Meet Monica O’Neal-Ivey

 

We’re excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Monica O’Neal-Ivey. We hope you’ll enjoy our conversation with Monica below.

Monica, we’re thrilled to have you sharing your thoughts and lessons with our community. So, for folks who are at a stage in their life or career where they are trying to be more resilient, can you share where you get your resilience from?

I’d say my remarkable resilience stems from a life of experiences which have shaped me into the steadfast individual I am today. Growing up in a bustling household filled with hard times, I learned early on the importance of never giving up! Witnessing my parents’ unwavering work ethic as they balanced their own struggles to provide for the family instilled in me a deep sense of determination and grit. Growing up each setback, rather than serving as a deterrent, became a stepping stone; every difficulty transformed into a lesson learned. In times of trial, I turned to the grounding practices of mindfulness and self-reflection, which allows me to regain clarity and focus, drawing upon a wellspring of resilience built over years. Ultimately, it is this combination of a supportive upbringing, transformative life lessons, and a proactive approach to personal growth that empowers me to rise every time I stumble, embodying the true spirit of resilience.

Appreciate the insights and wisdom. Before we dig deeper and ask you about the skills that matter and more, maybe you can tell our readers about yourself?

Elysian Officiant Services LLC. is your go-to destination for personalized officiant services, making your special moments truly unforgettable. We specialize in conducting ceremonies that celebrate life’s most significant occasions with professionalism and heartfelt authenticity. What sets Elysian apart is our commitment to expanding our offerings to better serve our clients: we now provide apostille services to streamline your document needs and are excited to include fingerprinting services as part of our comprehensive suite. As we grow, we’re also in the process of transitioning our notarization services away from our service partner. Since recently being commissioned by the State of NC as a Notary Public I will begin completing our notarizations to ensure a smoother experience for our clientele (Sidenote- As we move closer to the holiday season we will begin accepting anonymous prayer requests from those who may want a simple word of prayer. Our hearts go out to those in our community during the holiday season. You just never know how the holidays affect everyone. Therefore, we will begin offering several free services within the community between November 1, 2024 and January 3, 2025.
Many don’t know that we have a small ministry aside from our officiating services/business. Over the next few months we’ll be sharing more information about our inspirational ministry on our Podcast show.) while I have the chance I must say, at Elysian Officiant Services LLC. we are dedicated to delivering quality and convenience, ensuring every detail is handled with care and expertise, so you can focus on what truly matters—celebrating your milestones.

If you had to pick three qualities that are most important to develop, which three would you say matter most?

I can definitely say faith in my Lord and Savior has significantly influenced my journey to success. As we know achieving success can be challenging and overwhelming, but faith provides the necessary strength to persevere.
Also, identifying a niche is crucial for success; offering services that are both needed and desired is essential. My advice for beginners, seek guidance from a higher power and find a good success coach. Last but not least be sure you are providing a product or service that fulfills a need, that is key to building a successful venture.

What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Any advice or strategies?

When I feel overwhelmed, I have a unique approach to reconnecting with myself and regaining my composure in the chaos of life. I find solace in a quiet corner of my home or office. There I can indulge in a few moments of mindfulness, practicing deep breathing exercises that help me center my thoughts and calm my racing heart.
After grounding myself, often I’ll write in my journal, a space where I can pour out my feelings and articulate the thoughts swirling in my mind, which then help me transform my sense of overwhelming thoughts into tangible words on the page.
To further soothe my senses, I enjoy brewing a warm cup of tea, preferably chamomile or lavender. (Those are my favorites.) As I sip slowly, I’m allowing each sip to wash away stress. If the weather permits, I will step outside for a short walk, embracing nature’s beauty and letting the fresh air rejuvenate my spirit.
This blend of mindfulness, creativity, and connection with the natural world becomes my remedy, enabling me to emerge from feeling overwhelmed to feeling refreshed, focused, and ready to take on whatever challenges lie ahead.

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