Meet Gabe Cox

We were lucky to catch up with Gabe Cox recently and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Gabe, appreciate you sitting with us today. Maybe we can start with a topic that we care deeply about because it’s something we’ve found really sets folks apart and can make all the difference in whether someone reaches their goals. Self discipline seems to have an outsized impact on how someone’s life plays out and so we’d love to hear about how you developed yours?

My self-discipline comes from a blend of faith, purpose, and intentional systems.

I’ve always believed that discipline isn’t about perfection. it’s about direction. As a faith-driven entrepreneur and mom, I learned early on that I can’t rely on motivation to get things done. Motivation fades, but habits built on purpose and accountability last.

For me, discipline starts with why: why I’m doing this work and who it’s for. When I’m clear on my calling and aligned with God’s plan, it’s easier to show up even when I don’t feel like it. That spiritual grounding gives me strength when distractions or doubt creep in.

Practically, I’ve built systems that support my capacity in each season. I plan ahead, prioritize what matters most, and protect my “CEO Time”—the focused blocks where I work on my business, not just in it. I also lead by example in my Red Hot Accountability Club, where we practice progress over perfection and use consistency as our superpower.

Discipline, to me, isn’t about hustling harder, it’s about stewarding my time, energy, and gifts well so I can create meaningful impact without burning out.

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?

I’m Gabe Cox, a goal planning and business strategist, founder of Red Hot Mindset, and creator of the ARISE Marketing Framework, where I help faith-fueled entrepreneurs grow their businesses without relying on social media.

My journey began when I was chasing goals the world told me mattered, more success, more hustle, more doing. But after hitting burnout, I realized I didn’t want a business that drained me; I wanted one that allowed me to live on purpose and with peace. That led me to create my signature approach to goal setting and marketing that focuses on working with your capacity in each season so you don’t have to sacrifice your family or faith to hit your goals.

Through my Red Hot Accountability Club, I coach entrepreneurs to simplify their systems, create sustainable marketing strategies, and take consistent action on what matters most. It’s an implementation-based membership. We don’t just say the thing, we put it in action in a way that works for our lives. What’s most exciting to me right now is watching members experience breakthrough moments, not because they did more, but because they focused better.

This year, my focus has been expanding the “Grow Your Biz Without Social” movement — an annual virtual event and community designed to help business owners build visibility and relationships in creative, life-giving ways beyond the scroll. We’re helping people see that you don’t need to play the social media game to make a meaningful impact or steady income.

At the heart of everything I do is the belief that discipline and grace can coexist, that success doesn’t come from striving harder, but from aligning your actions with your purpose and trusting God with the outcome.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

Looking back, the three most impactful qualities in my journey have been discipline, discernment, and adaptability.

1. Discipline – showing up even when it’s hard.

Discipline is the backbone of growth. It’s not about perfection, it’s about consistency with purpose. I learned early on that motivation is fleeting, but commitment creates results. Whether it’s building a business or deepening your faith, small, consistent steps compound over time.

My advice: Start with one non-negotiable habit that aligns with your goals and build from there. You don’t need to overhaul your life, just take the next faithful step.

2. Discernment – knowing what to say no to.

As entrepreneurs, we’re constantly bombarded with opportunities and ideas. Early on, I tried to do everything and ended up stretched thin and burned out. Learning to pause, pray, and prioritize what truly aligns with my calling has been crucial for my growth.

My advice: Don’t chase every shiny strategy. Learn to recognize what’s yours to carry in this season and what’s not.

3. Adaptability – growing through the seasons.

My business and life have evolved through many transitions: raising kids, shifting strategies, changing platforms. I’ve learned that success isn’t about sticking rigidly to one plan but about adjusting with grace while keeping your core mission steady.

My advice: Build flexible systems that serve you and allow room for growth. Expect change, and let it refine rather than derail you.

At the end of the day, these three qualities—discipline, discernment, and adaptability—helped me stay focused on my purpose, even when the path wasn’t clear. They’re the reason I can teach others to pursue their goals God’s way with peace, purpose, and perseverance.

What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Any advice or strategies?

When I feel overwhelmed, my first instinct used to be to push harder, to power through and get more done. But I’ve learned that hustle only multiplies the chaos. Now, I pause. I pray. And I prioritize.

The first thing I do is step back to get perspective. Overwhelm is often a sign that I’ve taken on too much or lost clarity on what truly matters right now. I’ll do a quick “brain dump” of everything on my mind, then ask: What’s actually mine to carry today?

From there, I reconnect with my purpose. I remind myself that my worth isn’t tied to my productivity, it’s in who I am and Who I belong to. That shift grounds me and helps me lead from peace, not panic.

Then I get practical. I restructure my schedule around capacity, not expectation. I lean on my systems: time-blocking, my CEO Time framework, and my daily “Top 3” list. Sometimes that means cutting the to-do list in half and giving myself permission to rest.

My advice: When overwhelm hits, don’t try to outwork it. Slow down long enough to reset your priorities and realign with your purpose. Productivity flows naturally when your peace is restored.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://redhotmindset.com/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@gabecox
• Other: Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pursuing-goals-gods-way-goal-planning-and-business/id1504519991