We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Julia Moyers a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Julia, so great to be with you and I think a lot of folks are going to benefit from hearing your story and lessons and wisdom. Imposter Syndrome is something that we know how words to describe, but it’s something that has held people back forever and so we’re really interested to hear about your story and how you overcame imposter syndrome.
Imposter syndrome still whispers in my ear more than I’d like to admit. I still catch myself wondering, Am I good enough? Do I belong here? Am I as talented or capable as the next person? The comparison game is heavy, and most creatives I know feel that same weight. So instead of pretending I’ve “overcome” it, I’ve learned to accept it — and keep showing up anyway.
For me, it became less about eliminating those thoughts and more about pushing forward in spite of them. If this is truly the work I want, then I’ll keep giving it my all, even on days I don’t feel ready. And if I stumble? That doesn’t mean I don’t belong; it simply means I’m trying.
As a designer, that vulnerability runs even deeper. You put your ideas out into the world — a tablescape, a palette, a floral direction, a full vision — and hope people connect with it. For years, I second-guessed every design I thought was beautiful, worrying whether others would see what I saw.
What finally shifted everything for me was realizing this:
If something resonates with me, it already holds value — and as a designer, I’ve learned to trust that instinct. Sincerity in design has a way of making others feel it too.
Once I got out of my own head and truly trusted my creative voice, everything changed. My business flourished. I started producing events that felt like a dream come true and attracting clients who aligned perfectly with my vision. When you stay true to yourself and trust your own voice, you naturally flourish — and you find your people.
Life is too short to hold back out of fear. I’ve learned that if you continue to show up, work hard, and trust your instincts — even when the doubt is loud — you grow into the spaces that are meant for you. Confidence comes from doing the work, not from waiting until you feel “ready.” And the more you honor your own voice, the more aligned your opportunities, clients, and creative direction become.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
I grew up in between Montana and Wyoming, and from as early as I can remember, I’ve had a deep love for the mountains. The natural landscape — its colors, textures, and quiet beauty — continues to be one of my greatest sources of inspiration. Although I was raised in small towns, I’ve always had big-city dreams. I travel around the world for both work and inspiration, and those experiences have deeply influenced my creative perspective. Still, no matter how far I go, the mountains always feel like home.
From a young age, I was captivated by design. I was constantly rearranging rooms, restyling corners, and obsessing over how small details could completely transform a space. Interior design felt like my calling, but as I grew older, I became drawn to the world of event planning — a field that allowed me to combine everything I loved: design, organization, people, and the joy of creating something beautiful and meaningful. I remember discovering planners like Mindy Weiss and thinking, what a dream job, to bring beauty, emotion, and structure together in one experience. For a long time, I was told that planning wasn’t a “real” career, but once I saw people investing in intentional, luxurious celebrations, I knew I’d found my path.
Today, as the founder and creative director of Bijou Weddings by Design, I create timeless, editorial-style weddings across Montana and beyond. I take minimal inspiration — sometimes just a color, a texture, or an emotion — and transform it into a cohesive, artfully curated design that reflects each couple’s personal style. From there, I assemble an incredible team of trusted vendors and bring every detail to life from start to finish.
While our work is rooted in the Big Sky and Bozeman area, we also specialize in destination weddings around the world. Traveling is one of my favorite parts of my job — every new place offers a fresh perspective, a new palette, and endless creative energy. Whether designing in the Montana mountains or along the coast of Italy, my goal is always the same: to craft experiences that feel effortless, authentic, and unforgettable.
At its heart, my work is about connection — between people, design, and emotion. I’m passionate about creating moments that feel joyful, grounded, and full of life. In a world that can often feel uncertain, I feel incredibly grateful to spend my days celebrating love, beauty, and light. Helping couples create a day they’ll remember with warmth and happiness forever — that’s what drives me every single time.
If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?
Looking back, I’d say the three qualities that have made the biggest impact on my journey are confidence (even when you have to fake it a little), consistency, and an openness to always keep learning.
Early on, I often found myself in rooms where I didn’t quite feel like I belonged. I had to learn that it’s okay to start there — you don’t have to have it all figured out to take up space. If this is something you truly want, do the research, study the people doing it well, intern, assist, ask questions, and put in the hard work to make yourself valuable and knowledgeable. Before you know it, you’ll find your footing and realize you do belong.
There’s a lot of “brunt work” in the beginning that isn’t glamorous — the late nights, the trial and error, the learning curves — but those moments build resilience and credibility. If you stay consistent, confident, and genuinely eager to learn, that combination will take you further than talent alone ever could.
My biggest advice to anyone starting out is this: don’t wait until you feel “ready.” None of us ever do. Show up anyway, work hard, keep your integrity, and keep learning. The confidence comes later — but the commitment has to come first.
Okay, so before we go, is there anyone you’d like to shoutout for the role they’ve played in helping you develop the essential skills or overcome challenges along the way?
Without question, my children have been the greatest influence in shaping who I am — both personally and professionally. My biggest challenge has always been getting in my own head. Imposter syndrome followed me for years, convincing me I didn’t belong or wasn’t “enough.” But when I became a mother, everything shifted. My kids gave me a kind of confidence I hadn’t been able to find on my own. They made me braver. They pushed me to follow my dreams because I wanted them to see what it looks like when someone builds something with heart and purpose. Their unconditional love grounded me, quieted the doubt, and reminded me I was capable of more than I ever gave myself credit for.
Beyond my children, I’ve been surrounded by people who shaped my work ethic and my belief in myself from the very beginning. My husband has been my steady rock since day one — always encouraging me, building me up, and giving me confidence when I needed it most. My grandmother and my dad instilled a strong work ethic in me early in life. Working in my grandma’s shoe store at nine years old taught me the value of commitment, connection, and grit, while my dad showed me the reward that comes from working hard with integrity. My mom, endlessly creative, taught me that when you truly love something, you can turn it into something beautiful and successful — as long as you refuse to give up.
And throughout my career, I’ve been shaped by countless incredible creatives in this industry — photographers, pastry chefs, venue managers, florists, rental consultants — people whose talent and generosity have inspired me and helped me grow. Building a business alongside such a strong creative community has been one of the greatest gifts of this work.
All of these people — my children, my husband, my family, and my creative peers — have played a direct role in helping me overcome challenges and develop the skills, confidence, and heart behind everything I do.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.bijouweddingsbydesign.com
- Instagram: @bijouweddingsbydesign
- Facebook: @bijouweddingsbydesign
Image Credits
Honeyseed Photo & Film
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