Meet Britney Vincent

We recently connected with Britney Vincent and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Britney , really happy you were able to join us today and we’re looking forward to sharing your story and insights with our readers. Let’s start with the heart of it all – purpose. How did you find your purpose?

Honestly, it took me a while to figure out. I changed my major multiple times—I went from justice studies to fashion and marketing, back to justice studies, and finally to counseling. For a long time, I felt like I was just trying things out, hoping something would click and everything would fall into place. And sometimes, it was frustrating. I felt lost, like I was falling behind. I would see my friends and peers graduating or pursuing careers that seemed like they had known exactly what they wanted all along.

But looking back, I realize that every step taught me something valuable. Trying different things helped me recognize what I didn’t want, but more importantly, it helped me rediscover what I kept coming back to—helping people. Counseling became the space where I saw real change happening, not just for others but for myself too. That’s when I knew this was where I was meant to be.

I’ve learned that finding your purpose isn’t about having a perfect plan from the start or knowing exactly what you’re “supposed” to do. It’s about being open to exploring, failing, learning, and trusting that even the detours have a purpose. My faith played a huge role in that process, reminding me that I wasn’t wandering aimlessly—each experience was preparing me for the work I do now.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

I’m a counselor and the Clinical Director for La Luz Counseling, where I not only work with clients but also support and mentor other counselors. I am a strong advocate for counseling because I’ve seen firsthand how life-changing it can be. Talking about your story and seeking help when you feel stuck can be incredibly hard. Let’s face it there are a lot of stigmas around asking for help. But the truth is, everyone deserves a space to be heard, understood, and supported.

What I love most about this work is seeing people realize they don’t have to navigate life’s challenges alone. We all carry things grief, stress, trauma, uncertainty and counseling provides a place to unpack those things in a way that leads to real healing and growth.

I also offer faith-based counseling for those who want to integrate their spiritual beliefs into their healing process. Faith can be a powerful source of hope and strength, and I believe in meeting people where they are—whether they want to incorporate faith or not. The most important thing is that they know they’re not alone in their journey.

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?

Being open to trying new things. If I had been afraid to explore different paths, I wouldn’t have found the work I love. It’s okay to pivot, to start over, and to take a risk on something that excites you. Sometimes not knowing your plan opens the door to opportunities you wouldn’t have seen otherwise.

Finding my ‘why.’ Understanding the deeper reason behind what I do keeps me going, even on the hard days. When you know why you’re passionate about something, it helps guide your decisions and keeps you grounded when things get challenging.

Having a great mentor. I wouldn’t be where I am without the people who guided me, encouraged me, and challenged me along the way. If you’re just starting out, find people who inspire you and aren’t afraid to give honest advice. Mentorship can make all the difference.

To develop these qualities, start by embracing what’s next. Start saying yes to new opportunities, even if they feel uncertain. Take time to reflect on what truly motivates you, and explore why you are doing it. Surround yourself with people who challenge and support you, whether that’s through mentorship, networking, or simply listening to podcasts or groups. And most importantly, give yourself grace. Growth isn’t always linear, but every experience you have whether it’s a success or failure, brings you one step closer to where you’re meant to be.

Awesome, really appreciate you opening up with us today and before we close maybe you can share a book recommendation with us. Has there been a book that’s been impactful in your growth and development?

The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom really stuck with me. It’s a simple story, but it carries such a powerful message, our lives are interconnected, and the impact we have on others often goes beyond what we can see.

That reminder is something I carry with me every day. It’s easy to feel like what we do doesn’t matter, but the truth is, every interaction, every conversation, every small act of kindness has the potential to change someone’s life. That’s one of the reasons I feel so passionate about what I do. Our stories matter, and having a space to process them can change everything.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/britney-vincent-san-antonio-tx/1379774
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/b-vincent/