Kaitlyn Kohler’s Stories, Lessons & Insights

Kaitlyn Kohler shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.

Hi Kaitlyn, thank you for taking the time to reflect back on your journey with us. I think our readers are in for a real treat. There is so much we can all learn from each other and so thank you again for opening up with us. Let’s get into it: Who are you learning from right now?
I’m learning from everyone around me, everyday! I’ve had a lot of opportunities lately to work with some amazing people in the music industry-both in the studio and in writing sessions. Every chance you get to work with the people at the top of your field is a chance to improve your own craft, and I make sure to take full advantage and absorb everything I can in those moments.

I’ve also had the blessing of working with Buck Johnson (keyboardist from Aerosmith) for the past few years. His mentorship and attention to detail has been intrinsic in developing and finding my sound as an artist.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Kaitlyn Kohler and I am a country music artist!

My whole life I’ve wanted to help people, and I feel like music is where I can do that best. I’ve struggled with severe anxiety since I was young. It was debilitating throughout my teens and early twenties, to the point I could barely function outside of my home. Music and performing, along with my faith and loved ones, helped me overcome that anxiety. Something I once feared became the one thing I wanted to do for the rest of my life. I want to use the platform that I’ve built to help show others with similar struggles that if I can overcome, so can they.

I’ve got a new single coming out soon called “Bad Habits” that I co-wrote with Buck Johnson (keyboardist from Aerosmith) and Charlie Midnight (Living in America -James Brown). I’m super excited about it! Be watching for the release on all major streaming platforms!

Amazing, so let’s take a moment to go back in time. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
I believed as a child that I would never change: my viewpoints, my flaws, that who I was at that time was who l’d always be. Through my career in music, I no longer believe that. Over the years, I’ve realized that if I remain true to who I am, others can relate and realize that we are all just flawed people growing and improving each day. I want to encourage others that whatever they are facing (the negative thoughts you thought would never change), that there is always hope and strength to overcome anything you face. Just keep going!

What fear has held you back the most in your life?
The fear of rejection. I can’t count the number of experiences and relationships I missed out on because I was afraid that people wouldn’t like me: how I looked, what I said, what I wore, who I was as a person. My whole life revolved around how I was perceived- tailoring, editing, and hiding myself to make sure people liked what they saw. It had an impact on my career in the beginning, as I was too afraid to put myself out there and submit to the judgment of the internet.

But I’ve learned that not everyone is going to like you, and that’s okay! What matters is that you like yourself. Putting yourself out there may be a risk, but it’s the only way you’ll find people that genuinely like you. You can’t build a community alone in your room, and it takes a community of people to help you on your journey.

Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? Is the public version of you the real you?
I would definitely say yes, the public view of me is real and authentic. It’s very hard for me to pretend to be something that I’m not. I believe in being real and true. I strive to be authentic in everything I do, and I cherish having a genuine connection with people. If someone can relate to something I’ve been through or be encouraged through one of my songs, I’ve accomplished my goal in building that connection. Basically, what you see is what you get!

Before we go, we’d love to hear your thoughts on some longer-run, legacy type questions. Are you doing what you were born to do—or what you were told to do?
I feel I am doing exactly what I was born to do in music. My faith is very important to me, and is the driving force behind everything that I do. When I was in high school and deciding what to do with my life, I felt God was calling me to music and that it would be a platform both on and off the stage. If I can connect with someone, and encourage them to never give up, I can rest easy knowing that I accomplished what I was put here to do.

Contact Info:

• Website: www.kaitlynkohler.com https://kaitlynkohler.com/
• Instagram: handle: KaitlynKohlerMusic https://www.instagram.com/kaitlynkohlermusic/
• Facebook: handle: KaitlynKohlerMusic https://www.facebook.com/kaitlynkohlermusic
• Youtube: Kaitlyn Kohler https://www.youtube.com/@kaitlynkohler
• Other: Spotify: Kaitlyn Kohler
  

  link to my new single:
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