An Inspired Chat with Abigail Rebecca

Abigail Rebecca shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.

Hi Abigail, thank you for taking the time to reflect back on your journey with us. I think our readers are in for a real treat. There is so much we can all learn from each other and so thank you again for opening up with us. Let’s get into it: What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned about your customers?
The most surprising thing I’ve learned about my clients is how often people assume they already have everything they could possibly want. From the outside, they look confident, self-assured, and successful. I would have thought the same when I first started my business.

What I’ve come to understand is that success doesn’t erase the desire for more. These women are ready to expand, and with that readiness comes a natural sense of lack. It’s part of growth. But instead of staying present with that discomfort and allowing it to guide them, many start searching for quick fixes or external validation to fill the gap.

My work is about meeting them exactly where they are and helping them turn inward, because that’s where their next level truly begins. The light they’re looking for is already within them, and my role is to help them see it.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m a Human Design mentor, visibility expert, and founder of the ICONIC Method™. I work with high achieving women who are ready to step out of the hustle and create effortless success by aligning their business with their energetic blueprint.

After decades in corporate leadership, a severe burnout and health scare became the turning point that completely changed how I live and lead. I left that world behind, retrained in fashion, and began building a business that reflects who I truly am; a Projector, a mentor and a woman devoted to authenticity and alignment.

Today, my work weaves Human Design, energetic strategy and personal branding to help women build businesses that feel both deeply successful and spiritually fulfilling. Everything I teach is rooted in lived experience and designed to help my clients be seen, recognised, and rewarded for the women they truly are.

Right now, I’m focused on expanding my ICONIC Method™ and guiding more women to lead from their energetic truth, embody their magnetism and grow businesses that create both wealth and freedom.

Okay, so here’s a deep one: What’s a moment that really shaped how you see the world?
Leaving the religion I was raised in at sixteen completely changed how I see the world. I grew up in a strict, fear-based environment that taught me the world was dangerous and that my worth depended on obedience. Walking away meant losing my entire community overnight, but it also marked the beginning of my freedom.

That experience taught me to trust my inner voice, even when it went against everything I’d been told. It showed me how powerful it is to choose authenticity over approval. The pain of leaving became the foundation for how I now support other women, to release conditioning, trust their energy and create lives that reflect who they truly are.

It was the moment I stopped living by someone else’s rules and began building a life based on truth, alignment and self-leadership.

What fear has held you back the most in your life?
The fear of rejection has been the one that’s followed me the longest. For much of my life, I shaped myself around what would be acceptable, safe, or pleasing to others. Growing up in a world where belonging depended on obedience, that fear ran deep. Even after leaving that environment, it showed up in new ways, holding back parts of myself in business, staying quiet when I had something important to say, or overworking to prove my value.

What’s changed everything is learning to meet that fear with compassion rather than resistance. I’ve realised that the moments I’ve felt most exposed or afraid of being judged have also been the moments that brought me closer to authenticity. The fear still whispers sometimes but now it’s more of a signal that I’m expanding. Each time I choose to be seen anyway, it strengthens my trust in myself and the work I’m here to do.

Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
The biggest lie my industry tells itself is that you have to hustle to be successful. That you need to push harder, stay visible at all costs, and constantly chase the next opportunity if you want to make money or create impact. I lived that way for years and it nearly broke me.

Human Design showed me there’s another way. Our energy isn’t meant to move the same, and for Projectors especially, constant doing leads straight to burnout. We thrive when we create space, honour our rhythm, and allow recognition and invitations to flow toward us.

I’m completely anti–hustle culture because I’ve seen the damage it causes to brilliant women who are simply wired to lead differently. Effortless success comes from alignment, not exhaustion. When you understand your unique energy, you stop forcing outcomes and start allowing your natural magnetism to do the work.

Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. When do you feel most at peace?
I feel most at peace when I’m chanting Nam Myoho Renge Kyo. It’s the moment I come back to myself and connect with the universe. That daily practice grounds me and reminds me that I’m both the channel and the co-creator of everything that flows through my life.

As I chant, I focus on what I wish to receive and hold absolute faith that it’s already making its way toward me. There’s no striving or forcing in that space, just deep trust. It’s when I feel most in alignment, calm, clear and completely open to receiving what’s meant for me

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