We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Elise Harris a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.
Elise, so good to have you with us today. We’ve got so much planned, so let’s jump right into it. We live in such a diverse world, and in many ways the world is getting better and more understanding but it’s far from perfect. There are so many times where folks find themselves in rooms or situations where they are the only ones that look like them – that might mean being the only woman of color in the room or the only person who grew up in a certain environment etc. Can you talk to us about how you’ve managed to thrive even in situations where you were the only one in the room?
Title: Thriving as the Only One in the Room: Navigating Success in Diversity
In a world where diversity is increasingly celebrated and encouraged, there are still moments when one finds themselves as the sole representative of their race, gender, ethnicity, or background in a professional or social setting. Being the only one in the room can present unique challenges, but it also offers opportunities for growth, resilience, and impactful leadership.
Embracing Individuality
When i’m the only one in the room as a African American it’s natural to feel a sense of isolation or self-consciousness. However, embracing my individuality can be a powerful asset. Recognizing that my unique perspective, experiences, and insights bring value to the table. Instead of trying to blend in, I learned to stand out and own my identity.
Cultivating Confidence
Confidence is key when navigating unfamiliar territory. I try to remind myself of the achievements, skills, and capabilities I already have. I trust in my abilities and expertise, regardless of whether or not I can conform to the majority in the room. Confidence not only boosts your own performance but also earns the respect of others.
Building Relationships
Seeking out opportunities to connect with others, both professionally and socially. Building relationships with colleagues, mentors, and allies can provide support, guidance, and a sense of belonging. I use to hesitate to initiate conversations, but now I ask questions, and share my perspectives. Authentic connections can help break down barriers and foster inclusivity.
Advocating for Inclusion
As the only one in the room, I have a unique opportunity to advocate for diversity and inclusion. Speak up against bias, discrimination, and stereotypes. Encourage organizations to embrace diversity in their hiring practices, policies, and culture. By being a vocal advocate, I not only create a more inclusive environment for me and other that share the and background but also for future generations.
Leveraging Differences
Instead of viewing differences as barriers, I try to see them as strengths. Diversity fosters creativity, innovation, and resilience. Which allows me to embrace the opportunity to learn from others who may have different backgrounds, perspectives, and ways of thinking. By leveraging the collective wisdom of a diverse group, you can achieve greater success and impact.
Leading by Example
As the only one in the room, I become a trailblazer and a role model for others who may follow in similar footsteps. Leading by example by demonstrating professionalism, integrity, and excellence in everything I do. Show others that diversity is not a limitation but a source of strength and opportunity. Inspire and empower those around you to embrace their own uniqueness and strive for success.
Conclusion
Being the only one in the room can be both challenging and empowering. By embracing your individuality, cultivating confidence, building relationships, advocating for inclusion, leveraging differences, and leading by example, you can navigate any situation with grace and resilience. Remember, your presence matters, and your contributions make a difference. Embrace the journey, and pave the way for a more diverse and inclusive future.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
Hello!
My name is Elise Harris I like to call myself a serial entrepreneur, I have skills and expertise and many industries. Since I was a little girl I knew I wanted to change the world and live and make big decisions and risk that most don’t. When I was 16 I started my very own boutique called Exquisite, From then on I knew that I wanted to bring the ideas that I had to life; when doing so it made me feel fulfilled it gave me a sense of purpose.
I’ve always been interested in real estate so when I graduated high school I put myself through real estate school I completed all my courses. I am currently preparing myself to take the test to become a licensed realtor. When I was 19 I started a real estate firm called Leasing With Lise were we specialized in leasing investor properties mending the bridges between owners and renters.
Navigating the business work have been breath of fresh air but it does come with a lot of challenges as well but, it gets easier the more I push at it and believe and myself and others around me, I am able to accomplish more than I give myself credit for. I recently have been working with not profits going to different mixers and panels exploring different rooms that can use my talents. I really love supporting entrepreneurs and creators with likeminded minds. Leasing With Lise is also in the process of giving back to the local community with. their 2nd annual stuff that bag school fundraiser.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
First and foremost knowledge is a very important thing to have it’s what get you to the next level. The following qualities is what allows me to receive the knowledge needed to successfully thrive in my industry.
Taking risks can be incredibly beneficial when you’re the only one in the room. It’s through risk-taking that you challenge the status quo, innovate, and carve out new paths for success. By stepping outside your comfort zone, you not only discover new opportunities but also demonstrate your willingness to push boundaries and embrace change. Risk-taking fosters growth, resilience, and a mindset of continuous learning, all of which are essential for navigating unfamiliar territory and achieving success in diverse environments.
Confidence is a powerful tool. It serves as a beacon of self-assurance that guides your actions and decisions, allowing you to assert your presence and expertise with conviction. With confidence, you can overcome imposter syndrome, stand firm in your convictions, and effectively communicate your ideas and perspectives. It not only bolsters your own performance but also commands respect from others, fostering trust and credibility. Ultimately, confidence empowers you to embrace your uniqueness, navigate unfamiliar territory with poise, and thrive in any environment.
Having an open mind is essential for success. It enables you to approach situations with curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to learn from diverse perspectives. With an open mind, you’re able to adapt to new ideas, experiences, and challenges, allowing you to broaden your horizons and expand your understanding of the world. By embracing different viewpoints and being receptive to feedback, you can foster collaboration, creativity, and innovation. An open mind not only enriches your own personal and professional growth but also contributes to creating inclusive and dynamic environments where everyone feels valued and heard.
These three traits are just some of they key things that have made the little girl the dreamed to be an entrepreneur an serial entrepreneur today!
Who has been most helpful in helping you overcome challenges or build and develop the essential skills, qualities or knowledge you needed to be successful?
My dad is my hero he helps me and guides me through this scary thing called life. He has been there from the start and I would love to show him that everything he taught me and all the knowledge he gives me will be used to do gods work and create a legacy for my family. I want to be able to gift my family finical freedom.
My dad taught me how to read when I was very little by 5 years old I was able to read chapter books. My parents were very stern about grades and things of that nature at the time it was a little annoying but now I see they were only preparing for the success that god promised me.
My dad have been helping me overcome every struggle I have every faced he was always there to pick me up and hype me up to get back up and come harder. He was there for me when my life took a turn and I lost my significant other to gun violence. He natured me back to health with his fatherly love.
The most important thing my dad has done in my life is introduce and teach me how to have a relationship with god who is my original creator who gave him the gift to look after me. With having these two powerful beings in my life I know I can overcome anything.
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