Meet Chris Gillis

We recently connected with Chris Gillis and have shared our conversation below.

Chris, so good to have you with us today. We’ve always been impressed with folks who have a very clear sense of purpose and so maybe we can jump right in and talk about how you found your purpose?
I was raised by an extenlded family that consisted of 100% divorce. Not a single relative was without divorce and I had a deep desire and sense of fullfillment through creating powerful connections. After years of helping male and female friends navigate dating and relationship waters, and noticing that I invested all my free time outside of work studying effective communication and as well as the psychology of attraction, I decided to quit my last job of 15 years and purpose what I truly LOVE = helping good men, date great women.

Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?
I help women by helping men. Single women repeatedly ask “Where are all the GOOD men?” I help good men learn to market themselves and showcase their unique skills so that they can show up on the radar of the great women they’ve always been attracted to, but never been able to attract.

I am based out of Los Angeles but help men all over the world using 1-on-1 Zoom coaching as well as in-person coaching when they are in the Los Angeles are.

I help men with anything and everything dating related based on bespoke programs tailored to their individual needs. From: personal style, online dating app makeovers, new photos, DM’ing, first date planning, overcoming anxiety, body language, and increasing personal confidence.

All the wisdom you’ve shared today is sincerely appreciated. Before we go, can you tell us about the main challenge you are currently facing?
The number one obstacle I overcome now is getting men to understand that there is no end of life prize for suffering through feelings of loneliness or emptiness from remaining single. It’s unfortunate to report that 40% of men polled said it would take thoughts of suicide or self-harm to compel them to get professional help.

29% of men polled say they are “too embarrassed” to speak about their mental health, and most challenging when it comes to providing men the help they desire: 20% of men say there is a “negative stigma” on the issue of asking for help. 16% of men say that “don’t want to appear” weak by asking for professional help, thus keeping the stuck, and the women continuing asking “where are all the good men?”

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