We recently connected with Jaida Pervis and have shared our conversation below.
Jaida, we sincerely appreciate you joining us today and agreeing to talk about some very personal topics. So, to kick things off, let’s talk about a tough one – divorce. Can you talk to us about how you overcame divorce?
Overcoming divorce was a journey that tested every fiber of my being. Marrying young, having met my partner in high school, the dissolution of our marriage felt like the shattering of a dream. With two young sons to raise, I had to summon strength I never knew I had. Heartbreak, as a young single mother, felt overwhelming at times. Yet, through therapy, the unwavering support of friends and family, and a commitment to self-care and reflection, I found my way back to myself. Today, I stand stronger than ever, having weathered the storm of heartache and emerged with a renewed sense of love and optimism. I cherish the bonds I’ve formed, both within and outside of romantic relationships, and I am a firm believer that love, in its many forms, has the power to heal and inspire.
Let’s take a small detour – maybe you can share a bit about yourself before we dive back into some of the other questions we had for you?
As a professional matchmaker, my role revolves around fostering meaningful connections between individuals seeking companionship. One of the things that truly makes this profession particularly rewarding is the opportunity to witness love blossoming and transforming lives. Drawing from my personal experience of navigating through a divorce, I bring a unique empathy and understanding to my clients. Having managed the complexities of separation, I’ve cultivated a deep appreciation for the resilience of love and the importance of genuine connections. My own journey has led me to guide others with compassion, reassuring them that despite setbacks, love still exists and can be rediscovered. Through careful curation and heartfelt guidance, the goal is to create beautiful pairings that endure and enrich the lives of those I bring together.
There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
In reflecting on my own journey, there are three qualities that stand out as particularly impactful. Firstly, empathy has been crucial in understanding client’ needs, desires, and truly being able to navigate sensitive situations with care. Secondly, effective, and open communication is essential in conveying ideas, and maintaining strong relationships with clients. Lastly, I believe a deep understanding of the science behind relationships and researching relationship dynamics has been invaluable in discerning compatibility, and offering tailored advice.
For those embarking on a similar journey, my advice would be to prioritize developing these qualities. Practice active listening, hone communication skills through regular interaction and be open to feedback. It’s important to never stop learning! Invest time in studying love and relationship dynamics to enhance understanding and foresight. Continuous learning, coupled with genuine passion and dedication, will pave the way for success in the matchmaking industry.
Who is your ideal client or what sort of characteristics would make someone an ideal client for you?
An ideal matchmaking client would be someone who is genuinely seeking a committed and meaningful relationship. They should possess self-awareness, knowing what they want and need in a partner, while also being open to growth and compromise. A willingness to communicate openly and honestly about their preferences, values, and aspirations is crucial. Additionally, they should be emotionally ready and available for a relationship, having healed from past wounds and ready to invest time and effort into building a connection with a compatible partner. A positive attitude, patience, and trust in the matchmaking process are also qualities that contribute to an ideal client.
Contact Info:
- Website: flirtingwithforever.info
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakerjaida/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jaida.noelle1/
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaida-pervis-38716910/
