Alright – so today we’ve got the honor of introducing you to Amber Lynn Conklin. We think you’ll enjoy our conversation, we’ve shared it below.
Amber Lynn , thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with us today. We’re excited to dive into your story and your work, but first let’s start with a broader topic that might be stopping many of our readers from pursuing their dreams – haters, nay-sayers, etc. How have you managed to persist despite haters and nay-sayers that inevitably follow folks who are doing something unique, special or off the beaten path?
With time I’ve learned to take a step back and ignore haters. I ask myself, is there something constructive in their criticism? If so, I learn a new perspective and take it to heart, but if not, I make an effort to internally laugh it off and move on. I’ve been through too much in life to let something so small and meaningless affect me. I focus on protecting my peace, knowing that my faith (God) gives me the strength to rise above negativity. I trust that by staying true to my purpose, my actions will speak louder than any criticism. Life’s too short to let negativity drain your beautiful soul. I let my work speak for itself and don’t waste time explaining myself to those who are determined to misunderstand. I also try to remember that people who lash out, are often struggling with their own pain and I feel for them.
Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?
I’m Amber Lynn Conklin, a 28-year-old cancer survivor driven by faith, hope, and the belief that mindset shapes everything. Raised in front of a camera since childhood, I’ve always been drawn to the world of media and storytelling. My journey has taught me to turn challenges into fuel for growth, and it’s this mindset that propels me forward each day. Professionally, I focus on social media, using my platform to make a meaningful impact and help others who are walking similar paths to mine.
What excites me most about my work is the opportunity to create and contribute in ways that align with my core values. Whether it’s producing commercials, traveling, sharing health and wellness tips, or connecting with others, my goal is to inspire and empower by being unapologetically authentic and purposeful in everything I do. My mission isn’t just about success—it’s about leading with my heart and serving others along the way.
Through both personal and professional experiences, I’ve learned to stay grounded in my faith. I believe true strength comes from staying true to yourself, no matter the noise around you. It’s about building resilience from within and finding peace amidst the chaos.
As I continue to grow and evolve, I’m incredibly excited about the opportunities ahead—whether that’s setting new goals, launching events, or collaborating with others who share my vision. Each step is about creating something bigger than myself—something that speaks to others, helps them realize their potential, and encourages them to step boldly into their own journey.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
The most important skill I’ve learned is knowing when to speak up and when to remain silent. It’s all about reading the room and understanding the energy of the moment. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is listen.
Second, empathy is vital. Nobody likes to be around someone cold-hearted. Being able to connect with others on a human level, to understand and feel with them, makes you someone people want to be around. It creates trust and comfort.
Lastly, trusting your gut is something I consider essential. Your intuition is often more reliable than we give it credit for. If something feels right or wrong, it’s usually because it is. Staying true to that inner compass has led me to make the best decisions, both personally and professionally.
To close, maybe we can chat about your parents and what they did that was particularly impactful for you?
For as long as I could remember, I spent my life surrounded by friends and a boyfriend, always focused on them. Each day I’d wake up thinking how I could be there for them, support them, do what I could to make sure they were happy. It was like I was constantly trying to make the people around me happy, I thought my value was defined by how much I could give, how much I could love, and how much I could sacrifice. I thought I had it all figured out—relationships, laughter, adventures, everything I believed made life worth living. There was always someone by my side, someone to lean on. Then came the diagnosis.
Cancer. My life turned upside down. Suddenly, I wasn’t surrounded by friends and boyfriends. I was alone in a hospital room, staring at the cold, sterile walls, hooked up to machines that beeped at regular intervals, reminding me of how fragile life really is. The days blurred together. The radiation made me weak, the pain unbearable. But the worst part wasn’t the physical agony. It was the realization that in my moment of need, the people who were supposed to be there—the ones I thought would never leave me—were nowhere to be found.
The truth hit me hard, like a slap to the face. Here I was, almost 30 years old, and I realized there was no one left in my life who truly cared about me in the way I had always cared about them. All those friendships, all those relationships, they seemed so empty now. I was drowning in my own loneliness, and yet, the only people still there for me were God, my mom, my dad, and my stepdad.
It felt like a heart-wrenching fracture. I could literally feel my heart cracking in half. I was angry, devastated, confused. Why had I given so much of myself to people who couldn’t even be bothered to show up when I needed them most? I was left with nothing but the cold echo of an empty room and the hum of machines.
As I sat there in the silence, I continuously prayed to God. It wasn’t just my body keeping me alive. It was the love, the strength, the pure devotion of my parents that kept me going. They were my lifeline, even when the world around me seemed to crumble. Even when my own body was giving up, their presence was constant, their support unwavering. They were the ones who held me when I cried, who fought alongside me when I couldn’t fight for myself anymore.
And, slowly, with every word of encouragement, with every prayer, with every act of love, my parents began to rebuild me. My heart, shattered and bruised, was pieced back together—not by the boyfriends or the friends who had once filled my life, but by the two people who had always been there for me, from the start.
In that moment, I knew. I was alive because of them. Because of their love. Because of their prayers. And because of God, who had decided that my story wasn’t over yet.
It took that moment of complete isolation, of being left dying alone in a hospital bed, to understand what truly mattered. What I had thought was important—those fleeting relationships, those shallow connections—was nothing compared to the deep, unconditional love of family. The people who would never leave you, even when everything else falls away.
If I could give any younger kids advice, it would be to listen to your parents more. Your friends, as much as they care, have their own personal goals and agendas, but YOU are your parents goal! Friends are great and it’s important to have them but don’t go wasting your whole chasing the approval of others, who in the end might not have your best interest at heart.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/x3amberlynn/?hl=en
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amberrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amber-lynn-c-71054691/
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@x3amberland
- Other: Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/add/x3amberlynn
Image Credits
Only ONE of those photos were taken by my friend @cvatik on instagram. The photo where I am wearing black sitting on the ground with a shoulder bandage on. Other then that, all the other photos are mine
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