Every day, our team is focused on how to help our audience and community reach their full potential in every part of their lives – personal and professional. Building confidence and self-esteem is one of the most essential requirements for success and below we’ve presented some of the conversations we’ve had around how to build confidence.
Adrian D’Souza
Confidence and self-esteem are developed by fostering the resilience to go through ups and downs in life and through practice sessions to the point where you get through the plethora of obstacles that are thrown your way and finally after devoted practice you come realize you achieved what you once thought was impossible. Read more>>
Takenya Varner
I developed my confidence & self – esteem by just being me. I always been a person that stepped outside of my comfort zone even if I knew it will bring negative attention my way. It’s just always been a go for me. I just practiced being more comfortable with myself and developing self awareness more and more. I feel like if you know yourself for whom you are , not what nobody else thinks or the naysayers , you will always build your confidence and self esteem. Read more>>
Danni Ma
In my early 20s, confidence wasn’t exactly my strong suit. It was a time of self-discovery where I learned that putting in the hard work and getting involved in projects that mattered to me did wonders for my self-assurance. But you know what really made a difference? The people around me. When they started recognizing and encourage on my efforts, it was like a confidence booster shot. Read more>>
Manny Blue
After facing depression and contemplating suicide I completely lost my confidence. It took a little while to bounce back. I had to learn to tune out the negativity around me and disassociate myself from people always being negative. I trained my mind to see the outcome I wanted and the life I desire. One thing that I tell people when they are feeling a little down or their confidence takes a hit is, go get dressed up, ladies if you use make up doll yourself up, fellas clean yourself up, shave get a haircut and select an outfit that you like and look good in. Read more>>
Kinnari Sanghavi
I strongly believe that that being vulnerable has helped me build my confidence immensely, its sincerely the hardest thing one can do. My self-esteem stems from one of the biggest beliefs I harbor and that is treating both my failures / rejections and successes / acceptance with same enthusiasm. It may be hard to believe but I cherish my rejections as heartbreaking as they are as it helps me strive and work harder and boosting my confidence immensely. Read more>>
Kai Ming Yang
Growing up in Taiwan, I was taught to conform and avoid standing out. The prevailing notion was to fit in and silence individual voices. However, my perspective shifted when I came to the US and encountered Virgil Abloh’s empowering speech at Harvard Design School. His words highlighted the transformative impact of confidence and staying true to oneself. Read more>>
Ronald Fields III
Developing my confidence and self esteem has definitely been a process. I was made and raised in love so I was instilled that confidence from my dad and mom. They taught me that I could do anything. At times throughout my teenage years I lost some of that sight and would overthink a lot of myself and how others view me. I would feel like I was different but didn’t know if people would accept me so I sold myself short for a while. Read more>>
Rachel Weeks
It’s particularly easy for creatives and business owners to get swept up in self-doubt and stuck in the trap of comparing themselves to their competitors. I think it’s because creativity and entrepreneurship both require quick and constant decision-making. So compared to someone who – let’s say – has a manager spelling out their next steps for them daily or quarterly, the entrepreneur has so much more surface area to second-guess themselves. Read more>>
Ryan Neely
It has been a journey of years–perhaps decades–to develop the confidence and self-esteem I have today. During the course of this journey, it might appear (from an outside perspective, at least) that nothing has changed. That I’ve always had the same level of confidence and self-esteem from day one. From the inside, it almost appears as though I’ve come full circle, moving from extreme confidence and self-esteem, to having almost none, and back to having that extreme confidence and self-esteem again. The difference, from the inside at least, is that the circle is more of a single spiral from a spring. Read more>>
Erika Taylor
When I first picked up a camera, I only knew how to turn it on and off, so the idea of becoming a photographer seemed like a distant and impossible goal. I did not have any confidence in myself to work with people while taking their pictures with a foreign, clunky camera in my hand. Not to mention posing, different lighting scenarios, and learning how to edit… Read more>>
Alex Tsagamilis
Through dedication and hard work, I cultivated my confidence and self-esteem by pursuing an extensive education and hands-on experience in my field. Graduating Valedictorian for my BA in Film & TV studies from the American College of Greece and earning a Master’s Degree in film editing from the renowned American Film Institute (#1 film school in the world) laid a solid foundation for my knowledge and skills. Read more>>
Kelly Roach
Confidence and self-esteem are developed primarily by setting and achieving goals, keeping commitments that you make to yourself, and making the decision that when something is important enough to you, you are going to keep working at it until your confidence and your competence are in alignment with your ability to achieve your goals. Read more>>
Lili Alice Walker Stiefel
That’s how I know I can rely on myself. I’m not perfect, but I trust that when I say I will do something, I will make it happen – sooner or later. Confidence is a feeling of reliability, certainty, and self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation for their own abilities or qualities. I celebrate my wins and stay honest with myself and I don’t let other people’s opinions of me shift me off my course. Read more>>
Brandon Baldenegro
I believe the confidence I have within myself has developed since I was a child. Playing sports at a young age helps give you the tools you need to build one’s confidence and thriving in competition. Self esteem and confidence play a huge role together. Whether you think you can, or think you can’t you’re right. Read more>>
Valerie Orth
I was 5 years old when I sang in my first musical. Being on stage at such a formative age gave me a deep rooted confidence. For the next 15 years, I was constantly performing in theater. Then, needing to express myself in my own words, I began writing songs. Like many independent artists, in a very tough industry, I struggled with maintaining a sense of self esteem. Read more>>
Tara Demers
I do still struggle with this a lot. It is never an easy thing to overcome at all. I have honestly learned that not everyone will like what you put out, but as long as you do, that’s all that matters. I have people who are constantly supporting me, from day one and genuinely I owe a lot of it to them, because without their support and kindness, I most likely would not be doing what I do. Whether it’s from photography to my art, it keeps me going! Read more>>
Raisa Nse Edjang
I developed my confidence and self esteem by pouring love to myself. See, I’ve come to realize how easier life gets when you apply self love, once you love yourself you then have the capability of loving others. By saying no to things, ppl, and places that no longer resonate with the higher self I want to be. Read more>>
Liubov Berezhba
This is a significant and lengthy journey of self-discovery and self-awareness. Numerous individuals and experiences have impacted my self-confidence, and I have had to rebuild it multiple times. Some people advised me to change and conform to their standards, but ultimately, I realized that I don’t want to be someone else or seek validation from others. I simply want to live my own life. Trust me, only a few individuals have supported me and continue to do so. Therapy has played a significant role in my progress. Read more>>
Ta.bias
Being that I am naturally more of a shy and reserved person, it was easier to not talk much or be expressive in public. Unless you knew me personally, that’s the only way you’d know I had a completely different side of me. In the beginning and still today, my father reassured me that my music was good, but it wouldn’t be until my college years where I felt confident in my own music. I knew that I liked what I made but I was always self-conscious about what people would think or say about it. I think as a creative, we are always our worst critics. Read more>>
Lindsaya VanDeusen
My journey to develop confidence and self-esteem has been deeply intertwined with my commitment to daily self-love practices and personal development. At the core of it all is the Daily Self-Love Circle, a space I’ve cultivated for nurturing self-care. This daily ritual of self-love is not just about pampering oneself; it’s about connecting deeply with our inner selves, understanding our worth, and acknowledging our needs. Read more>>
Anne-Marie Guery
I still don’t feel confident enough but I guess the self-esteem i built comes from the risks I took in my life and the level of responsibility I had to face at certain times. As they say, you have to fake it until you make it. Well, I think that is the key for building confidence. You don’t feel like you are ready? Then you should go because you’ll grow no matter what happens. Read more>>
Taylor Prinsen
For most of my middle school – college years, growing up in the 90’s where extreme thinness and body shaming was rampant in every teen magazine at the grocery store, I found myself extremely ashamed of my body. I was an active child who loved playing club soccer, gymnastics and volleyball at my school, but I started to realize something was “off” when other girls would make comments about me being “fat” or making fun of me in different ways. Read more>>
Alex Michael Torres
With experience it’s easier to be confident in yourself. Until then, you have to act confident , and your body will learn to be confident by muscle memory. Read more>>
Carissa Alinat
It took me a very long time. My childhood was somewhat difficult, and that impacted my confidence and self-esteem. I was never sure of myself, often relying on someone else for validation. I thought I couldn’t do much in life, and I certainly imagine having the life I have now: a successful marriage, a loving family, a very fulfilling job, a good standard of living, and national recognition in my career. Read more>>
Brittales Black
Taking risk has been a game changer, and let me tell you why. When I started my career, I started off in healthcare because I had a passion for helping people who couldn’t help themselves. I climbed the ladder and went from a caregiver to a med tech to a receptionist, and my final position was sales. I became the number one seller for the company, bringing in the company millions of dollars and amazing reviews. Read more>>
Chef Tharren Printup
My confidence and self-esteem have accrued over time by repetition and finishing results. No one begins the journey of walking in self-purpose without doubt, worry or second thoughts. The traits of confidence and self-esteem must be awakened and maintained as you develop your characteristics as a leader, public figure, or any role of higher authority. It begins by being self-aware and acknowledging one’s strengths, skill set, and shortcomings. Read more>>
Adam Lucero
Confidence is a byproduct of your capabilities. Think of a time when you learned a new skill. You likely lacked confidence in that area of life until you practiced and became better. The same occurs with your confidence & self-esteem as a whole. If you have poor habits, a limiting perspective/beliefs, and a weak mental state… You will lack confidence. Read more>>
Jacqueline Pitman
WOW, this is a great question because my journey towards building confidence and self-esteem is ongoing. My self-confidence is constantly being challenged in all aspects of my life, including work, friendships, and love. Nevertheless, remaining true to my core beliefs keeps me on solid ground. Read more>>
Troublesome County
The most realistic answer I can give is that this is an ongoing journey for most people—including us. Confidence and self esteem comes in part from life experiences, but it mostly comes from a place within. As obvious as it may seem, this is even more difficult in the creative world, since art is so subjective and relies heavily on the audience. Read more>>
Ramona Adkins
Pain and trauma can do many things to your character. The reactions can be damaging or optimistic. In my case, it was both. In my younger days, I lacked confidence, and my self-esteem was the sticky stuff under the bottom of the barrel. I was a plus-size child, so I was teased through college and into my adulthood. I also had learning challenges and had to have a tutor until I graduated college. Read more>>
Rivers Johnson
I think if you want something do it. If you’re scared, research it and get the knowledge you need to back up your decisions. The way if something doesn’t turn out the way you’re hoping it would you can give yourself a pep-talk and say, “I did the best I could with the knowledge I had.” You learn lessons along the way, and some are hard lessons. There is a level of confidence you gain from your mistakes, and no one can take that away from you. Read more>>
Georgette Reynolds
There are levels to confidence and self-esteem. I learned early on in life as my confidence is my attitude. I started doing beauty pageants at four years old. Now some pageants I won some I lost but my mom always taught me to love who I see in the mirror and the judges will love her too. As I got older and begins to lessen the make up and the hair and the accessories, I learned that the most beautiful thing was my attitude. Read more>>
Crispin Spaeth
Part necessity, part practice. I’ve always been a bit of an outsider. I grew up in the 70s as an early feminist, fourth of four daughters, in an art-loving, liberal family in a conservative town in NY state. We were definitely oddballs. Every once in a while I’d try to fit in, but it always made me feel terrible. Being out of congruence with myself always made me miserable. Read more>>
Claire Click
Mel Robbins said “First you do the thing, then you get the confidence to do the thing some more.” That’s basically my philosophy! My Virtual Assistant journey has been a series of baby steps. Slowly taking a course, slowly building my portfolio, slowly building my client base. I’ve never rushed anything, because I want every step to be quality. With each task I work on, I remind myself: there was a time you didn’t know how to do this. But now you do. This helps me to feel more confident when I take on NEW things I haven’t done yet. Read more>>
