We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Aubrey High. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Aubrey below.
Aubrey, we’re thrilled to have you on our platform and we think there is so much folks can learn from you and your story. Something that matters deeply to us is living a life and leading a career filled with purpose and so let’s start by chatting about how you found your purpose.
Growing up in a close community, growing up as a pastor’s kid and now having been a pastor’s wife for 20 years, I’ve been so privileged to have been invited into so many homes and lives during their most difficult seasons. All of this has fostered in me a heart for those who are going through the dark, hard seasons of life. For years, I’ve volunteered, made hospital visits, cleaned homes, brought meals to those in need. But 5 years ago, this passion developed into something even more special. When COVID hit, many were in need in our area. I became aware of several situations in which people needed help. My daughter and I started volunteering for someone who was fighting for her life. She had developed COVID, gave birth prematurely to her daughter and we didn’t know if she was going to make it. We volunteered weekly to simplify and manage her home environment: cleaning, doing laundry, taking items to donations). She pulled through but had to re-learn the basics of life–like walking. Healing from COVID was hard enough, but now she also had a preemie to take care of. My daughter and I were so blessed to work with her and her family for several months. During this time, we were also able to volunteer for some other families as well. We learned that we worked well together and both have a deep passion and hearts for coming alongside those recovering from trauma. This is now the purpose and heart of our business: The Reclaimed Home Co. We help overwhelmed women and those recovering from trauma (whether it’s medical recovery, abuse recovery, significant loss, divorce recovery, etc.) reclaim their homes, time and peace. My daughter, Briella is now almost 16. We have both pursued training and are now certified organizational specialists. Through our business, we offer declutter coaching, professional organizing and house cleaning.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
At The Reclaimed Home Co., we are dedicated to helping overwhelmed and trauma-recovering women reclaim their homes, time, and peace. We have had the privilege of working with women facing some of life’s most challenging transitions—whether it’s setting up a hospice room for a loved one, supporting a mother navigating life after the sudden loss of a spouse, or helping single moms recovering from abuse create a space that fosters healing.
We are passionate about transforming homes into places of rest and renewal. It’s easy to forget that every item we own requires time—time to clean, fix, put away, and maintain. Every item that leaves our home is one less thing to manage, freeing up space in our minds, in our days, and in our lives. When life becomes overwhelming, minimizing what we have to manage allows us to focus on what truly matters: healing and being present with our loved ones.
Because many of the women we serve are financially strained, we’ve created a way for others to give back. If you’d like to sponsor a family in need, you can visit our Stan Store: https://stan.store/TheReclaimedHomeCo to make a donation. Your support helps provide professional decluttering and organizing services to those who need it most, giving them the gift of space, peace, and a fresh start.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
1. Personal Experience & Knowledge:
I have personally walked through trauma and overwhelm, and my own journey of healing and recovery has taught me so much. Those experiences shaped not only my understanding of what it means to feel stuck and burdened but also how to move forward with hope. I encourage anyone in the early stages of their journey to reflect on their own hardships—what have you learned from them? How could that knowledge be used to help others? Your perseverance and lived experience are incredibly valuable and can be a profound gift to those who need it.
2. The Gift of Empathy:
I consider it one of my greatest privileges to grieve with people. Life is both beautiful and heartbreaking, and I am deeply grateful for the gift of empathy that allows me to sit with my clients in their hardest moments—to cry with them, feel with them, and encourage them in their journey. For those just starting out, I would say this: don’t underestimate the power of simply being present with people. True connection isn’t about fixing everything—it’s about showing up, listening, and holding space for others in their pain.
3. A Skill in Managing Homes & Time:
For over 15 years, I’ve managed homes, and now, with my education as a professional organizer and declutter coach, I’m able to help others do the same. I am passionate about helping people reclaim their time—so they can spend it on what truly matters, whether that’s healing, resting, or being with their loved ones. For those early in their journey, I’d encourage them to think about the skills they already have that can make life better for others. What comes naturally to you? What problems do you love solving? Lean into that, and continue learning and refining your craft.
What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Any advice or strategies?
When I feel overwhelmed, I pause and reflect. Instead of pushing through the chaos, I take a step back and ask myself: What is my vision for my life and family? What are my priorities in this season? This helps me reset and make decisions with intention rather than reacting to stress.
It’s easy to feel like we have to do everything, but I’ve learned that every no creates space for a more meaningful yes. My goal is to say yes to the things that truly align with my priorities and no to what doesn’t fit in this season. That doesn’t mean I’m saying no forever—just that I recognize my time, energy, and brain space are limited, and I want to steward them well.
Here’s my process when I feel overwhelmed:
Start with my vision – What kind of life and home do I want to create? What truly matters to me?
Establish priorities – What deserves my time and energy right now?
Say yes to those priorities – Intentionally make space for what aligns with my vision.
Say no without guilt – Protect my time by releasing things that don’t fit this season.
This approach has helped me let go of certain items and commitments in order to lessen my overwhelm and has helped me stay focused on what truly brings peace and purpose to my life.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://stan.store/TheReclaimedHomeCo
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.reclaimed.home.co/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61571829483539
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Megan Adley
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