Story & Lesson Highlights with Alexis Mason of Alexandria

We’re looking forward to introducing you to Alexis Mason. Check out our conversation below.

Alexis, so good to connect and we’re excited to share your story and insights with our audience. There’s a ton to learn from your story, but let’s start with a warm up before we get into the heart of the interview. When was the last time you felt true joy?
The last time I felt true joy was when I hosted my very first Love Yourself First Brunch this past February in light of Valentine’s Day. This event was transformational and invigorating—it created a safe space where women could feel inspired, uplifted, seen, heard, and empowered, both as women and as mothers.

The brunch included a panel discussion on what “inner luxury” means, the importance of self-care, embracing self-love, and setting healthy boundaries to avoid burnout. Seeing the impact it had on the attendees filled me with overwhelming joy. The success of this event was not just about the turnout—it was a true testament to what God can do when you walk in purpose.

This experience inspired me more than anyone will ever know, and it confirmed my passion for creating spaces where women can thrive. I left that day with a renewed commitment to continue hosting unique, powerful, and inspirational experiences in the future.

Another joyful experience for me has been spending quality time with my mother and grandparents. Seeing them smile and enjoy each other’s company brings me so much joy. As I watch my grandparents age gracefully, I strive to help them create memorable moments that bring them happiness—which, in return, fills me with joy too.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Founder of Lavish Life Enterprises

Alexis Mason is a Christian self-love and empowerment coach, author, and speaker who helps women rebuild their confidence, rediscover their identity, and rise into the purpose God has for them.

Born and raised on the Eastern Shore of Virginia, Alexis turned her personal challenges into a powerful calling. What once broke her became the foundation for healing others—leading women into a life of true inner luxury, where self-worth is rooted in faith, not perfection.

As a Certified Life Coach through the Coach Training Alliance, Alexis empowers Christian women to embrace self-love, confidence, and their God-given purpose.

Her coaching isn’t just about changing habits—it’s about spiritual transformation. It’s about unlocking the version of you that’s already whole, already worthy, and already loved.

For years, Alexis struggled with low self-esteem and self-doubt. But through her faith, she turned her pain into purpose—becoming a sought-after coach who helps women silence shame, let go of fear, and confidently walk in the life God has prepared for them.

Thanks for sharing that. Would love to go back in time and hear about how your past might have impacted who you are today. What breaks the bonds between people—and what restores them?
Unresolved trauma, unspoken or unconscious feelings, and emotions such as resentment, anger, or frustration often break the bonds between people. A lack of empathy, grace, or intimacy can also weaken connections, as can simply growing apart over time. The reasons vary depending on the nature of the relationship—whether it’s family, friendship, or marriage—but at the core, broken bonds often stem from unmet needs and unhealed wounds.

What restores these bonds, however, is just as powerful. Forgiveness, empathy, and grace serve as bridges back to connection. Honest communication, vulnerability, and a willingness to truly listen can heal fractures and rebuild trust. Scripture reminds us in Colossians 3:13 to “bear with each other and forgive one another… Forgive as the Lord forgave you,” showing that forgiveness is a vital step toward restoration. Similarly, Ephesians 4:32 calls us to “be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

A powerful example of restoration is found in the story of Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 45). Though his brothers betrayed him and sold him into slavery, Joseph chose forgiveness and reconciliation when they were reunited. His choice to extend grace not only restored their bond but also preserved their family’s future.

While not every bond can—or should—be restored, when both parties are willing, love, grace, and understanding can transform brokenness into something stronger than it was before.

What have been the defining wounds of your life—and how have you healed them?
One of the defining wounds of my life has been my father’s abandonment and absence for most of my childhood. His absence created deep confusion, relationship trauma, and struggles with self-esteem and trust that shaped the way I viewed myself, men, and even those closest to me. These wounds ran so deep that, for many years, they controlled much of my life.

The turning point came when I began to release that pain and chose to forgive my father. By the time I forgave him, he was no longer on this earth, but even then, I knew that forgiveness was more about my healing than his response. Letting go of the bitterness, anger, and frustration allowed me to walk in freedom and extend grace, recognizing that what he did—or failed to do—was not a reflection of my worth. He was human, and like all of us, he made mistakes.

Through prayer and God’s grace, I’ve been able to love him despite the pain he caused. I trust that he is at peace, because I finally am. Releasing that heavy burden has healed my heart, reshaped my perspective on life, and shown me the true power of forgiveness. It has also given me hope, reminding me that God can take even the deepest wounds and turn them into a testimony of freedom and healing.

So a lot of these questions go deep, but if you are open to it, we’ve got a few more questions that we’d love to get your take on. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
My closest friends would say that what really matters to me is making a difference in the world, valuing my family, and continuously investing in my personal growth. They would describe me as someone who desires to be of good use—whether through giving advice, helping out, or showing genuine care and empathy. My friends often tell me that I have a way of making others feel seen, welcomed, and encouraged, not only through my words but also through my actions.

Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
The story I hope people tell about me when I’m gone is that Alexis was a loving and kind person who genuinely strived to make a difference. That she cared deeply for everyone she met and lived a life marked by empowerment, inspiration, kindness, authenticity, and love. I hope they remember me as someone who did her best to make others feel seen, heard, and valued. Most of all, I want my life to be a reflection of my faith—that I showed others that with God, all things are possible, and that I carried hope to those who needed it most.

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