Almost everything that’s changed the world in a positive way has been an unreasonable idea. It’s unreasonable, until it’s commons sense. That’s how change happens and so in order to make a difference in the world, it’s incredibly important to be able to ignore the naysayers. Some of the best and brightest from our community share their stories and advice below.
Dr. Calandra Brown-Robinson
Success doesn’t always come easy. I’ve faced my fair share of obstacles and criticism, but I’m resilient, focused, and committed to my goals. I believe in my abilities and refuse to let negativity hold me back. My determination comes from a deep-rooted belief in myself and my potential, and I use any doubt or criticism as motivation to prove them wrong. Read more>>
Christina Long
It’s so important to maintain focus on your purpose and your goals. In my experience, haters can be close friends and family members who view your talent and capabilities in a limited light. When you pursue something that extends beyond what they are familiar with, they can sometimes share negative comments, fears and concerns about your plans. Read more>>
Connor Wilson
I find, ironically, the biggest hater in my life has always been myself. I’ve been fortunate in that growing up I had loving parts and siblings and good friends. Even through HS and college I feel like most of the people I came across in the arts where generally positive people, who are usually willing to help or offer words of encouragement. Read more>>
Strawberrie
I simply don’t let that bother me. I know haters and nay Sayers are going to come. They only talking when they are bothered. Especially when they have to group up, it shows you how powerful you are alone, and how much they simply just want to be you. Especially without proper cause and not knowing you in real life. Read more>>
Lindsay
Great question. Not my favorite question, because it’s a painful one.We all have people in our lives, who doubt us, question us or push us down. Sometimes these people or groups of people are close to us, friends or family, or perhaps more removed from us, coworkers and acquaintances. Either way, it’s hard to hear and feel people doubting you. Why is this so hard?Because we believe them. Read more>>
Dessy X
Before I officially became an Artist and started releasing music, I used to always send little snippets to certain people, just for a little feedback. There were so many people who genuinely did not like my music and at first that truly hurt. Until I realized that my music isn’t for everyone. There are going to be people who hate it, but also people who resonate with my music a lot. Realizing that one thing truly helped me a lot. Read more>>
Dujuan Thomas
Trusting in God has been my anchor throughout this journey. No matter what anyone else says, I know I’m walking in my purpose because of Him. In life, I’ve realized that dwelling on negativity only serves to diminish one’s spirit. So I don’t even let haters have the time of day in my mind. Read more>>
Nahrin Chowdhury
In life’s journey toward personal fulfillment and professional success, encountering doubters and critics is inevitable. Over time, I’ve encountered difficult situations that have pushed me to cultivate my mindset, perseverance, and understanding of my purpose and passion. Read more>>
CHERYL COLE
I know that I have a divine purpose and can bring healing to so many on both sides of the veil that I just can’t ever quit! Read more>>
Ralph Miranda
“You’re a bum, Rocky!” Those are the immortal words Mickey Goldmill yells at his fighter, Rocky Balboa, over the course of multiple Rocky films. Though Mickey’s words come from a side of affection, other characters really mean it when they insult Rocky: Apollo Creed, Clubber Lang, and the monosyllabic Ivan Drago. Read more>>
SIDDHARTH AGRAWAL
Persisting despite the presence of haters and naysayers has been a journey fueled by self-belief, resilience, and unwavering determination. In the face of skepticism and criticism, I chose to stay true to my passion and vision. One pivotal moment during a low point stands out vividly in my memory: a conversation with a friend who imparted invaluable advice, saying, “Don’t change your subjective because of the world’s objective.” Read more>>
Zahkia
Someone will hate you regardless of how perfect or imperfect you are. Someone will also love you for those same qualities. One of the reasons that haters, trolls, and people that choose to be flat out mean, can stunt a person’s ability to share their creativity is because, often times, the person sharing their art is in fear of the troll being right. Read more>>
Latrell King
Overcoming naysayers required me to shift my focus from worrying about what others think of me to believing what God says about me. I focused on trusting God, pursuing my goals and believing in myself. Their skepticism ultimately became motivation. I stayed true to my vision and continued to persevere despite negative connotations. Read more>>
Zyg “The ZYG 808” Peters
When I was younger, I received an extremely helpful piece of advice when it comes to dealing with haters/critics/naysayers. My dad would always tell me to consider the source. Meaning, if somebody was to tell me that I’m not good at what I do, before immediately getting upset or getting down on myself, ask my self: Read more>>
