We recently connected with Nicole Silvester and have shared our conversation below.
Hi Nicole, really happy you were able to join us today and we’re looking forward to sharing your story and insights with our readers. Let’s start with the heart of it all – purpose. How did you find your purpose?
Since childhood, I believed I had a clear understanding of my purpose, but time has shown me that purpose is far more fluid than I once imagined. Life teaches us through change- through the seasons we outgrow, the challenges we face, and the people who shape us. What I once viewed as fixed has evolved into something living, something that grows as I do. Yet throughout all this transformation, one truth has never wavered: my deep, instinctive calling to help, support, and uplift others. This isn’t just a trait or a habit; it is the core of who I am.
Today, I recognize that we are always unfolding, always discovering new dimensions of ourselves. Purpose isn’t a final destination we reach one day-it is reflected in the intentional ways we show up, both for others and for ourselves, every single day. And as I continue to evolve, one thing becomes increasingly clear: my purpose is rooted in empowering others. Ultimately, my mission is to help people understand their own worth, their own potential, and their own capacity to grow, just as I continue to discover mine.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
I am an Insurance Agent and representative for GreatFlorida Insurance, Silvester Advisors, an independent agency specializing in both personal and commercial lines. My primary focus is on the personal lines side of coverage, including auto insurance, homeowners’ insurance, golf cart insurance, umbrella policies, boat insurance, and more. What makes this role especially meaningful to me is the opportunity to work closely and directly with clients. I take the time to understand their unique needs, offer my professional guidance, and provide honest, personalized recommendations. My goal is not only to help clients secure the right protection, but also to ensure they are saving money and receiving the best possible options available. To me, this is more than a job-it’s a chance to genuinely support people, bring clarity to an often-confusing industry, and build trust through service and transparency.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
Looking back, the three qualities that have had the greatest impact on my journey so far are honesty, positivity, and kindness. These traits have not only shaped the way I move through the world, but they have also guided how I build relationships, navigate challenges, and grow both personally and professionally.
Honesty has allowed me to stay grounded and true to myself, even when the path felt uncertain. Positivity has helped me push forward during difficult moments, keeping me focused on possibilities rather than limitations. And kindness-something I consider one of the most powerful tools we have-has opened doors, created meaningful connections, and allowed me to serve others with compassion and respect.
For those who are early in their journey, my advice is simple:
Start small, practice consistently, and allow these qualities to become part of who you are.
Be honest with yourself about your goals and your strengths. Nurture positivity by choosing to see opportunities in every setback. And lead with kindness in your interactions, even when it’s not the easiest option. These qualities are not just skills-they’re habits, and with time, they become your foundation. They will guide you, support you, and help you grow into the person you’re meant to be.
Okay, so before we go, is there anyone you’d like to shoutout for the role they’ve played in helping you develop the essential skills or overcome challenges along the way?
When I look at the people who have helped me grow, I realize that everyone I’ve encountered has served as either a lesson or a blessing, and each individual has shaped me into who I am today. Some offered guidance, some offered challenges, and others offered love, but all of them contributed to my growth in their own way. Yet, as much as others have influenced my journey, I’ve learned that I have been the most impactful force in overcoming my own challenges. By speaking to myself with honesty, encouraging myself through difficult moments, and choosing to love myself more and more each day, I’ve built the resilience, strength, and confidence I needed. In the end, the world has taught me many things, but learning to show up for myself has been the most transformative lesson of all.
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