We were lucky to catch up with Talia Davis recently and have shared our conversation below.
Talia, thanks so much for taking the time to share your insights and lessons with us today. We’re particularly interested in hearing about how you became such a resilient person. Where do you get your resilience from?
Resilience has always been woven into my story. I learned early that no one was coming to save me, and if I wanted to heal, I would have to take that journey into my own hands. From surviving sexual abuse at a young age to navigating addiction and terminal illness within my family, I was pushed into adulthood long before I should have been. Those experiences shaped a strength in me that wasn’t optional—it was necessary.
My parents both shaped that resilience in very different ways. My mother introduced me to creativity early on—modeling, acting, performing—giving me the foundation for the artistic expression I still carry today. But she also carried her own unhealed trauma, shaped by growing up with a father involved in the drug trade and the instability that came with that. Sometimes she poured into me, and sometimes she pulled me out of spaces before I could grow in them. As a child, I didn’t understand that inconsistency; as a woman, I understand it was the weight of her own past showing up. It wasn’t about a lack of love—it was the legacy of trauma that so many families in the Black community quietly navigate.
My father shaped me through a completely different lens. Playing the sport he loved introduced me to a level of criticism and pressure I wasn’t prepared for. In that environment, being good was never good enough. I learned quickly that effort didn’t always equal praise, and that perfection was often the expectation. Those moments toughened me, but they also taught me how to separate my worth from other people’s standards—something I wouldn’t fully understand until adulthood.
These experiences have deeply influenced my journey to where I am now. Today, I channel that resilience and creativity into my hair business, where I offer not just hair services but therapeutic experiences. My salon is a place where clients come not only to look good but to feel heard and valued. Through hair, I provide a space for healing and self-expression, much like how I found solace in singing and dancing during difficult times.
Additionally, my nonprofit and community work are extensions of this mission. I’m dedicated to giving back and supporting others, especially at-risk youth, by teaching them about self-care and resilience. Every step of my journey—every challenge and every triumph—has shaped me into the person I am today, committed to uplifting and empowering those around me.
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Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?
I’m thrilled to share what I do and what makes it so special. I own a creative hair business where I offer not just hair services but therapeutic experiences that empower and uplift my clients. My brand is all about self-expression, healing, and celebrating individuality.
One of the most exciting aspects of my work is the launch of my Anointed Crown Oils. Each oil is crafted with a specific purpose, and I pray over them to infuse them with positive energy and intentions. It’s a special way for me to connect with my clients on a deeper level and offer them something meaningful.
In addition to my business, I’ve continued my passion for teaching by offering hair care workshops to foster girls every second Sunday at Bay Hope Church. It’s been an incredibly rewarding experience to mentor these young women and share my knowledge and love for hair care with them.
I also had the incredible opportunity to style the hair of the True Blue Twins and a Tampa Bay news anchor. These experiences have been amazing highlights in my journey, helping me gain recognition and expand my reach.
Looking ahead, I plan to gain my body wrapping certification to expand my business beyond just hair care. This certification will allow me to offer holistic healing treatments, creating a comprehensive wellness space for my clients to feel rejuvenated inside and out.
Additionally, my nonprofit and community work are extensions of this mission. I’m dedicated to giving back and supporting others, especially at-risk youth, by teaching them about self-care and resilience. Every step of my journey—every challenge and every triumph—has shaped me into the person I am today, committed to uplifting and empowering those around me!

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?
First, learning to communicate with people I perceived as better than me was crucial. It taught me that everyone has unique value to offer and that genuine connections can open doors to opportunities I never imagined. My advice for those early in their journey is to practice stepping out of your comfort zone and engaging with others authentically. Remember, everyone has something valuable to share.
Second, embracing what makes me stand out in the crowd has been a game-changer. I’ve learned to celebrate my uniqueness and to be okay with sticking out. This mindset has allowed me to bring authenticity into my work, whether it’s through my hair business, nonprofit, or community work. My advice is to embrace your individuality and let it shine in everything you do. Authenticity attracts the right opportunities and connections.
Finally, mastering meditation and manifestation has been a cornerstone of my personal and professional growth. By learning to clear my mind and set intentions, I’ve allowed creative energy and clarity to flow freely. Speaking my affirmations in the mirror daily, even when I don’t fully feel them, has been a powerful practice in building self-belief and resilience.
My advice for those early in their journey is to take breaks from social media to clear your mind and to read more. Reading helps you acquire knowledge and develop the skills needed to become a well-rounded entrepreneur. It ensures you can rely on yourself and continue growing in every aspect of your life.

Looking back over the past 12 months or so, what do you think has been your biggest area of improvement or growth?
In the past 12 months, my biggest area of growth has been learning to stop equating my worth with monetary value or how others treated me. I realized that much of how I was perceived and treated was often rooted in other people’s egos, not in my true value.
I’ve learned that I am okay by myself and that it’s important to let people be themselves without getting emotionally attached to how their actions reflect on our future. This understanding has empowered me to let go and walk away from relationships—both in business and romance—that weren’t serving my well-being or aligning with my goals.
I’ve also learned the importance of asking for help from those who truly show up for me, rather than begging and pleading for the company of those who aren’t genuinely there. I now have the right people around me—people who support and uplift me. This has allowed me to align myself with the reality I want to live, focusing on genuine connections and authentic relationships.
Money and people were such huge lessons for me this year. I’ve learned that my worth isn’t tied to how much I earn or how others perceive me. Instead, it’s about staying true to myself, valuing authentic relationships, and aligning with my vision for the future.
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