An Inspired Chat with Alexia Vigör of Manhattan

We’re looking forward to introducing you to Alexia Vigör. Check out our conversation below.

Alexia , so good to connect and we’re excited to share your story and insights with our audience. There’s a ton to learn from your story, but let’s start with a warm up before we get into the heart of the interview. When have you felt most loved—and did you believe you deserved it?
I felt the most love at a moment in my life when the love I had been building inside myself finally materialized on the outside.
When I was dating my chosen partner — an American loved musician — everything around me reflected that inner transformation.
What mattered most was the way we treated each other, like best friends, real partners with respect and presence. I understood him, and he understood me. There’s something so wholesome about having someone who really gets you. You take care of each other. That’s what makes me feel love. Not only the mansions or the jets, these are great too — but the respect, protection, safety, care and the meeting of our souls.

It definitely made me feel the most love when I was dating what him, an American loved rapper. I spent my days and nights in his mansion in the Hidden Hills in Calabasas, near his neighbors as he stated: Madonna and the Kardashians. It felt right to be surrounded by powerful women like me — women who reshaped music, fashion, and even technology. There’s something magnetic about being in the presence of those who’ve changed the world; it reminds you that you’re capable of doing the same. I felt like I belonged there — in that quiet neighborhood. His mansion felt like our mansion, like a dream I had once seen in my sleep. The aesthetics, the energy, everything was familiar, as if my soul had already been there before my body arrived. I hadn’t even known that place existed until I met him, somehow I had seen it while sleeping.

Sometimes I was at his studio, and other times among artists in studios in Burbank, California. I flew privately on jets to his shows in other states. We spent a lot of time at Four Seasons hotels and other five-star places around the country. He is a great company, when you are in the right presence everything feels relaxed, exciting, fun, time flies and you feel good, it feels right. I connect with all the love languages. Physical touch is definitely one of my strongest, I’m very affectionate. I also value words of affirmation and receiving love through genuine gestures, he certainly understood that and we bonded.

I did feel like I deserved it, I know my worth.

I am a big believer everyone deserves love, it’s one of the best emotions we can experience.
I loved him. He loves me too and I believe I deserved that love. He was struggling with his mental health and PTSD, and I was still healing from a relationship with an alcoholic, abusive man who openly confessed to being a sadist, which caused me a lot of heartache! We get along so well when we are together, times seems to freeze and past fast at the same time. It feels great and as I said before, it feels right. He is in the West Coast and I’m on the East Coast, we both have our lives and careers so it was a bit challenging meeting up, but of course, very possible. We all make time for people we love and that are important to us. When that company is so pleasant you always and to be there, doing nothing, just staying with them, in each other’s presence.
This is only the beginning. I am open to feel that love always, and I know it will find me.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Alexia Vigör, as you may already know me or have heard of me. I’m an artist. I began my career as a model, and people often say I was the blueprint for influencers. I first became known on Tumblr for the original ‘Tumblr girl’ aesthetic. When Instagram emerged, I started my account and quickly reached 80 thousand followers. Later, when Instagram started to become popular, I decided to create a new account, starting fresh as an artist — and within a short time, I had built a community of over 100 thousand. From there, my name spread from the West Coast across the country and internationally.
I model, sing, dance, write songs, and perform. According to my fans, I’ve become a modern-day sex symbol — but more than that, I’m a socialite and influencer who collaborates with leading brands while developing my own makeup and fashion lines, both currently in the vault.
My artistry blends emotion, sensuality, and storytelling — transforming real experiences of love, desire, freedom, and empowerment into expressive works of art. Everything I create comes from authenticity. I’ve lived the glamour of Hidden Hills and private jets, and I’ve also embraced the quiet moments of introspection that fuel creativity.
My brand stands for evolution, confidence, and the courage to love and express oneself without apology. One story that often surprises people is that I was once invited to pose for the final print edition of Playboy — but I chose to turn it down, not out of modesty, but because I wanted to define sensuality on my own terms. Power, to me, is owning your narrative. I’m open minded, but very traditional, following values is important, protecting your energy means a lot these days.
I’m a proud sister and a dog mom. I love creating art that reflects growth, emotional truth, and sophistication — blending vulnerability with strength. My vision is to inspire others to embrace who they are fully, intentionally and consciously, because transformation and evolution, to me, are the highest form of beauty.

Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. Who were you before the world told you who you had to be?
I’ve always been an artist — it’s something that’s followed me my entire life. I loved acting, was always the best dancer anywhere I went, and one of the most flexible gymnasts — which, in a way, also made me cognitively flexible. I’ve always been a songwriter and designer, too. Growing up, I wrote endless love songs and designed the best dresses and outfits — I was known for it.

I loved modeling and being in front of the camera — I’ve always felt at home there, seen and alive. I became famous on Tumblr back in the days when Savannah Montano was also rising, and I’ve often heard people say we were the blueprint for influencers. It’s flattering to be compared to her — I admired her back then, and funnily enough, we even dated one guy in common.

I always knew I was going to be an artist — and if not that, maybe a surgeon, because that’s how my mind works. But truthfully, I wouldn’t have been happy as a surgeon. Being an artist is freedom to me — it’s who I truly am.

Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
I once read someone say, “If there was a time you didn’t almost give up, you’re not telling the truth.” Those thoughts do appear in the hardest moments. But for me, I didn’t have that luxury. I came from what I consider hell on earth for someone artistic, fun, expressive like me — giving up was never an option. You just have to keep moving forward and believe in yourself and possibilities.
Welcoming positivity makes everything run smoothly!

Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. Is the public version of you the real you?
They’re very similar, both a powerhouse in their own way. It’s like I’m plugged into an 80,000-volt socket. My energy is high, intentionsl, electric, and constant — I just don’t stop, whether it’s in real life, performing, or working. It is something controlled, it is great being able to live in a relaxed state of awareness. This energy is intentionally directed to what I am working on or participating in the moment, rather it is modeling, producing, directing, or hanging out with friends.
I’ve been told I’the golden retriever energy wherever I go. I’m very carrying and thoughtful.
The public version of me is an enhanced version of me: thoughtful, expressive, friendly, charismatic, happy, excited, warm, competent, extroverted, powerful and likable, qualities I myself have. She is way louder, but still completely me.
I, myself, I’m a bit more of a care taker — especially with the people I love and who are important to me. I’m a big action taker. It’s like my public version was a mixture of Kim Kardashian, Christina Aguilera, prime Britney Spears and J-lo, and me, myself, when I’m alone, Bella Hadid, with a bit more of warmth and energy!
I can also be clingy at times; I’m very loving and very affectionate. I’m a team kind of girl! I get attached to people I form a connection with. I love connecting with people, conversations and forming great, long-term relationships. I get deeply attached to people I enjoy and connections. I’the secured attachment style, which can bring comfort to people. I love being a comforting presence for others.

Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
I want people remember me as someone who was blessed. I truly feel choosen and am grateful to be this privileged. I would like to be remembered as joyful, pleasant and brave enough to live life deliberately, every day. A conscious artist who sparked conscious conversations, who brought deeper subjects to life, and who elevated the lives of the people she met.
That I fought for who I love and what I love. I put myself out there, something people are afraid off, and never stopped embracing my art to be seen, until it was. I didn’t come from money, connections, or an artistic city — it was all hard work, consistency, discipline, and self-belief. I believed in my visions, and I believed in myself. When you choose to lead with love, positivity, and care, excellence becomes your signature — and greatness naturally follows.

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