An Inspired Chat with Subin Kara Ahn of NYC

We recently had the chance to connect with Subin Kara Ahn and have shared our conversation below.

Good morning Subin Kara, it’s such a great way to kick off the day – I think our readers will love hearing your stories, experiences and about how you think about life and work. Let’s jump right in? What is something outside of work that is bringing you joy lately?
I wouldn’t say “lately” because it’s been a passion of mine for some time, but I enjoy going to great restaurants, especially with my partner. I’ve always been a foodie myself, and being able to have an in-depth conversation with the love of my life about specific feelings and flavors that great food can convey is very special.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Subin. I go by Subin Kara Ahn for my acting-directing career and Will Bug for my music career. I’m an actor, director, and singer-songwriter who was born and raised in Seoul, now based in Brooklyn. I’ve been trying to publish more music lately; I call my music Simp Pop, as one of the main subjects of my writing is my simping. From indie rock to R&B-inspired pop and experimental music, I write songs that are very unique, honest, and original (so honest that the words sometimes seem funny).

Appreciate your sharing that. Let’s talk about your life, growing up and some of topics and learnings around that. What relationship most shaped how you see yourself?
My friendships, especially in New York shaped how I see myself. I’ve been blessed with the people around me from the moment I was born, but when I first moved to the city I struggled a little bit. When I finally found my people, people I think are cool and lovable, and saw how much love they give me, I thought “Maybe I’m a decent person if I’m loved by these cool people”. I still struggle with self-image both internally and externally, but it’s no longer filled with just self-hatred.

What did suffering teach you that success never could?
Suffering, specifically “losing something” taught me that I could not live without those. Sadly, often times people do not realize how much they want or need something until they lose it. For example, there was a phase where I had stopped performing or generating my own works, and before that I thought I could maybe live without pursuing arts as a profession, but having gone through that, I know for sure that this is what I have to do.

Alright, so if you are open to it, let’s explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. Whose ideas do you rely on most that aren’t your own?
I don’t necessarily “rely” on it but I often use references, which is super helpful for me, especially since I do not have technique or lingo I can use to explain what I want to other people I work with.

Before we go, we’d love to hear your thoughts on some longer-run, legacy type questions. What will you regret not doing? 
The act of “starting”. Starting anything. I always tell people who debate on whether or not to start, to just try it. It might not turn out great, but we would have never known unless we tried, and the thought of “what if” might have haunted us forever, and in my opinion, that’s a far worse feeling than whatever consequences. I also truly believe that everything is meant to be. If it does not turn out great, you are meant to experience it, and possibly learn from it.

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Personal image and image 1-3: Jealyn
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