Confidence can open doors and is at the heart of so many amazing success stories across industries and disciplines and so we’ve always been interested in learning how we can help our readers and community members increase their confidence and self-esteem. Below, you’ll find highlights of some of the great conversations we’ve had on this topic.
Jakiyah Cabell
I developed my confidence and self-esteem through strengthening my spirituality and faith in a higher power. This in turn helped me grow my belief in myself. I then realized that my faith in god and my belief in self is the exact same thing or two sides of the same coin. Read more>>
Suana Callum
The journey to confidence in the modeling industry is paved with a profound sense of curiosity, an unyielding dedication to learning, and a continuous refinement of my skills. It all started with embracing genuine inquisitiveness, consistently seeking new knowledge, and persistently honing my craft. Read more>>
Wendi Wray
My confidence started when I started to trust in God. Trusting He’s got my back no matter what. It took off so much weight off my shoulders and expectation level went down. I was willing to fail and to focus on who I am as a leader. Truly believing on my self concept and value I offer. Read more>>
Soufully STEMulated
Joy Green: I attribute my confidence and self esteem to both parents and my best friend Norah. My mother, to this very day is still the most confident person I know. As a child, I would admire how she would doll herself up, styling her hair in various ways, putting on her moisturizer, applying a deep red lipstick and brushing each cheek with a touch of blush. Read more>>
Kim Bell
This question reminds me of a comment I heard years ago from the young son of one of my physician colleagues. He remarked to me during our conversation that “Working hard makes you feel good.” Read more>>
LIVM (Liam with a V)
Honestly, this has to be genetic, because apparently I was singing on the street corners of Quebec when I was 3. I was so confident everybody wanted to hear what I had to say or what I was singing. I’ve been that way ever since, with some advancement involved in fine tuning my craft and always being prepared for a performance. Read more>>
Shelby John
When made the decision to get sober in July 2002 I started on a journey of healing, self-discovery and building confidence. After doing the work of early sobriety, I began to step into the process of emotional sobriety. Read more>>
Rachel Wahba-Dunkley
I grew up learning that I couldn’t be different from what my family and community expected of me, and I couldn’t question any of the cultural values or traits I was raised with. Anything about life, faith, and relationships that I learned was unquestionably true – that is, until the times of hardship came about and the “truths” were insufficient and not bringing any answers or relief that I was promised. Read more>>
Shmuie
Building my business was the way I developed my confidence and self-esteem. When I was younger, I was a relatively shy kid who enjoyed staying at home and playing video games. However, to build my brand, I was forced to leave my room and start talking and meeting all different kinds of people. Read more>>
Ty Graham
– Developed and maintain healthy relationships – Stepping outside of my comfort zone – Giving myself credit when it’s due – Setting short and long-term goals – Visualizing success – Increasing self-care. Read more>>
Vyolet Blyck
I developed my confidence and self – esteem a few different ways. I decided to embrace myself entirely, the bad the good and the ugly and develop unconditional love for myself. I have said in a few of my youtube videos self love blah blah blah because no on really tells us how to love ourselves. Read more>>
Aleysia Leonor
The journey to becoming a more confident person was not easy. I grew up not sure what I was even good at and I didn’t feel like I was worthy of anything. Depression and anxiety clouded my mind and I believed all the negative things my brain said about me. But at 18 I moved to San Jose in order to find out who I wanted to be. Read more>>
Jac Alva
From a young age I’ve had a strong internal compass; it has helped me navigate interpersonal relationships, overcome challenges, and become resilient. And I think resilience is an integral part of self-confidence. As the years have passed, I’ve had to trust my ability to make life-changing decisions, such as opting for a career in visual arts, and, more recently, becoming a mother. Read more>>
Paolo Ciccone
In the professional realm, confidence is crucial as it can drive your career forward, especially if you’re an entrepreneur. Take Francis Ford Coppola, for instance. At 29, he directed ‘The Godfather.’ His ability to convince Paramount to back his vision was largely due to his confidence in how the movie should be made. Indeed, confidence is key. Read more>>
Paulo Gago
About that, have to say, im quite confidente about my work, i know what i do, what i want to transmit on each painting, the work i need to develop before the actual painting it self. When i paint a city scape, i need to bee there, i need to go there and feel that dynamics, need the warm. Read more>>
Sierra Hawkins
By listening to myself and my gut! Listening to yourself can be incredibly powerful for building self-confidence and self-esteem. When I took the time to listen to my thoughts and feelings, I became more aware of my strengths, values, and needs. Read more>>
TNa$ty
I wasn’t always confident when I was younger. I have an eye condition and a lazy eye I was born with that always made me insecure as a child.. As I got older I noticed that the only thing people could say about me when we were at odds was that I was cross eyed, Despite all of the criticism I put myself out there and noticed how great and beautiful I really am. Read more>>
Adina Dabija
Simply by bringing myself evidence that I can do what I intend to. It is important to me to assign myself, on a regular basis, tasks that are slightly out of my comfort zone, so that I can keep growing and expanding, both professionally and individually. Read more>>
Maia Zakay
It took a lot of work for me over time to achieve real self love and confidence. I had to learn to become my own best friend so that I don’t depend on others for my happiness. The music industry is especially tough because I’m constantly comparing myself to others’ successes. The key, is to remember to only compare your own success with your own past, and look at how far you have come in the present. Read more>>
Shameka Williams
I developed my confidence and self-esteem by accepting and acknowledging the small, but good things in life. Instead of focusing on all of the negativity around me, I aimed to find the positive things that make me appreciate life a little more. Read more>>
C Nicole Henderson
Part of developing confidence; it’s much deeper than a surface level. One has to look at their strengths and their weaknesses and then begin to expound and develop them both. It’s important to be introspective and evaluate through your own self-discovery of who you are, what you bring to the table, how you represent yourself, and how others may perceive you. Read more>>
Sequoyah Glenn
Lot’s of therapy! Truly, I think that I always had a healthy dose of confidence and self-esteem; however, throughout life, it’ll give you blows that make you doubt yourself and even think less of yourself. Through therapy, self-reflection, and working on the areas I needed improvement, my confidence and self-esteem has bounced back and I recommend those things to others that may be struggling. Read more>>
Aurelie Weinstein
Throughout my journey, developing confidence and self-esteem has been a multifaceted process. As a psychotherapist, I’ve learned the importance of self-reflection and embracing vulnerability. Early in my career, facing challenges and stepping out of my comfort zone were crucial in building resilience. Read more>>
Celest
I see confidence & self-esteem as a superpower that you have to learn to control or who knows what you’ll become. I am a performing artist, I truly need both to do what I love to do which is to create & share music with people. My self-esteem has always been pretty high and my confidence can be all over the place. Read more>>
Patricia Aguilar
I think the confidence came from my father, he always said you walk with your head up looking forward. Never second guess yourself, if you fail pick yourself up and keeping moving forward, learning and growing. I tend to walk to my own beat, i don’t follow fashion trends, don’t compete with anyone, if you don’t worry about any of the superficial things in life you life longer. Read more>>
Art Pineda
I think always having a close friend group that always encourage and support me. There could be many things but I think that’s one of the biggest ones. Read more>>
Abby Way
By being willing to make mistakes and look bad. As an artist I am constantly experiment with what works and what doesn’t. I am a proud promoter of making “bad art” because if you don’t go through the bad stuff, you’ll never get to the good stuff. Practice makes perfect. Read more>>
Becca Bluerose
Throughout my journey, I’ve discovered that my confidence didn’t magically appear overnight. It was cultivated through stepping into the unknown and embracing challenges I never thought I could conquer. Read more>>
Hannah Miller
Since I was young, my confidence and creativity have gone hand-in-hand. Reflecting on my life, the two areas I’ve felt the most confident were dance and design. Dancing throughout my childhood and into my teenage years, truly shaped my self-confidence and influenced me in the greatest ways. Read more>>
Andrea Oliver
As young girl who struggled with being shy, people pleasing, and reserved, it took a little while for me to develop or blossom into the woman I am today. I learned to embrace my self for being different. I grew to appreciate that my differences is what makes me special and unlike any other person. Read more>>
