We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Shelda Morineau a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Shelda , so good to have you with us today. We’ve got so much planned, so let’s jump right into it. We live in such a diverse world, and in many ways the world is getting better and more understanding but it’s far from perfect. There are so many times where folks find themselves in rooms or situations where they are the only ones that look like them – that might mean being the only woman of color in the room or the only person who grew up in a certain environment etc. Can you talk to us about how you’ve managed to thrive even in situations where you were the only one in the room?
When I find myself in a situation where I am the only one in the room that looks like me, I focus on being confident and assertive. I make sure to speak up and share my ideas, even if they may be different from what others are thinking. I also make a conscious effort to listen actively and engage with others in a respectful and open-minded manner. It can be challenging at times, but I have learned that being true to myself and my beliefs is the key to being effective and successful, regardless of the circumstances.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
I am excited to tell you about what I do! As a brand, I am dedicated to providing excellent service and high-quality beach wear that meets the needs of my customers. I work tirelessly to create new and innovative ideas that will make my customers’ lives easier and more enjoyable while wearing one of my swimwear.
One of the most special things about my brand is my commitment to safety. I understand that my customers trust me to provide them with products and services that are not only cute to the eyes but also safe. I take this responsibility very seriously and make sure that all of my products and services meet the highest safety standards and the sexy without my client sacrificing their grace and comfort.
In terms of new developments, my brand is always looking for ways to expand and improve. I have recently launched a new line of products that I believe will be very exciting for my customers. I’m also planning on hosting some exciting events soon, so stay tuned for more information!
Overall, I’m committed to providing the best possible experience for my customers. I am constantly striving to improve and innovate, and I’m excited to see what the future holds for my brand.
Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?
Looking back on my journey, I believe that three key qualities helped me the most: perseverance, adaptability, and a willingness to learn.
Perseverance was crucial because there were many times when things felt difficult or overwhelming, and I could have easily given up. But by staying focused on my goals and pushing through those tough moments, I was able to keep moving forward and ultimately achieve success.
Adaptability was also important because no matter how much we plan, life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way. By being willing to pivot and adjust my approach when needed, I was able to navigate those challenges with greater ease and keep making progress.
Finally, a willingness to learn was essential because there is always more to discover and understand. By seeking out new information and perspectives, I was able to deepen my knowledge and develop new skills that helped me along the way.
For those who are early in their journey, my advice would be to cultivate these same qualities in themselves. Perseverance, adaptability, and a willingness to learn are all skills that can be developed over time with practice and effort. By focusing on these areas, they can build a foundation that will help them navigate whatever challenges come their way and ultimately achieve their goals.
Finally, I have this theory anytime I need to find my purpose and when life is taking its toll on me, I rely on Philippians 4:13. I can do anything because He gave me the strength to do it all.
What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Any advice or strategies?
When I feel overwhelmed, I like to take a step back and prioritize my tasks. I make a list of everything that needs to be done, and I rank them in order of importance. Then, I break each task down into smaller, more manageable steps. This way, I can focus on one thing at a time and feel a sense of accomplishment as I check items off my list. I also try to take breaks throughout the day to clear my mind and recharge. Sometimes, a quick walk outside or a few minutes of meditation, but what I enjoy the most is the gym. I would go to the gym and put on my music and escape. My therapist once help me to learn how to escape this world and travel far away to a place where I feel relaxed and safe then I stay there for a while and then back. It might sound weird, but it works. I guess find something that you enjoy doing and focus on bringing all your thinking to it and you will see clearly and that can make a big difference. Overall, the key is to stay organized and take care of yourself both mentally and physically.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.Lovelyluxswim.com
- Instagram: @lovelylux.co
Image Credits
https://instagram.com/nicestyphoto?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Khris Felix https://instagram.com/bibiportraits?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
