Life, Values & Legacy: Our Chat with ALEXIS AMATO

We’re looking forward to introducing you to ALEXIS AMATO. Check out our conversation below.

ALEXIS, it’s always a pleasure to learn from you and your journey. Let’s start with a bit of a warmup: What is a normal day like for you right now?
I start my day off with a kiss from my fiancé, connection is everything and I firmly believe in starting a connection with your partner first thing. I then get up and get ready to go to the gym, which I do roughly for an hour. Following the gym, I like to get a protein shake from a local woman-owned business which gives me a nutrients for the rest of the day. Once I get home, it’s about 10am and I shower, get ready and start my workday. I will work in my office for about 6 hours, keeping pretty standard “office hours.” During this time, I typically take a break around 2pm in which I meditate and do some self-development work on myself. After my fiancé gets home from work, I begin preparing dinner, around 6pm. We then eat together, and discuss our day, plus we have this cute book that helps us get closer in which we answer one question per day, it’s honestly something I look forward to every day! After we clean up, it’s relaxing time and we catch up on shows, currently Monsters with Ed Gein and rewatching The Office. Then I like to end my evening with reading a book for at least 30 minutes at night. Before going to bed, we play success, wealth, and manifestation subliminal and sleep meditations.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Alexis Amato and I’m a Manifestation Mentor, helping women gain more success, and better relationships in their life. I host women’s retreats all over the world, using my 4-step manifestation “VIBE” process in which the attendees experience the Vision, Intention, Breakthroughs, and Empowerment of manifestation. I also work closely with women who come from toxic relationships, encouraging them to break free and empower themselves with self worth and confidence so they can begin attracting more aligned relationships.

Recently, my fiance and I started a new Youtube channel- Trips and Sips in which we document our travels all over the globe as a couple. We also do funny skits on my Instagram profile @Fullofsips.

Thanks for sharing that. Would love to go back in time and hear about how your past might have impacted who you are today. Who taught you the most about work?
My dad. He always had his own business- and through struggles and ups and downs, continues to push forward at 70+ years of age. I have learned a lot about resiliency from him and work ethic, always being determined to be the best of the best in the room and not the best of the worst.

What’s something you changed your mind about after failing hard?
I think failure ultimately leads you to make decisions in your better interest had you not failed at that time. I believe every failure creates a lesson that further catapults you to success. Success isn’t linear, its continuously up and down and you need to always ensure you have resiliency in the areas that mean the most to you. So, once I fail at something, I try to learn the lesson and use that to further my success.

I think our readers would appreciate hearing more about your values and what you think matters in life and career, etc. So our next question is along those lines. What important truth do very few people agree with you on?
I highly believe that you create your own destiny, and I don’t believe life happens “to” us, I think it happens “for” us. If you attract a lot of chaos, then you need to change your energy and how you’re showing up. Alot of people stay in a victim mentality, always thinking things are happening to them, instead of taking into account how responsible they are for what happens in their own life. I deal with this a lot with coaching women in the relationship space. They want to constantly blame their ex for everything, and I remind them “you chose this person,” and a portion of what you’re going through is a result of your own choices and actions. It’s also on you if you decide to stay. You can’t continue to be in an unfulfilled relationship then blame them for how you feel. You have the power to leave and create a new life for yourself. The sad reality is, most will stay in unhappy relationships and continue to blame the other person instead of walking away and getting a chance at a truly happy, and fulfilling life.

Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. If you knew you had 10 years left, what would you stop doing immediately?
Working with clients that don’t value my time or energy.

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