What do you do when no one else in the company or the meeting looks like you? We asked entrepreneurs and creatives from across industries and geographies to share their experiences and advice.
Diana Castaldi
I have always been a fan of the Robert Frost poem “The Road Not Taken” in which a traveller is forced to choose one path over the other. The traveler is unable to see down both paths but trusts the one he chooses. The becomes a metaphor for making the right decision at the right time. In much the same way, I have a diverse background and often do not look like other industry professionals; Read More>>
Tonya Trvn
Remember that sometimes feeling the want or need to represent your entire community can be overwhelming… especially when you’re placed in leadership role. However, one can strive to being your authentic self and sharing their own unique perspective. This can contribute to a more inclusive and diverse environment. Read More>>
Sharon Johnson
This is surreal March 3rd 23 I turned 67 years old aging gracefully
On March 11th 23 I was working and I fell
broke two bones in my arm and I lost my quality of life long story short workmen comp. gave me no choice but to go back to work but this time light duty Read More>>
James “ Slim” Bouler
As a child I was taught to love everyone, no matter what color you are! One thing I understand, is that the game of golf was never thought of as a sport for a black man to play. So when I became a professional at the sport, I realized that I had to keep quiet, accept the rules set for me, and find a way to block out the prejudice, comments and acts that were coming against me! I loved the game and i proved to them that I had the skills to play! Read More>>
Erika E. Wade
I often feel like people describe me as the person at the center of the room. That’s not untrue. However, the people who know me best know I observe all situations before diving in. I think people call it reading the room now. Well, by reading a room, I’m never shocked by the ways people will receive me. Subtle body language, casual conversation, and mannerism tell you a lot about people. If I know how people generally think and react, nothing should surprise me. Read More>>
Willie Johnson
I believe in my intuition and reading the room. However, being aware that I am equally as good and recognizing the skills that I possess along with the knowledge and wisdom gained helped me to accomplish many objectives and stand out at what I do best for myself and my tasks. I also have the support of many around me and am motivated to get whatever prize is worth going for, including survival. Read More>>
Delania Brown
I learned that I’m the only one that I need to worry about. I don’t see others in the room. I’m the only competitor in the room. I’m successful because of God. Read More>>
Roxanne Luciano
Sometimes it’s a little hard being the only one in the room that is like me or that looks like me but I always feel like when you walk into a room , be the beat representation of yourself that you can be. You never know who’s watching & you always want to represent yourself & your brand in the best ways. Read More>>
Arlene Salcedo
Throughout my life, I have often found myself as the only person in the room who looks like me. This realization began at a young age when I stood out due to my emotional nature. Attending predominantly black and Latino schools during my elementary years, I noticed that despite my physical appearance, I did not share the same cultural background as my friends and classmates. Read More>>
Elle Torres
Being confident is key- knowing your skills, what you bring to the table, and the certainty that you are the only one with your specific knowledge and skillset is the best way to be successful in a room where you are the only one in the room that looks like you. Read More>>
Andi Byers
I learn at a young age that my reality looked drastically different from most. I was often the only person that looked like me in a lot of spaces I was in. As I got older the difference was no longer just that I was a women or even a woman of color. It became those things plus chronic illness. Read More>>
Merci Chrisette
I really love this question! To be quite honest it definitely took a lot of life lessons, and experiences in order to feel confident enough within myself so that I can push through any obstacles that came my way. I had to realize that I am worthy enough to be successful. It took a lot of self healing, and although change is uncomfortable, it can also be amazing. Now I have been running my own make up company for three years and there’s so much more to come! Read More>>
Jon Reece
I’ve always been a “Black sheep” of sorts- very different- and kinda weird I guess, but that always sort of gave me power in myself. I never wanted to be like everyone else. Growing up in Foster Care taught me that people’s circumstances aren’t always in their control, and that gave me the ability early on to see the good in people, and see them for their quirks and all. Luckily for me, I was adopted by two people who also shared that world view. Read More>>
Yzabella Balette
Usually when I tell people I’m a Makeup Artist, the first picture that comes to their mind is either Fashion Shows or Bridal. When I tell them I’m a Special Makeup Effects Artist, they either ask me what that means or they look at me completely bewildered. I think it’s definitely grown in popularity over the years than when I first started back in 2006. Read More>>
Angelique Ramirez
The best way to overcome this is by taking a look at what you have created! You might see other places that sell the exact same thing and that’s a little intimidating but take a look at the beautiful creations you have made all on your own! Sometimes it’s hard to not compare yourself to others but all you have to do is take a step back and realize that the only competition you have is your own self and thinking about what to make next all on your own! Read More>>
Nkeiruka “Nk” Igbonagwam
Staying true to myself, my believes and knowing that I am unique. I’ve learned that standing out as opposed to blending in isn’t negative but rather positive because you’ll never be forgotten. My confidence and personality are my selling points, and most importantly, being Nigerian in America with an accent. I believe in my talent and pretty confident that my light shines so bright and people are curious to know who I am. Making good use of opportunities and paying attention to my calling in this world to entertain/put a smile on people’s faces has taught me to be effective/successful. I’ve always kept it real with myself, I don’t pretend to be who I am not. Rather, I want to be a better version of myself because staying true to yourself always wins. Read More>>
Chasity Turbeville
Growing up as a shy introvert, I always knew I was different. It wasn’t until my adult years, that I finally found my voice. And it wasn’t until I became a mama, that I found my true purpose. My calling. I’ve always had a creative side & a love for art. I always knew that I wanted a job that was meaningful & one that I truly enjoyed. Mother’s Day will mark 3 years since I started my entrepreneur journey! Read More>>
