Meet Frankie “ Vaughny” Vaughn

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Frankie “ Vaughny” Vaughn. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Frankie “ Vaughny” below.

Hi Frankie “ Vaughny” , so excited to talk about all sorts of important topics with you today. The first one we want to jump into is about being the only one in the room – for some that’s being the only person of color or the only non-native English speaker or the only non-MBA, etc Can you talk to us about how you have managed to be successful even when you were the only one in the room that looked like you?

I’ve learned to walk into every room with authenticity and pure intentions. I don’t lead with insecurity or try to mold myself to fit into a space — I show up as me.
My focus is always on who and what I am in alignment with, not who I’m not. I believe in showing up to serve, to inspire, and just as importantly — to learn. I stay a student of life, no matter how much I grow.
That said, it doesn’t mean every space feels like fairy dust and good vibes. There are times I recognize when people don’t have good intentions or aren’t operating from a kind place. When that happens, I respond calmly and intentionally, based on the moment and the energy — but I never let it throw me off my center.
My success comes from staying committed to improving my craft, honoring my relationships, and always being led by good character. That’s what keeps me effective, even when I’m the only one in the room who looks like me.

Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?

I’m a multi-disciplinary creative — a hairstylist, content creator, and singer-songwriter — and I’ve finally embraced that fully. For a long time, having multiple passions felt like something I had to explain or downplay. It wasn’t always celebrated or taken seriously. But now I know: my ability to create across mediums is the gift. And I no longer shrink it.
My work is rooted in transformation — whether that’s through a hair service, a visual story, or a song. Everything I create is connected by a deep love for identity, culture, and evolution. I help women, especially those between 35 and 55, reconnect with themselves. Women who’ve been everything for everyone else — and are finally ready to rediscover her.
I recently returned to the salon in North Dallas, and it’s reminded me how powerful beauty can be. Hair is just the starting point. When a woman sees herself differently in the mirror, she starts to carry herself differently in life. That shift is sacred, and it’s one of my favorite parts of what I do.
Outside the salon, I create content that speaks to women in their reinvention era, and I’m also quietly developing a culturally-rooted homeschool curriculum that brings music, fashion, and storytelling into education. It’s still in the works, but like everything I do, it centers creative expression as a tool for connection and healing.
My artistry as a singer-songwriter is also a big part of my journey. Music is my first language. It’s how I process the world, and that rhythm flows into everything else I touch — whether it’s visuals, conversations, or community-building.
At the end of the day, I help women look good, feel seen, and live boldly. That’s what my brand is about. Whether I’m on stage, in the salon, or creating something behind the scenes — it’s all part of the same purpose: honoring the full spectrum of who we are and giving other women permission to do the same.

Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?

One of the most impactful shifts for me was realizing that I create my own reality. Not the things I’ve been through, not who hurt me, not the circumstances — me. Those situations shaped me, sure, but they don’t define what’s possible for my life. Once I took full responsibility for where I was, I started to see how much power I actually had. That shift changed everything.
The second quality I’d name is discernment — learning to trust my gut, honor my intuition, and stop overriding what I know to be true. I’ve learned that any form of rejection is usually protection. If something or someone is removed from your life, it’s often divine alignment — even if it hurts in the moment.
The third key is the ability to pivot — and to do so without shame. Life isn’t linear, and neither is your journey. Sometimes we outgrow things, or life asks us to expand in ways we didn’t plan for. Too many people let pride or fear of what others might think stop them from stepping into something new. Whether you’re a hairstylist who becomes a content creator or a singer who builds a homeschool curriculum — you’re allowed to evolve. You’re allowed to change your mind.
My advice? Don’t let the stories others project onto you become the blueprint for your life. Take responsibility, trust your gut, and stay open to the pivots. That’s where the magic — and the freedom — really lives.

Thanks so much for sharing all these insights with us today. Before we go, is there a book that’s played in important role in your development?

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself- Joe Dispenza

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