What do you do when no one else in the company or the meeting looks like you? We asked entrepreneurs and creatives from across industries and geographies to share their experiences and advice.
Belle
Being the only person in the room who looks like you can indeed serve as a powerful advantage. Growing up, I faced many insecurities about my appearance, often finding myself larger than my peers. However, as I transitioned into adulthood and traveled the world as a singer, I discovered the transformative power of confidence combined with undeniable talent. Read more>>
Jasmin Haley
Being the only one—or one of the few—who looked like me has been a transformative experience in my journey, both in the dental profession and as a speaker in healthcare. At that time in dentistry, I often found myself in spaces where I was the only one who looked like me in the corporate/professional speaking world, and without a mentor who could guide me through that unique experience, I had to turn inward. It meant building a well of confidence and conviction from within, trusting that the gifts I possess were divinely given and already enough. Read more>>
Aarushi Jain
Reflecting on my journey as an independent producer, it’s astonishing to think about the challenges I faced from the get-go. Entering the film industry in Mumbai eight years ago meant stepping into a predominantly male-dominated space. People would often ask if I was part of the costume or art team, which was frustrating since I was a production manager. I frequently found myself relegated to managing talent while my male counterparts took on more critical tasks, like negotiating with vendors and scouting locations. A lot of people were genuinely surprised that I chose to work in production, instead of what many perceive as the more ‘glamorous’ departments of the industry. Read more>>
Allan Lee Frankie (artist Name)
Working as an art curator in Tokyo has been an incredible journey of self-discovery, resilience, and growth. Entering Tokyo’s dynamic art scene as a newcomer, I knew there would be challenges—not only due to my background but also because I aimed to make art more accessible and inclusive. I noticed early on that the art world can be insular, often favoring established connections over fresh perspectives. My goal, however, was to break down these barriers, demonstrating that art should be for everyone. Read more>>
Gbale Allen
Being the only one in the room who looks like me has often been challenging, but it’s also been one of my greatest sources of strength. Early on, I learned to embrace my unique background and appearance as an asset rather than a limitation. Growing up as a military child, living in different countries, and experiencing life as both a Liberian and a Southern American gave me a rich understanding of how to bridge diverse perspectives and communicate across cultural divides. That experience taught me to walk into spaces with confidence, knowing that I bring a valuable, multifaceted perspective. Read more>>
Vincent Moore
I was blessed to be raised by two hardworking talented black parents that came from humble southern beginnings. Born into a military family in the 60’s; both my parents took every opportunity to instill in me deep character values, faith, discipline, cultural heritage, and encouragement. One such times; there was a need to find travel for our little league basketball team to the Championship game. I was the captain of my team; yet the rare difference was; I was living in Europe as a military black kid in the 70’s which required travel to another European country. My father said I have an opportunity to get transport, accommodation, and meals, but he said I had to be the one to ask his boss for it. Read more>>
Farah Silat
As a black sheep of the family amongst 4 siblings that were “A” grade students, I had understood from an early age that I would have to work twice as hard to prove I’m no less. I developed resilience and worked on my uniqueness over the years. I tried to focus on my interests and set goals for my self. Read more>>
Crystal Le Fay
Being the only person in a room often creates distinct challenges, especially when it feels as though you are the sole representative of your background or identity. Throughout my life, I have traversed a landscape scattered with numerous setbacks and failures, each one forming critical stepping stones on my journey to success. These experiences have been more than just obstacles; they have been profound lessons that have enriched my understanding of both myself and the world around me. Read more>>
Madeline Gabaldon Magana
I have learned to become successful and effective in a room with no one that looks like me or even anyone to help by always putting God first and seeking his guidance. I put confidence behind knowing I’m an honest woman and protected by my morals I stand behind. I also am happy and openly willing to helping others in anyway that I can welcoming. Read more>>
Hussain Abdullah
Based on my experiences I am usually underestimated because of how I present. That is a combination of my youth, tattoos, style of dress (T shirts and sweats) and my skin color. I use that to my advantage because it allows me to pick my entry points into discussions and the reality is when you have low expectations of someone when they do something even on par with general expectations others in the room are captivated. Read more>>
Amanda Verdadero
I am a young biracial female working in Live Events. In my career, I am often the only person in the room that looks like me. Initially, it was very intimidating, especially giving direction to older men that had decades of experience. However, as I continued in my role, I found that being the only one that looks like you can be an asset. You can offer a unique perspective and voice. It’s so important to be in that room and to do what you can to open the door for others like you to join. It is key to remind yourself that you are qualified and put into the room for a reason. You must be confident in your abilities and project that confidence, even if you don’t always feel it inside. Read more>>
Khambrel Hinson
Understanding my role in my current area in Gods Plan… I’ve been in a few rooms where I’m the only black student in the room and realized that there was a reason for that years later. Being a 1% is special because after, you’ll see that you have less and less competition from there. I became successful by embracing being the 1st African American to graduate from Arizona State University. This was effective because this prompts people to ask why fashion? Honestly, cloth and sewing is the median I paint with and final product is the canvas. Things may not be the greatest however they have worked for the better. And put me in the room to be a 1% Read more>>
Shadiqua Mcduffie
Being the only one in the room is a reality I’ve navigated my entire life, both in school and in the workplace. Standing out has taught me resilience, adaptability, and a unique form of leadership that values my individuality. Read more>>
Doris Fields
My father worked in the coal mines for fifty years. After he retired, he worked another twenty years as the doorkeeper for the W.Va. State Senate. He loved politics and he was very much involved with politicians and their campaigns. This meant that 98% of the time, he was the only one in the room when he would attend rallies, luncheons and meetings. He would take me along with him many times when I was quite young because he wanted me to know who these people were. Read more>>
Pj Stauffer
I have to constantly remind myself how hard I worked to get to the point I’m at. I have to remember every little step and decision I made, some with uncertainty, that put me on this track, and that I deserve to be here and take up space. I am a transgender man who was raised on a farm in the middle of nowhere, Kansas. I often am the only person in the room who looks like me, because I am gender-nonconforming, and I regularly in my day-to-day life am met with confusion. People seem to never expect someone like me becoming who I am, because I definitely don’t look like I grew up on a farm. I also am pretty androgynous, and people sometimes in their confusion can’t tell if I am a man or woman, and I sense hesitancy. Read more>>
Erin Rehil
I think the best way to overcome this kind of insecurity is to give ourselves lots of opportunities to practice. As a visual artist from Flint, Michigan, I grew up in an underappreciated community with a lot of hardships and now work in an industry where there is a lot of wealth. Read more>>
Kerry Wee
I was accustomed to being the only Asian in the room growing up in rural Ohio. When I moved to Los Angeles, I was surprised to be somewhat intimidated by other asian women and competitive with them. I began my career in the commercial dance industry. The diversity around me sometimes felt like the hug that I never knew I needed but at other times felt as if I had lost a super power. I convinced myself that I stood out only because I was alone. In reality, growing up I had just learned to survive without a tribe. Read more>>
Jocelyn R. Taylor
Being the only one in the room is an experience and skillset that requires adaptability, resilience, and a commitment to self-empowerment. When you’re the only one who looks like you in a space, it’s easy to feel isolated, even self-conscious. However, I’ve found that these moments are often the most valuable opportunities to bring unique perspectives to the table to learn, thrive and foster diversity in thought. Read more>>
Sanya Hudson
Distorted history and propaganda in media has alarmingly tried to convince people that those born in marginalized communities have limited potential. At an early age, I had the audacity to see beyond the institutional barriers surrounding my neighborhood and made a promise to break barriers. Read more>>
Swati Sharma
I have so many moments where I think, “I can’t believe this is my life.” Be it being on set, hitting writing milestones or at networking events. Having a creative job in Los Angeles itself seems like a blessing but having one as a young immigrant from India adds another overwhelming layer to it. Never in my wildest dreams did I think that I would live and work as a writer and producer in one of the biggest cities in the US, if not the world. I think because of that sense of disbelief and overwhelm, I find that our first barrier towards success is often ourselves. Before convincing other people that you belong in a room, you need to convince yourself. Read more>>
Severina Hernandez
Being the only one in the room that stands out—whether by gender, ethnicity, or simply by perspective—comes with a unique set of challenges that, honestly, I’m still learning to navigate. It’s something most people might not realize I struggle with because I make a conscious effort to project confidence, even on days when I’m feeling the weight of it all. For me, the first step is feeling good in my own skin, and that starts with dressing in a way that reflects my best self. It might sound simple, but when you look good, you feel good, and that positivity has a way of spilling over into everything you do. It’s my little reminder that confidence is something we can cultivate from the outside in. Read more>>
James Steinbach
Being the only one in the room who looks different can be tough, but I’ve learned to embrace my unique perspective as a strength. Confidence in my experiences, curiosity about others, and competence in my work help me connect and build trust. I focus on shared goals, advocate for myself when needed, and seek mentorship for support. It’s about owning who I am and creating space for diverse voices. Read more>>
Pbp
When walking into a room filled with new people it can be intimidating. I face this head on by following my intuition and beliefs. In one instance when I initially started performing I was immediately called out for being the only one different in the room. Having multiple performers doubt my performance abilities and questioning what I have to offer or bring to the stage. Being questioned about credibility and authenticity pushed me to prove my worth and display my unique talents. Read more>>
Loretta Rogers
As a child, I was a daydreamer and very often got lost in imaginary worlds. Many times, this got me into trouble, especially during my school years. It wasn’t until years later that I learned I was a natural introvert. I prefer quiet over noise. I’m uncomfortable in large crowds. If I had to choose between going to a party or staying home with a good book, I’d choose the book. Read more>>
Aviva Sonenreich
Being the only one in the room has been a recurring theme in my career, especially as a young woman in a field traditionally dominated by more experienced men. When I joined my family’s commercial real estate business at just 22, I was frequently the youngest and often the only woman at the table, especially in high-stakes meetings or industry events. Initially, this was intimidating; I felt the weight of representing not only myself but also the potential of what a new generation could bring to commercial real estate. Read more>>
Thomas Angenbroich
I’m a very big believer in working for what you want in life. There’s no such thing as handouts in life, and everything you have in life needs to be earned. I am somebody who works 24/7, whether I recognize it or not. Whether it’s designing flyers / graphics, planning events, creating a new party concept, or simply just at home brainstorming the next step. You’ve got to put aside the distractions and set goals for yourself, and stay on yourself to achieve your goals. Read more>>
Soulfiya
I’ve never had the luxury of having a large support system or a close-nit community. I’ve always been an exceptional individual, in the sense that i’m visibly different than my peers. Because of that, or maybe in spite of it, I look to make music that I would have wanted as a youth coming up. Representation matters, and it makes me proud to be that representative for someone out there. Read more>>
Giorgio Albanese
Being the only one in the room that looks like me has taught me to embrace the unique perspective I bring to the table. I’ve learned to see this as a strength, as it allows me to introduce fresh ideas and insights that may not be as obvious to others. For example, in collaborations, my background as an Italian jazz accordionist and composer often brings in musical influences that are different from what my peers are used to, and this sparks exciting discussions and creative directions that enhance our work. Read more>>
Nga Weng Chio
As someone who comes from a culturally rich background in Macau, I’ve often found myself in environments where I’m the only person with my unique perspective and cultural experiences. Being “the only one in the room” has taught me the importance of embracing and sharing my heritage. I integrate elements from Chinese, Portuguese, and European influences—so prominent in Macau—into my compositions, which allows me to express my individuality and contribute a fresh perspective to projects like Stormgate. Read more>>
Michelle-lee
Many may view being an outlier as a disadvantage or a setback since a path hasn’t been already paved but to me, it’s an opportunity to make the path your own and to set the standard for others. It’s easy to speak about it now that I’ve matured in my purpose. To be honest, I didn’t always feel this way. I would become frustrated that there was no one in my genre that created music like me or questioned my purpose and if it was even possible to write gospel songs that sounded more like R&B or Pop. I wondered if maybe something was wrong with me, or if I was a bad Christian. It would have been easy to shy away from the lyrics, concepts and melodies I heard in my head but the thoughts wouldn’t let me rest. Read more>>
Alison Reuter
Being the only girl on the job site has certainly been an experience in resilience & owning one’s worth in order to be heard, respected, & partnered with to bring construction projects to life as intended. To be effective as the only girl surrounded by craftsmen skilled in their specific trades, I’ve learned that being curious & thinking ahead are beneficial, as is taking the time to genuinely learn about construction & its methods, while always being as prepared as possible to answer questions before they even come up. Each of these details aids in building rapport with (and then respect from) the guys, so that we can work together. Read more>>
Destiny Santana
Being a kid from new York, I had a lot of personality growing up, I had a strong sense of self and was subconsciously learning how to integrate it into the world creatively. As I matured, I cultivated quick witted strategies that used my natural born talents and abilities to lead me forward. I knew I wanted to create so I worked in hospitality. I knew it would expose me to people out of my reach, I also understood that working as a host at a popular hotel or club teaches you about people. Teaches you how to deescalate situations swiftly, manage peoples emotions as well as your own and be expected to do it gracefully, with poise and class; if not, your just the stereotype. Aggressive, difficult, attitude problem, loud. Working through these challenges taught me how to successfully not take no shit and still keep a job. Read more>>
Norma Molestina
I often find myself in situations where I need to be effective even when I’m working alone. In these moments, I seek inspiration to keep my motivation alive, whether it’s through reading, listening to podcasts, or reflecting on my achievements. Read more>>
Toni Weathers
I’ve come to understand that being different isn’t a disadvantage—it’s a powerful opportunity. As one of the few, or sometimes the only person in the room who looks like me, I have a unique responsibility to set a positive example and pave the way for those who will come after me. It’s not just about my own success; it’s about making sure others see that someone like us can thrive and excel. I’m driven to show that success is possible, and I take this to heart, knowing that my performance and professionalism can influence perceptions and open doors for others. Read more>>
Mesbelle
Since a kid with big dreams and aspirations, I always knew I was born with ambition. I started my first business at 15, and I never really saw myself as different until I began stepping into rooms full of older, more seasoned individuals. At first, I was hesitant to tell people my age, thinking they might not take me seriously or give me a fair chance. And yes, I did face those moments, but instead of holding me back, it fueled my drive to work even harder. I wanted to prove that age is truly just a number. Now, after achieving some of my goals and pushing past those initial doubts, I’ve learned to take pride in being the youngest in the room. It’s a unique quality that sets me apart, and I embrace it fully. Read more>>
James (jay) Murray
For as long as I can remember, I’ve felt “different”—and honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way. My sexuality? Absolutely part of my swagger; it’s like a secret ingredient that amplifies my vibe. Growing up, I spent far too much time pretending to be someone else. But hey, at least it made me one hell of an actor—if you can convince your own family, you can pretty much fool the world, right? My passion for entertainment has always been in my DNA, right alongside my love for fashion, music, pop culture… and, of course, men. Coming out at 17 felt like hitting the jackpot, an instant dose of freedom. Moving to Manhattan after that was a turning point. Now that I’m based in LA, I still carry the strength and confidence New York gave me; it taught me that my uniqueness is my superpower, the essence of who I am. These days, I stay grounded through daily prayer and meditation, keeping my connection to a higher power strong and steady. Read more>>
Carlos Gomez
This question actually made me laugh because I realized a few things. Growing up in a very blue-collar environment, I always wanted to be an artist. In college, while many of my fellow students were focused on getting into the gaming industry, I wanted to make cartoons. Throughout my career, I often found myself surrounded by people with computer science backgrounds while I held a degree in animation. In many of the meetings I was in, I was the only one with my particular background and perspective. Read more>>
Nyema And Keisha Bedell
My name is Nyema Bedell, and my wife, Keisha, and I are co-owners of Cultivate Counseling & Consulting. As an African-American male, being a first-generation American with parents from Liberia has shaped my journey. Having a unique name like Nyema has always made me stand out in the room. As an entrepreneur and mental health therapist, I’ve learned that there will be many settings where I am the only one who looks like me, and I’ve developed strategies to thrive in those environments. Read more>>
Amber Irons
Being a woman in AG and especially a 1st generation rancher, I was very intimidated coming into this industry. I knew what I wanted to accomplish and I knew the quality of product I wanted to put out there for customers and consumers. I was determined to make my brand unique and completely me. Even if it meant not looking like your typical “old time cattle rancher”. I was lucky to have some role-models to look up to when I started this endeavor but I knew I had to be true to myself and stick with what qualities mattered to me and what I wanted for my operation. Read more>>
Aarushi Jain
Reflecting on my journey as an independent producer, it’s astonishing to think about the challenges I faced from the get-go. Entering the film industry in Mumbai eight years ago meant stepping into a predominantly male-dominated space. People would often ask if I was part of the costume or art team, which was frustrating since I was a production manager. I frequently found myself relegated to managing talent while my male counterparts took on more critical tasks, like negotiating with vendors and scouting locations. A lot of people were genuinely surprised that I chose to work in production, instead of what many perceive as the more ‘glamorous’ departments of the industry. Read more>>
Allan Lee Frankie (artist Name)
Working as an art curator in Tokyo has been an incredible journey of self-discovery, resilience, and growth. Entering Tokyo’s dynamic art scene as a newcomer, I knew there would be challenges—not only due to my background but also because I aimed to make art more accessible and inclusive. I noticed early on that the art world can be insular, often favoring established connections over fresh perspectives. My goal, however, was to break down these barriers, demonstrating that art should be for everyone. Read more>>
Gbale Allen
Being the only one in the room who looks like me has often been challenging, but it’s also been one of my greatest sources of strength. Early on, I learned to embrace my unique background and appearance as an asset rather than a limitation. Growing up as a military child, living in different countries, and experiencing life as both a Liberian and a Southern American gave me a rich understanding of how to bridge diverse perspectives and communicate across cultural divides. That experience taught me to walk into spaces with confidence, knowing that I bring a valuable, multifaceted perspective. Read more>>
