Meet Kali Banks

We recently connected with Kali Banks and have shared our conversation below.

Hi Kali, really happy you were able to join us today and we’re looking forward to sharing your story and insights with our readers. Let’s start with the heart of it all – purpose. How did you find your purpose?

I found my purpose when I found myself. This journey began with a deep, personal quest for answers and solutions. I was exhausted by suffering and had to confront the reality that I didn’t have the answers. The things I was doing, and the places I was looking, weren’t providing them either. In a moment of surrender, I turned to the Creator as I had many times before—but this time was different. For the first time, I was sincere enough to stop, be still, and truly listen.

What I heard in that silence changed everything. I realized the Creator’s voice was within me. This revelation sparked my devotion to learning how to quiet myself enough to consistently hear and follow that guidance. Through this process, I experienced unconditional self-love for the first time in my life—free of judgment and rooted in the pure connection to the Creator.

This profound shift sent me on a path of self-mastery: becoming and living as my highest self. I discovered that my purpose is twofold: first, to embody this highest version of myself, and second, to serve as an example and guide for others to do the same. My journey is about inspiring others to awaken to their own potential, align with their inner truth, and realize their unique purpose.

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?

I am a self-published author of Awareness Is Evolution: An Introduction to Self-Elevation, a transformative book designed to inspire emotional intelligence and guide readers on a journey of self-realization. This work is my first publication and a heartfelt gift to humanity. It empowers individuals to discover their true selves by shedding illusions of separation and embracing unity. The book serves as a guide for self-awareness and personal growth.

In addition to this, I am currently in the process of completing my second book, which I expect to release at the beginning of the year. It will also be available on my website, KaliJBanks.com.

Beyond writing, I provide life coaching services, offering both group and one-on-one sessions tailored to support individuals on their path to self-elevation. I’m also available for lectures and Q&A sessions, where I share insights and actionable tools to inspire change.

I’m also the founder of Denepo Education, a program dedicated to teaching emotional intelligence to diverse audiences. Denepo serves middle and high school students, children in correctional facilities, educators, administrators, and professionals in the corporate world. Our mission is to develop self-awareness, coping strategies, and leadership skills within inclusive, supportive environments. At Denepo, we aim to cultivate a culture of personal growth, where individuals are empowered to better understand themselves and others. For more information, visit DenepoEducation.com.

This journey of sharing tools for emotional intelligence and self-elevation has been profoundly rewarding, and I’m excited to expand these efforts with the upcoming release of my second book and other initiatives in the near future. I am also always open to collaborating with likeminded people.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

What three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge were most impactful in your journey?

The three most impactful aspects of my journey are acceptance, awareness, and gratitude.

Acceptance has been a cornerstone for my growth because it allows me to be present. Presence is the gateway to eternity and infinite possibilities. By accepting what is, I remain open to the flow of life and grounded in the here and now.

Awareness has transformed my life in profound ways. Expanding my awareness has not only allowed me to intimately know myself but also to deeply understand others and life as a whole. Through this expansion, I’ve gained clarity, compassion, and empathy, enabling me to see beyond myself and connect to a greater whole.

Gratitude has opened the door to appreciation, contentment, and happiness. By being grateful for all that I perceive and comprehend—and even for what I cannot—I have found peace. Gratitude for what is has enabled me to remain content and unbothered by what is not.

What advice do you have for those early in their journey on how to develop or improve these?

For those seeking to cultivate acceptance, recognize this truth: your essence is Divine, the same divinity that creates all life and existence. Everything in life is ultimately working in your favor, no matter how it appears or how it feels. By not resisting and simply accepting what is, you allow life to unfold perfectly for you. Trust this process, and you’ll find peace in even the most challenging situations.

To expand awareness, become conscious of your own consciousness. Observe your thoughts and experiences from a place of detachment. You are the knower, not what is known. You are the observer of your thoughts and the witness of your experiences, but you are not defined by them. Practicing this perspective will help you tap into your infinite awareness.

To strengthen gratitude, practice it with intention. Be grateful for all that exists, regardless of how it feels or how you interpret it. Release labels such as good or bad, right or wrong, fortunate or unfortunate. Simply give thanks for everything, and if possible, let gratitude flow as naturally as your breath. The more you embrace gratitude, the more you’ll open yourself to joy, abundance, and contentment.

Okay, so before we go we always love to ask if you are looking for folks to partner or collaborate with?

I am absolutely open to collaborating with anyone whose vision aligns with my message and purpose. I’m passionate about connecting with like-minded individuals, organizations, and communities that are committed to improving the human condition in meaningful ways—whether through education, personal empowerment, or spreading messages of love and unity.

I’m especially drawn to collaborators who are changemakers, thought leaders, educators, spiritual seekers, creatives, and entrepreneurs working to uplift others and expand collective consciousness. Whether you’re building a brand, creating impactful content, or designing programs that inspire transformation, I’d love to work together to amplify these efforts.

I aim to share my books and ideas with a broader audience, empowering individuals to awaken to their higher potential, deepen their understanding of unconditional love, and cultivate emotional intelligence. At the same time, I’m eager to support others in advancing their own missions, helping them expand their reach, refine their messages, and create lasting impact.

If my message resonates with you, I’d love to connect. You can reach me through email kbanks@denepo.net my websites KaliJBanks.com and Denepoeducation.com My social media is all under my name Kali J. Banks, please follow me and reach out there too if it’s more convenient.
Let’s collaborate to inspire growth, create unity, and make a positive difference in the world!

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