual, this is a long process and it takes time to do, if you are looking for a quick fix there isn’t one the first step in our teaching is teaching you how to love yourself again, while also opening up to the universe this is a spiritual journey and it’s not for the faint heart you will go through different emotions through this journey you will lose yourself then rebuild yourself the way you where truly intended to be.
I build black n White Healing for individuals who want to start fresh who have no one to turn to and don’t know where to start, as I once was lost I want to teach the lost ones that you can make it out and it’s possible to live the life you always wanted, you just need determination, respect for your self and the universe, you need to be willing to loose everything and say goodbye to yesterday to make a better day for today, my programs are for anyone from teens, to couples to single adults.
I am now expanding my business to Los Angeles where a central office will be available for people to start the healing journey too and soon we will be also expanding to New York & London as well.
I am an author of two books that are available on Amazon & Kindle:
Ocin, the guide to self love & My newest book Black n White Healing the guide to self transmutation. We also have new seminars pop every month from San Diego to Los Angeles, for more info check us out on Instagram, Tiktok, Linkin and my website.

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

A quality of mine is being strong willed I don’t take no for answer and when I fail that’s just a stepping stone to a better door opening, when times get hard in my life I don’t quite, just the opposite that gives me the fuel to overcome the hardships in my life I will never let none or nothing stop me from succeeding my goals that I have to achieve, a skill of my that impacted my journey is that I am a good communicator I can relate to people from all walks of life I know how to really make people understand that they are important in there own life and that they can do anything that they put there mind to, I love to teach people that there are multiple ways of thinking and not just one way, I love to teach people that following the crowd is not always beneficiary and creating your own lane is really the best way for one self, being an empath means I could feel other peoples feelings and emotions so it makes it easy for me to help them heal and to open up to the world, I basically feel what they are feeling so I understand what they are going through and with that I have been through my own traumas and heartaches and my own anxiety and depression and I have healed from them, so now it’s time to teach the world that they could to.
Everyone’s journey is different there is really not only one way of doing things, my best advice for people that are just starting this journey is to always be yourself, don’t let anyone talk you down or tell you your dreams are to big because they are not you have the power to create anything you want you just need to really want it and manifest the life you want, sometimes you might fall nevertheless don’t let that stop you from your goals, just get back up and keep going, people will always tell you no and that’s ok doors will close in your life and that’s ok, cause if you truly follow your heart the universe will provide you with the best doors for you, struggles are a part of life just remember those struggles are what makes you stronger in life and always take them as learning curves for your new life you are trying to create.

Any advice for folks feeling overwhelmed?

Everybody at one point or another gets overwhelmed with life whether it’s the new business your starting or family life or even everyday life, even till this day I get overwhelmed from everything going on around me, sometimes what you have to do is just stop and take a second out and revise everything going on around you, I tell clients everyday it’s ok to rest, reset, refocus and restart, there is nothing wrong with taking time out for you there is nothing wrong with stepping outside your problems for a moment and just viewing your problems from a different view sometimes you won’t get the answers you need right then and there, things take time answers take time and if you are willing to open yourself up to the universe that it self could help you find the answers to your problems, also what I do when I’m feeling overwhelmed is I step outside into nature, I take a walk, I journal, I do breath control, I meditate keep in mind meditating is not just sitting in silence in a yoga position, its whatever makes you comfortable.
That could be a drive at night, just sitting in silence at your favorite stop or even just listening to music meditating is about being on your own and being in your thoughts even if it feels overwhelming at first it gets easier in time, it’s about slowing your mind down and taking control of your negative thoughts so my biggest advice for everyone reading this is when life feels overwhelming just stop take a second, meditate, reset and restart sometimes problems seem bigger then what they are when in reality that’s just your fear talking making you overthink, little by little learn to slow your mind down, everything happens for a reason and everything works out in your best interest as long as you stay positive even in the darkest times of your life. Remember Positive thoughts equals Positive Outcomes.

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