Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Ana Riaboukha. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.
Hi Ana, really appreciate you opening up about a very personal topic with the hopes that it can help someone out there who might be going through it. What can you share with us about your journey with postpartum depression and how you overcame PPD? For readers, please note this is not medical advice, we are not doctors, you should always consult professionals for advice and that this is merely one person sharing their story and experience.
The facts are simple: You’re a new mom to your second baby, and or expecting your third. It doesn’t matter how many babies you have; giving birth is a challenging experience. Postpartum depression (PPD) creeps up on you like anxiety, and it doesn’t give you any warning. It just happens. It happens when you’re even happy but can’t express it physically. Recovery is hard but with the right help, it’s doable and can be successful.
My sister was the greatest support of all. She encouraged me to explore my hobbies. I’ve always loved parties since I was a little girl. She suggested that I start monthly party for my daughter and I to celebrate both our accomplishments (since she was a mother herself). I began scrapbooking and hosting monthly birthday parties for my daughter and just the two of us. That passion grew into starting a scrapbook hustle for friends that specializes in kids’ parties. I started offering scrapbook party kits, scrapbook parties, and other services. It was like exercising my brain and was therapeutic.
As the years went by, I had three more kids, and I hit PPD again with my third child. It was so bad that I went into a coma after a horrible morning. I didn’t know why this was happening to me. I reminded myself of all the hard work I put in during my first birth, and I decided to prioritize self-care. I started practicing yoga and meditation, and I learned to live again for my kids. I barely had time to scrapbook, but I knew I wanted to become an event planner.
I quit my job and worked in the hospitality industry to gain experience, and then I enrolled in school. I took online courses to become an event planner. Today, I offer services to create memorable and eventful spaces that you can cherish forever. Postpartum helped me develop all the confidence and skills I have today. I’m grateful to have overcome this because it led me to my life today.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
Taking online courses has been one of the best investments I’ve made. It always helps me gain a deeper understanding of my clients during our interview process. My primary focus is on building connections with my clients, myself, and my business. I strive to earn their trust so that they can rely on me again. I particularly enjoy offering event planning services because, while I find them fulfilling, they can be quite stressful for most people. I believe in prioritizing self-care and love to take care of that aspect of their needs. I do offer various packages for those who still want to be slightly involved in the planning process. I’m currently working with investors to potentially expand. I’m incredibly excited about this journey and can’t wait to share it with the world, God willing. I invite you to visit my website to learn more about the services I offer and the timeframe that we need to ensure a successful event. However, I understand that some events, like PPD, may catch us off guard, and we’ll work hard to make it happen based on our availability.
Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?
Looking back on my postpartum depression journey, I’ve learned three crucial lessons that have had a significant impact on my business.
First and foremost, time management is paramount. Juggling the responsibilities of motherhood, my own well-being, dinner for the family, and sleep can be overwhelming. Despite these challenges, I’ve found effective ways to manage my time. I set specific time slots for my office work and follow a weekly schedule that helps me achieve a successful month.
Secondly, patience is essential. It’s important to recognize that you can only do your best. While life may be short, we also have tomorrow to start anew or pick up where we left off. Patience allows us to focus on what we can control and not get discouraged by setbacks.
Lastly, never stop reaching out to your support system, whether it’s friends, family, or a support group. Having someone to talk to, cry to, or lean on during difficult times can make all the difference. Your support system will be there for you throughout your journey, and they will also be a part of your success.
Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?
Lately, I’ve been actively participating in photoshoots and collaborating with others to gain valuable learning and exposure opportunities. It’s true that the pursuit of knowledge is an ongoing journey. While I’m not particularly adept at social media, I’m grateful for the networks I attend and the positive word-of-mouth that has helped me gain exposure in this field. However, I recognize that there’s still a lot more I can explore and learn in this area.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://Www.boukhaevents.com
- Instagram: Be.boukhaevents
- Facebook: Boukha Events
- Linkedin: Boukha Events
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