Almost everything that’s changed the world in a positive way has been an unreasonable idea. It’s unreasonable, until it’s commons sense. That’s how change happens and so in order to make a difference in the world, it’s incredibly important to be able to ignore the naysayers. Some of the best and brightest from our community share their stories and advice below.
Brian Dixon
Once I realized the hate was coming from a place of envy, jealousy, or insecurity, I was able to reshape my approach to it. I was able to understand where it came from and empathize with the “haters.” We’ve all been there, where we look at someone doing things a bit differently and wish we had that life. As soon as you understand we’ve all stood in their shoes, it allows you to let the hate roll off your back and keep moving. Read more>>
Lesley Price
I FOCUSED ON MY WHY … Remembering why I got started. I used Criticism as fuel instead of letting the negativity bring me down I used it as MOTIVATION. I had to Surround myself with positivity , I built a support system of people who believed in me . I had to learn to let go , because everyone will not understand and appreciate your path, letting go of everyone’s approval can free up mental and emotional space to focus on what truly matters. Read more>>
Donté Martin
In the journey of building Bodéga Bean Co., I’ve encountered my fair share of skeptics and critics. I view these challenges as opportunities to reaffirm my commitment to our mission. Every piece of negative feedback is a chance to improve and innovate. I stay focused on our goals and the positive impact we aim to create in our community. Collaborating with local businesses and seeing our customers enjoy our unique offerings, like the ‘Razzpresso Mocha Munch’ popcorn, fuels my passion and determination. Read more>>
Living Dead Girl Nicole Garcia
I believe a key part of what makes me and my work unique is my tendency to thrive on going against the norm. Naysayers can look at me and my work sideways all they want; it only inspires me to push further. From an early age, I learned that creating was not just about putting pencil to paper—it was a tool for expressing myself beyond societal expectations. In 5th grade, while my classmates were drawing pretty birds for our project, my depiction of an owl in mid-flight hunting a mouse stood out at Parent-Teacher Night. The attention I received for something that felt so natural opened my eyes to my capabilities and the thrill of turning heads. Read more>>
Mogo Talem
I wish I had a happier story, but I don’t. I grew up really ashamed of who I was, or my quirks, of what I looked like, you name it. I was severely bullied for nearly a decade, at a time in my life where all I wanted to do was to fit in, and not make any waves. So as a way to survive, and to avoid attracting attention, I tried to fit the conventional mold that everyone but me seemed to fit in. Unfortunately, I learned pretty quickly that no matter how hard I tried, this just wasn’t working for me and I had to be true to myself. Read more>>
