Meet Kimberly Tocco

We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Kimberly Tocco a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.

Kimberly, we are so appreciative of you taking the time to open up about the extremely important, albeit personal, topic of mental health. Can you talk to us about your journey and how you were able to overcome the challenges related to mental issues? For readers, please note this is not medical advice, we are not doctors, you should always consult professionals for advice and that this is merely one person sharing their story and experience.
Women have the most challenges when it comes to balancing the entrepreneur and leadership roles in our society today as we juggle motherhood, career expectations, emotional stress and our intimate relationships. All to often the sledgehammers of life come along and can knock us off track and place us in a stagnancy in our trajectory because we have not been able to identify our purpose in the drive to become leaders and entrepreneurs. We have forgotten how to love ourselves and how to access that grace and calm which is a woman’s superpower. Thirteen years ago, a stay at home mom with just a GED getting my four sons ready for school I got into an argument with my then 13 year old son and out of nowhere he walked upstairs and shot himself dying in my arms before the ambulance could arrive. There were so many things that came with the ripple effect of horrifying event, the stigma of suicide, the questions and most of all, how do I continue to choose life after something like this? Thoughts of ending your life, not being able to push back the depression, anxiety and pain is thought of as a “mental health” issue yet it is not! These are trapped trauma energies that we can work through without medications or drugs. Suicide is free will, staring back at you and asking you to choose. If in that moment you are in your darkest hour you will have a choice to make and that choice will have a ripple effect on everyone and everything around you. I realized that stories are the base of every teaching yet it isn’t just enough to share your story and expect to be the change, you have to overcome and be hugely successful for others to see the TESTIMONY that they can. Now the Country’s first certified metaphysical real estate agent, spiritual psychologist, two time best selling author and international speakerI share the process in which we can transmute our suffering into a fire of purpose and find joy again. It is through these manifestations that we the broken become unbreakable and change the trajectory of our lives. It is not what you go through, it is how you come through it…and I am the testimony that you can.

Great, so let’s take a few minutes and cover your story. What should folks know about you and what you do?
Two years after my 13 year old son walked upstairs and shot himself, dying in my arms, I found that I could no longer just sit in my suffering and expect to survive. I didn’t just want to survive, I needed to take over his legacy and change the foundation of suicide he left behind to one of life…yet how was I going to do that at 41, a stay at home mom to three other boys and a woman who’s education was a high school drop out? With two special needs kids I had to find something I could do from home but first it was my goal just to get us out of the rental we were in and change the foundation. After trying to get a loan and an agent to help us and turned down because of what we had been through and our impossible credit history, I ended up using our tax return money and pushing myself to get through real estate school in 18 days, getting a grant from the state and an extenuating circumstance loan and closing on a home 45 days later under impossible odds! From that moment I realized while I had lost everything in that moment my son died, the one thing I could still access was my tenacity and the one thing that lead me to my goal was that resilience. After handing the keys to our new home to my husband and watching how his face changed into joy I knew there was a need for my tenacity in the real estate market. Since that time and going through many trials and errors, sticking true to my vision and achieving undeniable feats in record breaking sales, I developed the Country’s first Metaphysical real estate experience. Through understanding energy, I help families and individuals who have been through hardships start a new chapter. Now a million dollar producer, giving back over $350,000 to assist in closing costs and equity, a certified spiritual psychologist, best selling author and international speaker changing the trajectory of others lives through purpose. My brands Tenacious Real Estate, podcast Tenacious Thoughts, videos and posts Tenacious Productions and charity Tenacious Angels have become the ripple effect of who my son was meant to be. “It is not what you go through, it is how you come through it. ”

There is so much advice out there about all the different skills and qualities folks need to develop in order to succeed in today’s highly competitive environment and often it can feel overwhelming. So, if we had to break it down to just the three that matter most, which three skills or qualities would you focus on?
We all have sledgehammers in life and those traumatic moments become the tools that help us breakthrough and become who we were always meant to be. Each time I felt that dark trickster energy move forward and that I could not continue, I reached in and pulled out my tenacity. I knew that if I was to give up I would never honor my son in the way he deserved. I learned how to love myself through achieving a resilience and discipline through healthy daily habits and by getting into the rooms of successful entrepreneurs who did the same. Through esoteric studies of the Greats I understood self worth only is achieved by loving oneself and that is what saved me.

How can folks who want to work with you connect?
This Country is headed down a dark slope with over 5000 people attempting suicide on a daily basis and the ever increasing fentanyl crisis. The regular “Joe’s” have lost their jobs and homes to the big pharma and corporate greed and no longer know where to turn or that they have the ability to expand and build their own businesses. My technique and two hour events, private groups, dinners and speaking shift others into remembering who they are and that saving themselves is all they need to do. If you are looking to inspire your company, shift your trajectory, heal others through energy and metaphysical work or learn the ,methods of which I change lives, let’s collaborate. As a general in the Global community Girl Hold My Hand and under Stormy Wellington, we have the ability to reach millions.

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