An Inspired Chat with Mrs. Deeiah Hayes of All parts

We recently had the chance to connect with Mrs. Deeiah Hayes and have shared our conversation below.

Mrs. Deeiah, we’re thrilled to have you with us today. Before we jump into your intro and the heart of the interview, let’s start with a bit of an ice breaker: What is a normal day like for you right now?
A typical day for me begins with prayer and devotion—it sets the tone for everything else I do. From there, my day is often a blend of ministry responsibilities, leadership development, and community work. I may spend time writing, counseling, or preparing teachings, but I also balance that with my work in real estate and other professional roles. No two days are exactly alike, but the common thread is being intentional about impact—whether I’m serving in the church, mentoring a leader, or helping a family find their home. My days are full, but I wouldn’t trade the fullness for anything, because it’s all tied to my purpose.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Deeiah Hayes, and I wear many hats, but at the heart of it all I am a servant of God, a builder of people, and a cultivator of purpose. I serve as the Senior Pastor of Dwell Temple Training and Development Center in Goldsboro, NC, where our mission is to BASE—Build a people, Advance the Kingdom, Serve the community, and Edify the body. Everything we do flows from the Ephesians 4:11–12 model of equipping the saints for the work of ministry and building up the body of Christ.
I am also the founder of the Leader’s Academy, an online leadership school dedicated to spiritual growth, ministerial development, and leadership excellence. What makes my journey unique is the way God has allowed me to merge ministry, mental health, and marketplace influence. With a background in psychology, public mental health, grant management, and self-sufficiency programs, I’ve been able to serve both the church and the community in holistic ways. Beyond ministry and leadership training, I am also a realtor, notary, gospel recording artist, and author—my latest work, Hell’s Hitlist, explores spiritual warfare and identity in a way that empowers believers to stand strong in who they are.
At the core, my brand is about transformation—helping people see themselves the way Heaven sees them and giving them the tools to walk it out.

Okay, so here’s a deep one: What part of you has served its purpose and must now be released?
The part of me that has served its purpose and must now be released is the version of me that felt the need to shrink to make others comfortable. For years, I carried a quiet weight of trying to balance who I was called to be with who people expected me to be. That season taught me humility, patience, and how to serve without always being seen—but it also taught me that there comes a time when holding back becomes disobedience. Now, I’m releasing the tendency to dim my light and fully embracing the boldness of walking in everything God has entrusted to me. At the same time, I am using greater discernment about where I pour and where I lend my influence. I will not be used, but I will be intentional—planting in places where the seed can grow and where God has truly called me to invest.

What have been the defining wounds of your life—and how have you healed them?
Two of the defining wounds of my life have been rejection and betrayal. Rejection cut deep because it often came from places and people where I expected love and support. Betrayal was equally painful, because it forced me to confront the reality that not everyone who walks with you has the capacity or purity of heart to truly cover you. Both wounds left me questioning my value at times, but they also became the very ground where God proved His faithfulness to me.
Healing came through intimacy with God—allowing Him to remind me that I am chosen, accepted, and loved without condition. It also came through discernment and maturity, learning not to harden my heart but to guard it wisely. Today, those wounds no longer define me; they refined me. They’ve taught me how to step into my influence with intentionality, invest in the right places, and fully embrace my calling without compromise.

So a lot of these questions go deep, but if you are open to it, we’ve got a few more questions that we’d love to get your take on. What important truth do very few people agree with you on?
An important truth that very few people seem to fully embrace is that unity is not only necessary, but possible—and we are about to start seeing it more, even across cultural lines. Too often, people assume differences, past hurts, or disagreements make true alignment impossible. I believe that when hearts and visions are aligned, collaboration can happen even across divides, and communities can thrive in ways many think are unattainable. It takes humility, patience, and intentional effort, but unity is always within reach when it is pursued with purpose—and I truly believe the coming season will reveal this in ways we haven’t seen before.

Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. When do you feel most at peace?
I feel most at peace when I am fully aligned with God’s presence and purpose. It’s in those quiet moments of prayer, reflection, or worship when the world fades away and I can hear His voice clearly. I also feel peace when I am serving—mentoring, teaching, or investing in others—because walking in my calling reminds me that I am exactly where I’m meant to be. True peace comes not from circumstances, but from knowing I am in step with God and living intentionally in the season He has placed me.

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