Meet Dr Tracy J Dancy

We were lucky to catch up with Dr Tracy J Dancy recently and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Dr Tracy J, really happy you were able to join us today and we’re looking forward to sharing your story and insights with our readers. Let’s start with the heart of it all – purpose. How did you find your purpose?

My purpose wasn’t something I stumbled upon in a moment of clarity—it was something I had to fight my way toward through some of the darkest seasons of my life. After losing my second daughter, I found myself standing in a place where pain felt louder than anything else. But it was in that same place that God began revealing purpose to me.

In my grief, I realized that what tried to break me was actually shaping me. The love I carried for my children didn’t disappear; it needed somewhere to go. That love became the foundation of my purpose. I began sharing my story—not because it was easy, but because it was necessary. I wanted other grieving parents to know that even in the deepest valley, hope still breathes.

My purpose was discovered at the intersection of pain and healing. It grew from the desire to make sure no one walks through grief alone. Today, everything I do—my writing, my advocacy, my grief support work—is rooted in transforming pain into something that lifts others. Purpose found me in my breaking, and it became the reason I rose.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

My name is Dr. Tracy J. Dancy, and my story is one shaped by love, loss, and a commitment to turning pain into purpose. After losing two of my daughters, my life took a direction I never anticipated. I became a suicide awareness advocate and the visionary behind Soaring on Angels’ Wings™, a growing grief support community dedicated to helping parents and families navigate the kind of heartbreak that words often fail to express.

Professionally, I am an author, speaker, and healing advocate. I’ve contributed to several powerful anthologies, and I recently released Soaring on Angels’ Wings™: Grief Through Our Eyes, a grief anthology featuring courageous parents who share their journeys of child loss. Hosting the book launch and hearing how our stories are already helping others reminded me why this work is so important. I also speak on platforms nationwide—highlighting mental health, resilience, and the truth that healing is possible even after unimaginable pain.

What excites me most is watching others find their own light again. My brand is built on hope, transparency, and the belief that grief doesn’t have to silence us—it can shape us into vessels of strength. Every story shared, every person I meet who feels seen and supported, reinforces that mission.

I’m currently expanding the Soaring on Angels’ Wings™ brand. My next project is Grief Through Our Eyes – Sibling Edition, which will give surviving siblings a safe space to write, process, and heal. I’m also preparing to release a guided grief journal titled You Can Live Again: A Guided Journal Through the Valley of Grief, designed specifically for parents navigating loss.

This work is more than a business—it’s my calling. My prayer is that my journey reminds others that healing is not only possible, but beautiful. And no matter how heavy grief becomes, you can rise again… and when you do, you’ll discover that healing looks good on you.

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

When I look back over my journey, three qualities stand out as the most impactful in helping me rise, heal, and walk fully in my purpose: resilience, vulnerability, and faith-driven leadership.

1. Resilience – the ability to stand back up when life knocks you down.
Losing two of my daughters brought me to a place where breathing felt heavy. But resilience taught me that it was okay to take my time, to fall apart, and still choose to get back up.
Advice: For those early in their journey, start by taking small steps. Healing doesn’t happen all at once—it happens in moments. Allow yourself grace. Celebrate progress, even if it’s just getting out of bed. Resilience grows when you choose not to quit.

2. Vulnerability – giving myself permission to break open instead of breaking down.
Sharing my story publicly wasn’t easy. But vulnerability became the bridge that connected me to others who needed hope. It allowed me to serve, write, speak, and build Soaring on Angels’ Wings™ with authenticity.
Advice: Start by being honest with yourself first. Journal. Speak your truth out loud, even if it’s only to one safe person. Vulnerability is not weakness—it’s a powerful tool for connection, healing, and purpose.

3. Faith-Driven Leadership – allowing God to guide my steps even when I couldn’t see the road.
Every platform I’ve been given, every book, every speech, every parent I’ve met in their grief has been part of a calling greater than me. I lead with compassion, prayer, and the conviction that purpose can rise from pain.
Advice: Stay rooted. Whether through prayer, meditation, or quiet reflection, create space to hear from God or your inner spirit. Purpose reveals itself when you’re aligned, surrendered, and willing.

Ultimately, these three qualities shaped everything I am building today. My encouragement to anyone beginning their own journey is this: give yourself permission to grow slowly. Healing, purpose, and confidence develop through practice, patience, and presence. Keep showing up for yourself, even on the days you don’t feel strong. One day, you’ll look back and realize you didn’t just survive—you grew wings.

How can folks who want to work with you connect?

Yes, I am absolutely open to collaboration. The work I do through Soaring on Angels’ Wings™ is rooted in community, connection, and shared healing, so partnership is something I deeply value.

I am looking to collaborate with individuals and organizations who are passionate about:
• Grief support and mental health advocacy
• Suicide awareness and prevention
• Faith-based healing and empowerment
• Publishing, storytelling, and platforms that elevate real, raw, transformative narratives
• Educational institutions, nonprofits, and community groups that want to bring conversations about grief, resilience, and hope into their spaces
• Media outlets, podcasters, and event hosts looking for speakers who blend authenticity, lived experience, and inspiration

I also welcome partnerships with authors, coaches, counselors, and creatives who want to contribute to future grief anthologies, mental-health projects, or healing-centered initiatives.

For those interested in collaborating, the best way to connect with me is through:
• Email: [email protected]
• Website: www.tracydancy.com
• Facebook: Dr. Tracy J. Dancy

My vision continues to expand, and I believe healing has a ripple effect. When we work together, we don’t just reach more people—we create more space for hope to rise where pain once lived. If my mission resonates with you, I would love to connect and see how we can serve with purpose, compassion, and impact.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://Www.tracydancy.com
• Facebook: Dr Tracy J Dancy
• Linkedin: Dr. Tracy J. Dancy

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Jordi Foster