Life, Values & Legacy: Our Chat with Remya Warrior of Holmdel

We recently had the chance to connect with Remya Warrior and have shared our conversation below.

Remya, it’s always a pleasure to learn from you and your journey. Let’s start with a bit of a warmup: What is something outside of work that is bringing you joy lately?
Lately, dance has been a deep source of joy for me—specifically traditional Indian classical and semi-classical dance. Being part of this community has allowed me to stay connected to culture while forming meaningful friendships with people who share a respect for tradition, discipline, and artistic expression.

Practicing and performing together creates a unique bond. There is something powerful about moving in rhythm with others—learning, refining, and supporting one another through the process. It’s not just about the performance itself, but about the shared commitment and the relationships that naturally grow from spending time together with intention and purpose. The sense of community that comes from dancing together, celebrating culture, and building friendships along the way has been incredibly grounding and joyful for me.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m an interior designer specializing in space planning, kitchen, and bath design, but at the core of my work is a belief that a home is a sacred space—one that holds energy, memories, and connection. I approach design with mindfulness and intention, thinking deeply about how a space supports the way people live, gather, and care for one another on a daily basis.

Much of my work centers around creating strong, central spaces in the home—especially kitchens—where life naturally comes together. I’m drawn to working with women and families who love having people over, who find joy in cooking, sharing meals, and opening their homes to friends and extended family. These are homeowners who care not just about how a space looks, but about how it feels to be in it—warm, welcoming, and easy to live in.

What makes my approach unique is the way I listen. I take the time to understand how my clients move through their homes, the traditions they value, and how they want others to feel when they walk through the door. The goal is always to create spaces that invite connection—homes that feel grounded, thoughtful, and lived in, and that naturally bring people together.

Okay, so here’s a deep one: What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
As a child, I believed that my role was to adapt and accommodate—to be responsible, observant, and helpful, often putting my own voice second. I no longer believe that being quiet or self-effacing means being small. Over time, I’ve learned that sensitivity and intuition are strengths, and that I don’t need to be the one talking all the time to have impact.

What matters more is listening—truly understanding what someone else wants, needs, or values—and being able to respond with intention and care. That shift, from needing to be heard to learning how to listen and serve thoughtfully, has shaped how I move through the world and how I show up for others.

If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
I would tell her that one day she will have a space of her own—and that it will matter more than she realizes. Growing up, I shared a room with my brother, and while it was simply part of life, I didn’t yet understand how meaningful it would feel to have a place where I could be fully myself. Having a space that feels safe, grounding, and personal has been deeply comforting.

I would also tell her that she will get to make choices for herself, and that those choices will feel empowering rather than overwhelming. There is no need to worry or rush—everything will be okay. With time, there will be clarity, ease, and the freedom to shape a life that feels aligned and true.

Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. How do you differentiate between fads and real foundational shifts?
We live in a world where it’s easy to chase fads—quick fixes, momentary upgrades, and impulse purchases that promise transformation but don’t always hold up over time. I often see people spending money on things that look exciting in the moment but don’t truly support how they live, their health, or the longevity of their home. That cycle can lead to unnecessary replacement and a lot of waste.

For me, real foundational shifts are rooted in alignment. In kitchens and shared living spaces especially, I look at whether something supports everyday use and long-term comfort. A well-made chair or sofa that supports your body properly and still feels good years later will always matter more than a trend-driven piece that needs to be replaced quickly. When choices are made with intention—considering lifestyle, durability, and how people actually gather—spaces begin to serve quietly and consistently, without needing constant updates.

Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: Are you doing what you were born to do—or what you were told to do?
For a long time, I felt out of place. Traditional academics never came easily to me, and I struggled to feel like I fit into the expected mold. It wasn’t until I found design that things began to make sense. Anything creative—working with space, form, and feeling—came naturally, and for the first time, I felt aligned rather than forced.

Over time, I’ve come to believe that my work is less about design in the technical sense and more about service. I feel especially connected to helping women transform their surroundings—creating homes that support the people who hold families together emotionally and energetically. There is a quiet strength in that role, and a deep sense of purpose in shaping spaces where care, connection, and belonging can flourish. In that way, the work I do now feels very much like what I was meant to do.

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I want to mention that the last image I have submitted is a conceptual lifestyle rendering created using AI to illustrate gathering and connection.

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