We recently connected with Aisha Griffin and have shared our conversation below.
Aisha, we’re thrilled to have you sharing your thoughts and lessons with our community. So, for folks who are at a stage in their life or career where they are trying to be more resilient, can you share where you get your resilience from?
My resilience as a domestic violence survivor is deeply rooted in the core of the woman I am now. A symphony of emotions, each note telling a tale of survival. Each thread represents a moment of struggle, of facing shadows, and finding the courage to emerge into the light.
Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?
I was born August 15, 1984, and I consider myself a resilient survivor who has emerged from the depths of domestic violence to become an advocate for healing and change. My life took a dramatic turn on fatal night in 2012 when I became a victim of a harrowing incident of domestic violence that culminated in a gunshot wound. The trauma of that night left me with both physical and emotional scars, challenging me to confront the pain, fear, and uncertainty that had become an unwelcomed part of my life.
The healing process for me began in 2016 when I sought professional help and support from family and friends. I embarked on a journey of self-discovery, therapy, and empowerment, gradually reclaiming my sense of identity. During this time, I discovered a passion for advocacy and storytelling, realizing the power of sharing my own experiences to inspire and support others who face similar struggles. 2016 was the beginning, and I haven’t stopped! Each year since I dedicate my time, I support, and try to raise awareness with my personal testimony.
12 years later not only did I survive, but I also thrived! As of February 2024, I launched Survivor In Me Foundation Inc., a nonprofit for domestic violence. I envision of world where survivors are not defined by their past but inspired by the possibilities of their future. The nonprofit is not just an organization; it’s an extension of my heart, a living testament to the belief that every survivor deserves a chance to rewrite their narrative. My board and I are currently working on a Calander for the year, but contact information for Survivor In Me Foundation Inc. is 404-981-3401 and survivorfoundationinfo@gmail.coom
Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?
Looking back over my healing journey three areas of knowledge that were very impactful were understanding the dynamics of abuse, trauma informed education, and communication and healthy relationships.
To the brave soul at the beginning of their healing journey of domestic violence, remember it’s never your fault. Abuse is about power and control, and recognizing these dynamics is the first step to reclaiming your identity. You are not defined by their actions. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and recognize that healing is a process not a destination. Surround yourself with those that approach your healing journey with empathy and respect for your unique experiences. As you rebuild let communication be gentle, learn to express your needs, fears, and boundaries with kindness to yourself.
Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?
Yes.I am looking for possible opportunities to collaborate. Collaboration for me would be other non-profit organizations or businesses that focus on domestic violence, women empowerment, and youth young ladies. Contact information on Survivor In Me Foundation Inc. is 404-981-3401 and survivorfoundationinfo@gmail.com.
