Developing Discipline: Stories & Insights

Many of the most impressive entrepreneurs and creatives in our community exhibit a high degree of self-discipline and so we asked some of them to share their backstories of how they developed their self-discipline.

Jasmin Chavez

My self-discipline comes from the responsibility I feel as a business owner and the vision I have for my salon. I’m passionate about creating a space that inspires both my team and my clients. I know that only happens through consistency, leadership, and follow-through. Running a salon means showing up even when it’s hard, handling challenges with grace, and always keeping the bigger picture in mind. This mindset helps me stay grounded, even on the busiest days. My discipline is really just a reflection of the love I have for this business and the people in it. Read More>>

Gregory Carpenter

Ironically, it started with failure, a long, consistent streak of it.
For most of my early life, I was almost good enough. I was a middle-of-the-pack football player and a decent wrestler; my high school GPA hovered around 2.727. I came in second in track and field more times than I can count—always a breath behind. In sixth grade, I ran the spotlight for our school play because I couldn’t bear to be on stage. I played the violin well, but never stood out. I taught myself piano and could play memorized songs, but I never learned theory.
When I got to junior high, there was no orchestra, so I picked up the oboe—because the music teacher said he needed one. I played it, and later the English horn, simply because those were the instruments required in the pit orchestra for high school plays. I had one good solo performance. Every other time, I failed. Read More>>

Mike Byer

My self-discipline comes from my time in the Army and the work I do with Operation Song.

In the military, especially as a First Sergeant, discipline wasn’t just a trait—it was a requirement. You learn quickly that people are counting on you. Showing up prepared, staying focused under pressure, and holding yourself accountable becomes second nature. Those habits don’t leave you when the uniform comes off. Read More>>

Stevy Montgomery

My discipline comes from a deep understanding that nothing changes if nothing changes. I’ve experienced firsthand what it feels like to be stuck: physically, mentally, emotionally and I never want to go back there. So every time I show up for myself, it’s a reminder that the small, daily choices matter more than motivation ever will. Discipline, for me, isn’t about being perfect, it’s about keeping promises to myself, especially when it’s uncomfortable. Quitting is not an option for me Read More>>

Georgia Ossipov

From early childhood, I was self-organized and kept busy. Somehow, I found and joined all kinds of creative and engaging clubs. Almost every week I would come home and notify my parents that I have a new meeting or a class next weekend. Luckily, my parents supported this and never questioned that I wanted to try something new. I ended up attending art school, dance lessons, theater classes, bible studies, sports events, craft clubs, and so on. All of this was happening even before I started school. Read More>>

Halem Albright

I never felt that self-discipline was something that I had to force on myself. Because there’s always so much I want to do & there’s always something to work on, it feels more like I’m just trying to keep up with a big/new body of work that’s always there for me to chip away at. So trying to keep some balance in all ways is big to me. I feel “off” if I neglect any certain aspect of that balance, so I’ve always tried to stay ahead of it. Read More>>

Alex Blair

My self-discipline stems from my desire to be successful, healthy, and good looking. Self-discipline is not a physical place you can discover; rather, it is a skill that can be developed through various practices and strategies. It involves the ability to focus on long-term goals, resist impulses, and stay motivated even in the face of challenges. Building self-discipline requires consistent effort and a willingness to change your behaviors. Read More>>

Zion Bliss

My self-discipline comes from a deep need to not let myself down. It doesn’t come from excitement or motivation, I don’t spend too much time thinking about how I feel, I just know what needs to be done, and I do it. I feel like most people can break down any decision in life to right or wrong, we usually know what needs to be done, I just try to do as many of the “right” things as I can. For me, discipline is about integrity. It’s about knowing that I’d feel worse if I didn’t do the hard thing. Whether it’s, the gym, my work, or how I handle my day. I don’t chase happiness, I chase pride. Knowing that I did the right thing, even when nobody is watching. Read More>>

CIANNA ALEXIS

My Self discipline comes from my commitment to my goals. I’ve learned that success requires consistency and adaptability.

I had to have a lot of discipline to get where I’m at today and having discipline can benefit you in many different areas of your life.

I like to practice setting clear objectives, and goals, taking accountability, and also embracing challenges as they are simply opportunities to grow! Read More>>

Jerad Linnell

My discipline stems from a mix of upbringing, personal values and life experiences. By setting clear goals and priorities, I’ve cultivated a strong sense of discipline. Through consistent effort and dedication, I’ve developed inner strength and determination. My discipline enables me to overcome obstacles and achieve my objectives. I continue to nurture and refine it to reach my full potential. Read More>>

Deborah Conquest

My self-discipline is the quiet fire that fuels me as a bit of a maverick—the one who shows up differently and stands out in every room. When you’re the only one like yourself, whether it’s in the stillness before dawn lifting in the gym, in the studio guiding students with a unique vision, or on stage breaking new ground, discipline becomes more than routine—it becomes a spiritual practice. I rise early, 5 or 6, not simply out of obligation, but from a deep commitment to my purpose and the path I’m called to walk, even when no one else follows. Each day, I carve out sacred time for vocal practice and powerlifting, cultivating strength and grace where others may choose comfort. My weekends overflow with the energy of my students’ performances, whether youth theatre or professional stages, and I greet Sunday mornings with gratitude as I teach anew. Since becoming a powerlifter, I don’t drink anymore—on or off season—and that choice still raises eyebrows more often than not. Read More>>

Aye Yb

Growing up, I attended a Military school from 6th to 12th grade. I was taught a quote that I had to memorize, which I continue to use to this day: “Excuses are the tools of the incompetent, and those who use them seldom achieve success.” So anytime I feel myself slipping mentally or becoming lazy I say that quote to get back on track. Read More>>

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