Meet Arianna Peffer

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Arianna Peffer. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Arianna below.

Arianna, looking forward to learning from your journey. You’ve got an amazing story and before we dive into that, let’s start with an important building block. Where do you get your work ethic from?
My work ethic comes from learning the importance of a job and the impact you can have within the workforce at a young age. My parents had me go on my first interview when I was just 14 years old. It was for a small diner in the town I grew up in, and I am almost positive that the manager knew she wouldn’t hire me from the start. But it taught me what questions I could expect in an interview and how to handle rejection too. I then went on my second interview for another local diner and got hired!

Although it took me quite a few years to gain the experience I needed to know what an excellent employee looked like, I eventually got the hang of it. I learned the more you applied yourself, the better benefits you received, such as higher wages and promotions. More importantly, it was the connections and positive feedback from the patrons. Yes, it was great to receive the higher pay, but it was even better to know that a simple conversation I took the time to have with a customer could turn their day around. When I took these two valuable lessons and applied them to my attitude in the office, it improved my work ethic and made me into the strong worker I am today.

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?

I am currently focusing on the industry of wedding coordination! While this is not the career that I saw myself doing when I was newly out of high school and planning to become a preschool teacher. Things quickly changed when I landed a job as a banquet server for a wedding venue.

While half of my current role in the world of weddings focuses on planning and coordinating, the other half is geared toward managing and operating the coordinating company as a whole. I feel like I truly have the best of both worlds to be able to not only plan what some consider the most exciting day for our couples but to also help build the packages and systems for the company as well. That responsibility is something that I do not take lightly, and it pushes me to help give each one of our clients the best experience from the second that they look at our website, to the grand exit on their wedding day.

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
The three qualities, skills, and areas of knowledge that were most impactful in my journey are patience, hustle, and being open to learning new things. Patience is important because not only do we have to be patient while we build our resume and gain experience to become elevated professionals in our field, but we also need patience as a coordinator. Planning someone’s day is a lot of work, and it doesn’t come together overnight. This leads me to my second quality, hustle.

The world of events is always over-glamorized. We see movies like The Wedding Planner or attend over-the-top birthday parties with balloon arches and Instagram-worthy place settings. But we often overlook the literal sweat and tears that were necessary to organize and execute the day. One wedding I coordinated this year required 200 cups, 300 pieces of silverware, 100 plates and napkins, 34 charger plates, 7 farm tables, and about 5 totes of decor to be set up by me and my assistant within 4 hours, and then broken down and repacked within 1 hour at the end of the night. We were a shining example of what it meant to hustle that day, and we were so proud of how it all turned out!

This brings me to the last quality/skill, which is to be open to learning new things. I originally went into my career thinking that I had it all figured out when it came to coordinating. I was quickly humbled when some follow vendors took the time to point out my areas of naivety. Although it was a tough pill to swallow, it opened my eyes to the different viewpoints from each vendor that I was missing the mark on. I promised myself from that day forward that I would always look for and welcome new ways of thinking and learning in my career.

What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Any advice or strategies?
When I feel overwhelmed the first thing that I do is quite literally take a big deep breath and tell myself that this is a just hard moment and not a hard life. Sounds cliche but it truly helps me to put whatever tasks or challenges that I am facing back into perspective.

Then I make a mental list of said tasks and challenges and talk through which of those are the most important vs those that aren’t. This allows me to feel more in control of the situation and logistically process how I can successfully move through them. Before I know it I then have a clear and concise plan set in motion and am no longer feeling overwhelmed!

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Mercedes Smith Photography, Erin Morrison Photography, Kelsey Shea Photography, Amber Lynn Photography

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