We were lucky to catch up with Koko Russo recently and have shared our conversation below.
Koko, we sincerely appreciate you joining us today and agreeing to talk about some very personal topics. So, to kick things off, let’s talk about a tough one – divorce. Can you talk to us about how you overcame divorce?
going through a divorce as a professional certified matchmaker and a mother to three young children can be particularly challenging. Here are some tailored strategies that help me through this journey:
1. Prioritize Self-Care
Emotional Well-being: Engage in activities that help you relax and recharge, such as meditation, exercise, or hobbies you enjoy. Consider seeking therapy or counseling to process your emotions and gain insights into your experiences.
Physical Health: Maintain a healthy lifestyle by eating well, getting enough sleep, and staying active. Physical health can significantly impact your emotional resilience.
2. Lean on Your Support Network
Family and Friends: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who can provide emotional support and practical help with your children. my best friend Partrick Nguyen & Beautiful girlfriend Kaity wright also my children’s god mother. Plays a good part with my children
Going through a divorce while balancing your roles as a professional certified matchmaker and a mother can be incredibly challenging. Here are some strategies that help me through this difficult time:
As a Professional Matchmaker:
Leverage Your Network: Reach out to my fellow matchmakers and industry professionals for support and advice. They offer valuable insights and emotional support. that really help me
Maintain Professionalism: Keep your work life organized and set clear boundaries between your personal and professional life. This help me stay focused and productive.
Self-Care: Prioritize self-care to maintain your mental and emotional well-being. This can include activities like exercise, meditation, or hobbies that you enjoy.
Seek Professional Help: Consider talking to a therapist who specializes in divorce-related issues. They provide tools and perspectives to help me and my ex-Husband jay Russo cope and prepared us for co-parenting
And as a
Mother Open Communication really help me to Be honest with our children about the situation, using age-appropriate language. Reassure them that both i and there father love them and that the divorce is not their fault.
Create Stability: Establish routines to provide a sense of stability and security for our children. Consistent schedules can help them feel more secure during this time of change.
we also use Emotional Support for our children by Encourage them to express their feelings and provide them with . family therapy as tokening care of myself as well
Combining Both Roles:
Time Management: Use tools like planners or apps to manage your time effectively. Balancing work and family responsibilities can be easier with a well-organized schedule.
Set Realistic Goals: Understand that it’s okay to adjust your expectations and goals during this period. Give yourself grace and time to heal.
Support System: Lean on friends, family, and professional networks for support. Don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need its the best thing to do
Remember, it’s okay to have a range of emotions during this time. Healing is a process, and it’s important to be kind to yourself as you navigate this new chapter in your life.
Thanks for sharing that. So, before we get any further into our conversation, can you tell our readers a bit about yourself and what you’re working on?
I am forces on my new business I use to be the owner and founder of Genesis2:18Matchmaking services that me and my husband had started who is now my ex-husband Jay Russo. that i decide to shut down and open up a new firm not just targeting Christian singles man and women like genesis2:18matchmaking services inc did. NO, this new business targets all walks of life Christian and none-Christian clients single man women the LGBTQ-plus community widows and divorce.
what I am trying to say in a nutshell single only i also have a new business partner CEO Christel prater and i myself coo Koko Russo we make a good team i am 36 years old African American female she is a 53-year-old white American female the name of our new company is called ITS A MATCH LLC located in Santa Rosa Beach 53-year-old
Looking back, what do you think were the three qualities, skills, or areas of knowledge that were most impactful in your journey? What advice do you have for folks who are early in their journey in terms of how they can best develop or improve on these?
As a professional certified matchmaker, there are several key qualities, skills, and areas of knowledge that are for success.
Qualities:
1. **Empathy**: Understanding and sharing the feelings of your clients is essential. This helps in building trust and creating a comfortable environment for them to open up about their needs and desires¹.
2. **Patience**: Matchmaking can be a lengthy process, and it’s important to remain patient and persistent, both with clients and potential matches².
3. **Discretion**: Maintaining confidentiality and handling sensitive information with care is vital to building and maintaining trust with your clients².
Skills:
1. **Interpersonal Skills**: Being able to communicate effectively and build rapport with clients is crucial. This includes active listening and asking the right questions to understand their needs⁶.
2. **Analytical Skills**: Assessing compatibility between clients and potential matches requires a keen eye for detail and the ability to analyze various factors such as personality, values, and interests⁸.
3. **Networking**: Having a wide network of singles and other matchmakers can greatly enhance your ability to find suitable matches for your clients⁴.
### Areas of Knowledge:
1. **Human Psychology**: Understanding human behavior, relationship dynamics, and personality traits can help you make more informed decisions when matching clients⁶.
2. **Cultural Competence**: Being aware of and sensitive to different cultural backgrounds and practices can help you better serve a diverse clientele[^10^].
3. **Technology and Tools**: Familiarity with matchmaking software, databases, and other tools can streamline your processes and improve efficiency[^10^].
These qualities, skills, and areas of knowledge can help you excel in my role as a matchmaker and provide the best possible service to our clients. At IT’S A MATCH LLC
Okay, so before we go, is there anyone you’d like to shoutout for the role they’ve played in helping you develop the essential skills or overcome challenges along the way?
first of my children especially my son who only 10 years old the reason why i bring him up is because he is a nonverbal autistic little boy name Delvecchio Russo and he teacher me how to be patients no matter how hard the road may seem just by me sharing this it brights tears to my eyes I love my little autistic son with all my heart thank you DelVecchio Russo for showing me how to be patient’. my 6 year old Naomi Russo for showing me how to never give up or in if you really want something in life because she doesn’t at all HAHAHA
my 7 year old autumn russo and ex husband jay russo for the big encougment they both have done
second my friends/best friend/and god mother of my childern for helping me over come social anxiety, and fear becoming a business owner specialty a matchmaker who divorce with 3 kids letting me know and understand i should not worry what people might think about me they don’t know what I went through in my marriage I should have right to be happy and start over thank you all to my friends
my mom and sister and father letting ,me know i can stand on my own i can do it
last person my business partner Ceo Christel prater for showing me i can succussed
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.Itsamatchmasking.com
- Instagram:
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keyokarusso
Image Credits
pictures took by sheila darlene Boutwell name of the company sheila Boutwell Photography thats the lady that took my pictures pictures of my ex husband kids are taking by russo family and hair and makeup is done by Rapunzels Hair Studio located in fort walton beach fl women/ hispanic own
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