Almost everything that’s changed the world in a positive way has been an unreasonable idea. It’s unreasonable, until it’s commons sense. That’s how change happens and so in order to make a difference in the world, it’s incredibly important to be able to ignore the naysayers. Some of the best and brightest from our community share their stories and advice below.
Fee
Dealing with haters and naysayers can be tough, but here’s how I stay strong: First, I remind myself of my passion and why I started on this entrepreneurial journey. It helps me stay focused and motivated. Second, I surround myself with supportive people who believe in me and my goals. Their encouragement really makes a difference. Lastly, I use the negativity as fuel to prove the doubters wrong. Their skepticism pushes me to work harder and achieve even greater success. Read more>>
Brittany Meckelborg
As an artists representative, my day is filled with rejections. Art is so subjective and I know that not everyone will love every script I send out. But I am certain that someone will connect with the story, the writer, a character, whatever because I did. I have to stay rooted in my instincts about an artist. I saw something special in this person and my job is to pass that specialness on to others. I have persevered through the rejection and had some great wins. I make sure to celebrate those little wins – even if it is just with myself or with the client. You have to focus on the positive – easier said than done! – but that’s the game. Read more>>
Lena Gill
One thing I’ve always heard is if you don’t have haters, you aren’t doing something right. Recently, I’ve had a little run-in with tik-tok fame and I received more than a little bit of hate. While this was something I was doing for myself, I ended up offending a solid handful of people who just didn’t agree with me. To be honest, it was hard to get past it. I let it get me down for a bit. But I realized that these people, they aren’t for me. Read more>>
Caitlin Wise
I don’t know that I’ve been in business long enough to have “haters” per se, but I think it’s really important to remember that any time someone has an outward problem with you or your business, it’s more reflective of that person and not you. Keep your mission and purpose in view, and move forward with that in mind. Read more>>
Thomas Angeletti
There are no such thing as “haters”. These are simply people who haven’t found their own purpose, and see in you what they want for themsevles. This disdain drives a deep wedge inside them, and causes them to do/say things a normally happy/fullfilled person wouldnt do. The only reason that these people are “haters” are beacuse you give them your energy/time in the first place, Take that energy from them, and give it to people/projects/etc that make you happy. Read more>>
Jonathan Layssard
A simple quote that can to me one day as I was praying that’s been stuck in my head “Your biggest critics, haters, naysayers don’t have a problem with you moat don’t even know you it’s Insecurities within themselves they don’t know how to handle so they project them on you cause it’s easy: Read more>>
Amanda Denise
Persisting despite the haters and nay-sayers can sometimes be challenging; however, the most important thing you can do is to believe in yourself. This is something I’m still working on. I’ve learned my dreams and goals may not always align with how others view me and that’s okay because I simply must live for me. Read more>>
Kyiamoni Brown
Persisting despite haters and nay-sayers requires a resilient mindset and a steadfast belief in your goals. It’s essential to recognize that not everyone will share your vision or understand your journey. Focus on your passion, stay true to your values, and use criticism as fuel for self-improvement. Surround yourself with a supportive network of friends or mentors who genuinely encourage your aspirations. Read more>>
Reed Masterson
In my line of work we are faced with haters and critics on a daily basis. I’ve learned the more successful you become the more “hate” you receive. I’ve come to the realization that hate in this regard is almost always an expression of jealousy or envy. As I’ve self reflected over the years looking at younger versions of myself I see where I’ve been guilty of this envy enduced “hate”. Read more>>
Athena Vas
So, in my book “Fck It,” where I lay out these seven commandments to become untouchable, there’s this one golden rule: “Fck the Naysayers.” It’s a mindset I’ve fully embraced. The gist is simple: if these folks aren’t footing my bills, their opinions are like background noise to me. This mindset turns into my superpower, helping me tackle challenges with grit and an unwavering dedication to my personal goals. Read more>>
Tanita Winchester
It’s real simple: you just ignore them. Everybody is not going to like what you do and that’s perfectly fine. People are going to laugh, be judgemental, you know spread negativity. But you also are going to have people in your corner who really believe in your craft and your vision and for THAT, that is the key to being successful: Ignore the haters. So I just do what I destined to do and be. And that’s be great. Read more>>
Becky Marshall
This is a great question because everywhere we turn in life, there are haters and nay-sayers, people telling us no or no you can’t do that, or people who don’t believe in us or our vision. It can really bring you down, make you doubt yourself, or doubt your vision and goals. Read more>>
Roxanna
Learning from experience, I’ve realized that no matter what you do, there will always be people who are going to dislike you. So instead, I prioritize my own happiness and well-being, making choices that align with my values and goals. Read more>>
Marsha Guillory, PhD.
I always try to stay positive and not let negativity get to me. There will always be people who try to bring me down, criticize me, or doubt my abilities. But I know myself well enough to recognize my strengths, skills, and passions that make me who I am. My main focus is on chasing my goals, dreams, and achievements. I purposely surround myself with positive and supportive people who inspire and lift me up. Read more>>
